Comfortably Me Podcast

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Comfortably Me Podcast episodes

September 28 How I Deal With Lust While Waiting Until Marriage
Can we have an honest conversation about lust, sex, abstinence, and waiting for marriage? Because loving God doesn't mean sexual desire suddenly disappears.

In this video, I'm getting VERY transparent about my own struggle with waiting, honoring God with my body, dealing with lust and sexual desires, loneliness, temptation, and those moments when I'm simply tired of waiting.

I'm not coming to you as someone who has mastered this. I'm coming as a woman who loves God, desires marriage, and is actively learning what it looks like to choose obedience even when my flesh wants something different.

We're talking about:
💕 The difference between sexual desire and lust
💕 Why abstinence can become harder the longer you wait
💕 Dealing with loneliness and sexual frustration
💕 Setting boundaries BEFORE temptation comes
💕 Honoring your body without being ashamed of your sexuality
💕 What to do when you genuinely feel like giving up
💕 Trusting God when marriage isn't happening on your timeline
💕 Choosing obedience without making marriage the “reward”

If you've ever thought, “God, I'm trying to do this Your way, but I'm tired,” this conversation is for you.

You are not the only woman navigating this. Let's have the conversations that sometimes feel uncomfortable to have in Christian spaces.

📖 SCRIPTURES MENTIONED:
1 Corinthians 6:18–20
1 Corinthians 10:13
2 Timothy 2:22
James 1:14–15
Romans 8:1
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September 10 Why Forgiveness Is NOT For Them (It’s For You)
Forgiveness is a difficult process, but it is necessary for peace. Learn how to let go of past hurts and move forward with clarity.

Many people struggle with the weight of resentment, not realizing how much it limits their present life. This discussion explores the emotional journey of releasing anger and finding a path toward healing. We break down why choosing to forgive is an act of self-care rather than a favor to someone else, helping you reclaim your mental energy.

If you have been holding onto pain, this perspective on emotional healing might offer the relief you need. Understanding how to practice forgiveness allows you to stop replaying old conflicts and focus on your personal growth instead. By addressing these heavy feelings directly, you can begin to create space for more positive experiences.

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July 29 I Watched Keke Palmer’s Oprah Interview 4 Times—Here’s What I Learned
I watched Keke Palmer’s interview with Oprah Winfrey four times, and each time I discovered another lesson about knowing your worth, navigating criticism, choosing healthy relationships, and defining success in a meaningful way.

In this video, I’m sharing my biggest takeaways from “Oprah Winfrey on Knowing Your Worth,” an episode of the Baby, This Is Keke Palmer podcast. This wasn’t just a celebrity conversation—it felt like a masterclass in self-worth, love, friendship, mentorship, purpose, and personal freedom.
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July 16 Why Idleness Is More Dangerous Than You Think
God intended for us all to be fruitful, so it's important to starve the distractions that will try to derail you from succeeding. In today's episode, I go over my own struggle with overconsumption and the consequences of it all. This is where we learn and grow!

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April 15 Exiting Your Lazy Girl Season
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EXIT Your Lazy Girl Era NOW | Discipline, Habits & Leveling Up Your Life

It’s time to exit your lazy girl era and step into discipline, consistency, and real growth. This is your wake-up call.

If you’ve been procrastinating, lacking motivation, or stuck in bad habits, this video will help you reset your mindset and start taking control of your life again. Growth doesn’t happen when you stay comfortable — it happens when you choose discipline over excuses.

In this video, we talk about:
• How to stop being lazy and take action
• Building discipline and daily habits
• Breaking procrastination and distractions
• Creating a productive routine
• Becoming the best version of yourself
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April 13 God Delivered Me From Alcohol
God Delivered Me From Alcohol… This Is My Testimony | From Addiction to Freedom

In today’s video, I go over my testimony of how God deliver me from alcoholism.

God delivered me from alcohol, and I’m sharing my testimony to give hope to anyone who feels stuck, lost, or struggling with addiction.

There was a time when alcohol had control over my life. I felt trapped, empty, and disconnected. But everything changed when I surrendered and allowed God to step in. This is not just about quitting alcohol — this is about healing, freedom, and transformation.

If you’re battling addiction, temptation, or feeling like you can’t break free, I want you to know this: freedom is possible. Your story is not over.

In this video, I share:
• My struggle with alcohol
• The turning point that changed everything
• How God delivered me and gave me strength
• What helped me stay free and disciplined
• Encouragement for anyone fighting addiction
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February 19 10 Things I No Longer Do as a Woman of God
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39 min
February 16 Be Okay with saying No!
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December 02, 2025 GOD NEEDS YOU TO LOCK IN
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November 16, 2025 Lessons I Learned in My 20s (So You Don’t Have To)
In this video, I’m sharing the biggest lessons I learned in my 20s — about friendships, finances, relationships, mindset, and my walk with God. These are the mistakes, revelations, and moments that changed me, and I pray they help you avoid unnecessary pain and step into wisdom sooner. If you’re in your 20s (or even your 30s), this is for you. 💕✨

📖 Scriptures:
Amos 3:3 • Proverbs 21:20 • 1 Corinthians 13 • Romans 12:2 • Matthew 6:33

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