It’s easy to get into the habit of hustling. Especially when you have goals to achieve. There are ways to get things done without getting caught in the cycle of hustling. It’s OK to level up and work hard. Just try to find balance so you are not always grinding. Burnout is real and you don’t want to exhaust yourself to the point of breaking down. Find your pace and see it through. There may be a lot of blind spots on this womanhood journey but if you truly want change you will learn to embrace the new. 

We are not encouraged often to show our True Colors. We are often encouraged to adapt to our environment verses being who we really are. I am giving you a pass today to show up in All spaces as your authentic self Unapologetically. No more hiding behind the person you have created to survive. There is a time for change and there is a time to be content. You are enough. Learn to embrace All parts of yourself, the healed and unhealed versions. Walk boldly and be confident in the woman you have become. Be Uncompromising About Who You Are! 

There is absolutely no need to bare hard things alone. We all need help at some point in our lives. Be courageous and ask for help when needed. There is no “strong independent women” award valuable enough to take on life alone. Let’s not be empowered by not asking for help. 

I would love for us even as strangers to be our sister’s keeper. We are all sisters, we all benefit when we are able to show up for one another as women. Can you imagine what would happen if we as women created a safe space for other women to be vulnerable and share things we struggle with without the side eye? Let’s commit to being that safe space. Let us keep the positive energy flowing between us and continue to embrace each other with our arms wide open. 

Check out this episode where I’m sharing ways you can hold yourself accountable to change. Often times we are holding others accountable for their actions and behaviors but not our own. This is very easy to do taking the focus off ourselves and acknowledging the way WE show up. Accountability goes both ways. Be mindful of undesirable behaviors like lashing out when the heat rises in situations. The next time you‘re put in an uncomfortable situation where a conflict arises Challenge Yourself to be a wise person. We must hold ourselves accountable and rise to the occasion. No Excuses. 

When looking in the mirror what do you see? Do you see a beautiful and intelligent woman? I hope you see a woman who is fierce and bold in her being. Accepting ALL parts of you is a powerful thing. When you learn to embrace yourself in a healthy way it makes life‘s journey so much easier. So why complicate things? Let’s be intentional about how we care for ourselves. Take the responsibility of pouring into you seriously because it is a serious matter. You deserve The Best even from You. 

One of the most intimate forms of love is self-love. It is the most genuine and unmatched love. Unfortunately it is sometimes the form of love we lack the most. As women it is so important to have self-compassion and love ourselves as we do others. Self-care is one of the ways to pour back into you. Also accepting all parts of you the good, bad, and ugly. Learn to be unapologetic about who you are as a woman. Afterall, you were uniquely created by God and there is no one else in the world like you. Remember you are Good, Worthy, and Add Value. You Are Enough!