In this episode Gerhard shares about the pain he is experiencing, how he has used breathwork to help get through the pain and keep his head strong and how this tatau will change the way he dresses and holds himself.

We hope you are enjoying this journey so far and thank you again for taking the time to listen. We appreciate you!

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Gerhard had a two day break before his second session which was a short one. We chat about how emotional our weekend was, the importance of clear communication during this experience and Vanessa's lesson in putting her own shit aside in order to serve fully.

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We are almost two weeks into this journey and after each session we have been recording little updates!

Enjoy day one and reach out if you have any questions we would love to hear from you.

We know that you could be listening to so many other podcasts so we appreciate the f**k out of you that you have taken the time to listen to us xx

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Vanessa is joined by her mother Ani where she shares her experience witnessing her daughter receive her Moko Kauae.

Ani shares her previous views on moko kauae, being Maori, watching Gerhard through his pe'a journey and what she has taken away from this whole experience.

It was an honour to have her on the podcast!

More mother daughter episodes to come

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Here is the first episode of many where we document Gerhard's thoughts and experiences before getting his pe'a.

He shares about how he is feeling the day before and what has come up for him the last few months to prepare for the tattoo.

We talked about kids witnessing their parents go through something hard and how that can have an impact on them.

We hope you enjoy this series and keep an eye out on insta @nessvoigt for daily updates. 

Does your partner/lover really know what turns you on? Have your shared your deepest darkest desires? Are you relying on someone else to fulfil your pleasure?

In this juicy episode Gerhard and Vanessa talk about how sharing our deepest desires with one another has been the biggest turn on and how its affected other areas of our lives.

We share our views on each other being friends with the opposite sex. How we dealt with insecurity and jealousy within our relationship when it came to friendship. We cover being honest with ourselves when interacting with others and also topics that seem to be taboo when talking to the opposite sex.

Gerhard and I discuss the difference between ownership and partnership within our own marriage. Gerhard shares about his resentment towards me and also the importance of spending time away from each other.

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Gerhard and I talk about how NOT being yourself in the workplace can affect you and your mental health. We chat a little bit about our money story and also why we are ourselves at all times around our kids and their friends.

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Gerhard and I discuss why we chose a homebirth/waterbirth for our sons birth who is now 2 years old. We talk about the impact it has had on our family, why it was important for the kids to be apart of this process and why we didn't enjoy birthing in a hospital for our first birth.

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