Communicate to Lead

Want to know the secret weapon of highly successful leaders? 

It's not some hidden talent or stroke of luck. It's their strategic use of feedback. In this episode, I reveal the 3 types of people they turn to for invaluable insights.

What You'll Discover:

• Why feedback is crucial for leadership growth, even when it feels uncomfortable.
• How to unlock honest and actionable insights from your team, peers, and mentors.
• Specific tips on asking the right questions and creating a safe space for feedback.
• Actionable steps you can take right now to start receiving transformative feedback.

Remember that feedback is a gift, not a criticism. Embrace it, learn from it, and watch your leadership soar!

Challenge yourself this week to ask for feedback from one person from these three groups. Take that first step towards becoming an exceptional leader.

Additional Podcast Episodes on the Power of Feedback:

• Episode 7 - Two Ways to Foster a Culture of Feedback
• Episode 20 - Building Trust Within Your Team Starts With You as the Leader 
• Episode 25 - The Power of Leadership Accountability

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://calendly.com/kele-thetailoredapproach/leadership-clarity-call 

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Imagine standing on a stage, all eyes on you, feeling confident and in control, knowing that every word you speak will captivate your audience. That feeling of empowerment is exactly what we’re diving into today. 

In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Adriana Baer, a dynamic communicator and coach who helps individuals step into their power and command the stage. We have a fascinating conversation about the essence of claiming your center stage and how you can engage your audience in a way that leaves them wanting more. Adriana shares invaluable insights and practical tips that you can start implementing immediately.

Here’s what you can expect from the episode:

• Understand the importance of storytelling in public speaking.
• Discover strategies to overcome nerves and build confidence.
• Master effective communication techniques to engage your audience.
• Tailor your presentation content to suit different audience needs.
• Implement practical tips for managing unexpected events during speeches.

Adriana Baer is a public speaking coach who helps clients claim their stage, boost their confidence, and enhance their impact. With over 20 years as a theater director and arts leader, Adriana offers a unique perspective and practical tools for effective communication. She has lectured at theaters, colleges, and universities nationwide and offers coaching through her company, Claim Center Stage.

Adriana shared valuable tips in this episode, so I encourage you to revisit the episode and implement her insights. You’re so ready to take center stage and captivate your audience!

Connect with Adriana Baer:

• Website: https://www.claimcenterstage.com/guest 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adrianabaer 
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adrianabaer/ 

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download the free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall 

Connect with Kele Belton:

• LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 
• Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Tired of watching your audience's eyes glaze over during your presentations? Have you ever wondered how some speakers effortlessly captivate a room while others fade into the background?

In this episode, I unpack the three proven strategies that can completely transform your presentations from forgettable to unforgettable. These aren't your typical tips and tricks; they're the secrets that truly set exceptional presenters apart.

If you're ready to ditch the boring bullet points, break free from the podium, and deliver talks that leave a lasting impact, this episode is a must-listen.

In this episode, you'll discover:

• Crafting stories that stick: Learn how to captivate your audience and leave a lasting impact by weaving compelling narratives into your talks.
• Creating visuals that captivate: Say goodbye to boring bullet points and hello to engaging visuals that enhance understanding and keep your audience glued to their seats.
• Delivering your message with confidence: Unleash your inner star and learn how to use your voice, body language, and presence to command attention and inspire action.

Get ready to unlock the secrets of unforgettable presentations and become the speaker your audience can't wait to hear from.

Tune in now and transform your next presentation from 'meh' to mesmerizing!

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Ever had a coaching conversation that felt like a missed opportunity? Maybe you left feeling unheard, misunderstood, or simply frustrated. The problem might not be what you're saying, but how you're saying it.

In this episode, we explore the sneaky communication mistakes that even well-intentioned leaders make when coaching their teams. We're not talking about the obvious stuff – this is about the subtle slip-ups that can derail progress and stifle growth.

Get ready to discover:

• Why you might be unintentionally shutting down your team's ideas (and how to truly listen instead)
• The "quick fix" trap that's actually making your team less capable (and a better way to empower them)
• How feedback can become a gift instead of a weapon (and why most leaders get it wrong)
• The secret language your team is speaking that you might be missing (hint: it's not just words)
• Why a one-size-fits-all approach to communication is a recipe for disaster (and how to tailor your approach for maximum impact)

If you're ready to transform your coaching conversations from frustrating to fulfilling, this episode is packed with actionable insights you can use immediately.

Additional resources mentioned in the episode:

1. Episode 27:  Active Listening - A Leader’s Essential Skill
2. Episode 16: Coaching Questions that Elevate Your Team’s Thinking
3. Episode 7: Two Ways to Foster a Culture of Feedback

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

In a world where career paths often seem predefined, it can be transformative to find the courage to align professional endeavors with core values and personal identity.

Louise Neil, the founder of Pivoting Point Career Solutions, teaches women how to be back in the driver's seat of their own careers and how they can be the designers of their professional journey so they are empowered, engaged, and successful on their own terms.

With a career spanning over two decades in product and project management, Louise deeply understands continuous improvement and analytics. Her personal journey of embracing a late-life transition and taking control of her professional trajectory is a testament to her expertise.

Join us for a dynamic conversation about career transitions, courageous conversations, and the power of communication in leadership.

In this episode, you'll learn:

• Exploring the importance of aligning professional endeavors with your core values and identity.
• Understanding effective communication strategies for leaders when having career conversations.
• Prioritizing curiosity and self-awareness in career transitions.
• Valuing courageous career conversations as catalysts for growth and fulfillment.

The journey to professional fulfillment starts with aligning actions with values and engaging in open, courageous conversations. Embrace curiosity, prioritize self-awareness, and harness the power of effective communication in leadership.

Explore Louise Neil's framework for meaningful career conversations, a resource designed to facilitate introspection and clarify goals. Begin your journey toward fulfillment now. Click here for access. 

Connect with Louise Neil :

Website:https://louiseneil.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mylife.project/

Linkedin:https://www.linkedin.com/in/louise-neil/

Career Resources: https://bio.site/louiseneil

Connect with Kele Belton:

• LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/  
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/  
• Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com  

Resources for continued growth with Kele:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/  
2. Want personalized help? Book a free leadership clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

What if you could transform your most important workplace conversations with a simple, daily practice? Discover the surprising power of rituals to boost your confidence, clarity, and connection.

In this episode, you'll learn:

1. The science behind rituals: How these seemingly small actions greatly impact your brain chemistry and mindset.
2. How to create your own professional rituals: Step-by-step guidance to design practices that fit your personality and goals.
3. Real-life examples of leaders who use rituals: Get inspired by the routines of successful communicators.
4. Specific rituals for common challenges: Discover rituals to overcome presentation nerves, improve focus in meetings, and more.
5. Why consistency is key: Make your rituals a powerful habit that enhances your daily communication.

Plus, I share examples of how rituals have transformed my professional life.

Get ready to unlock the hidden power of rituals and elevate your professional conversations to the next level.

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free leadership clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Have you ever wondered why some people just have that "it" factor? It's not always about what they say, but how they say it.

In this episode, we're diving into the secret language of confident leaders: their body language. Discover how subtle shifts in your posture, eye contact, and even hand gestures can make a massive difference in how you're perceived.

We're breaking down the fundamentals, sharing real-life examples of how body language can make or break your presence, and giving you actionable tips to master your own nonverbal communication.

Get ready to unlock a whole new level of influence and leadership – just by changing how you use your body language.

Tune in to learn:

• The five key elements of confident body language and how to use them to your advantage.
• Common body language blunders that could be sabotaging your message (and how to fix them).
• Real-world scenarios where mastering your body language can boost your career.

Ready to command the room without saying a word?

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Think back to a time when your plate was already full, yet you still said "yes." Maybe it was taking on an additional project when you were already working overtime, agreeing to lead another initiative despite your jam-packed schedule, or even accepting a last-minute meeting request that threw off your entire day. 

How did it feel in the moment? And how did it play out in the end? Did it lead to late nights, missed deadlines, compromised quality, or even burnout?

Saying "yes" can feel good in the moment, but the long-term consequences of overcommitment can be detrimental. 

In this episode, I explore the vital leadership skill of saying "no." Learn why setting boundaries, prioritizing tasks, and fiercely protecting your time are non-negotiable for effective leadership. 

Discover practical strategies to overcome the fear of saying no, set boundaries like a pro, and prioritize tasks that align with your values and goals.

Key Takeaways:

• The Power of "No": Why saying "no" is essential for self-preservation, setting healthy boundaries, and leading with intention.
• Setting Boundaries Like a Pro: How to define your values, identify your priorities, and communicate your boundaries assertively and respectfully.
• Graceful "No" Scripts: Practical phrases to use in various situations when declining requests.
• Prioritization Strategies: The Eisenhower Matrix and the 80/20 Rule as tools for focusing your energy on high-impact tasks.
• Building a Supportive Team: Creating a culture that values time management and respects boundaries.

Remember, saying "no" isn't a sign of weakness; it's a sign of strength and self-respect. It's about taking control of your schedule, your energy, and your impact. So, start practicing saying "no" with confidence, and watch as your leadership effectiveness soars.

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Have you ever faced a significant career setback? A missed promotion, a project gone wrong, or maybe even a layoff? It can feel devastating, but what if I told you these moments can be your greatest catalysts for growth?

In this episode, I explore the power of resilience and grit—essential qualities that empower women leaders to survive setbacks and thrive in them.

What You'll Learn:

• Understanding Resilience vs. Grit: Discover the subtle yet crucial differences between bouncing back and staying the course.
• Why Women Leaders NEED This: Uncover how resilience and grit are your secret weapons against the unique challenges women face in the workplace.
• Building Your Resilience Toolkit: Learn practical strategies for developing a positive mindset, reframe challenges, and silence your inner critic. This will equip you to face any setback with confidence.
• Cultivating Unstoppable Grit: Learn how to embrace challenges as growth opportunities, maintain your passion, and build mental toughness.
• Actionable Tips: Get step-by-step guidance on setting realistic goals, prioritizing self-care, and developing healthy coping mechanisms.

Take a moment to reflect on your own experiences. When have you demonstrated resilience in the face of adversity? What goals are you passionate about that require grit to achieve?

Resources for continued growth:

1. Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/ 
2. Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall  

Connect with Kele Belton:

LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/ 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/ 

Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com 

Are you ready to change your thoughts, feelings, or behaviors that are not serving you?

Today, we're discussing an approach that promises to reshape the very core of your leadership effectiveness. In this episode, I sit down with Alina Nikishina, a remarkable coach in subconscious change work, to explore how leaders can harness the power of Core Transformation to unlock their true potential and drive profound impact in their spheres of influence.

In this episode,  we cover:

• Embracing Core Transformation: How to dissolve your inner barriers and change your thoughts, feelings, or behaviors.
• Unraveling Limiting Beliefs: Alina discusses techniques for reframing limiting beliefs and fostering growth.
• Cultivating Empathy: Core Transformation promotes self-awareness and understanding for empathetic leadership.
• Inspiring Alignment: You’ll learn how to align your personal values with organizational goals for collective success.
• Nurturing Resilience: You’ll get strategies for building leadership resilience and adaptability.

Alina Nikishina, a certified coach and subconscious change expert, brings a wealth of experience. Her unique blend of holistic business coaching and subconscious change work has helped countless entrepreneurs and leaders dissolve inner blocks and achieve soul-led success.

My conversation with Alina Nikishina has been eye-opening, introducing me to the transformative potential of Core Transformation. As we navigate the leadership challenges, knowing we have tools like Core Transformation to overcome overwhelm and unlock our true potential is empowering. I encourage you to explore how Core Transformation can help you as a leader.

Resources for continued growth:

• Free Guide: Download my free "Own Your Worth" guide for extra tips and insights on using your achievements to land your next leadership promotion - https://thetailoredapproach.com/ownyourworth/  
• Want personalized help? Book a free clarity call with me to tackle imposter syndrome and what’s holding you back from confidently nailing your next leadership interview - https://thetailoredapproach.as.me/leadershipclaritycall   

Connect with Alina Nikishina:

• Website: https://alinanikishina.com/
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/heyalinan/ 
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/heyalinan/ 

Connect with your host, Kele Belton:

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kele-ruth-belton/  
• Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetailoredapproach/  
• Website: https://thetailoredapproach.com