Confidence Counsel

Enrollment for the next session of my Confidence & Visibility Accelerator opens in January 2025! This program is your roadmap to stepping into the bold, confident, and purpose-driven version of you. Don’t miss your chance to create your ideal future self with guided support and proven strategies.

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In this transformative episode, we dive into the power of intentionally designing the future version of yourself. So many of us go through life assuming that hard work and time will naturally lead us to become the person we’re meant to be. But what if the real key is defining that version of you in vivid, specific detail?

We’ll unpack why defining your ideal future self is critical and explore actionable steps to start clarifying the person you want to become in all aspects of your life—health, career, relationships, finances, and more. You’ll learn:

• Why vague aspirations keep you stuck in cycles of dissatisfaction.
• How creating a detailed vision of your future self gives you clarity, direction, and momentum.
• Simple prompts to begin mapping out who you want to be and why it matters.
• What shifts when you align your actions with the identity of your future self.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re spinning your wheels or settling for less than you know you’re capable of, this episode will inspire you to take control of your journey and design the life you truly want.

💡 Here’s how to start defining your future self today:

1️⃣ Visualize Your Ideal Day:

• What time do you wake up?
• Who are you spending time with?
• How do you feel at the end of the day?

2️⃣ Clarify Your Core Values:

• Is freedom, family, creativity, or contribution what matters most to future YOU?
• Write them down, and compare them to how you’re living now.

3️⃣ Get Specific in Every Area of Life:

✨ Relationships: How do you show up as a partner, parent, or friend?

✨ Career/Business: Are you leading with confidence and loving what you do?

✨ Health: How do you feel in your body—energetic, strong, vibrant?

✨ Lifestyle: What hobbies light you up? Where do you spend your time and money?

4️⃣ Anchor It in the Present:

• What’s ONE habit or mindset shift you can start TODAY to align with this vision?

Ready to take it to the next level?

Let's Connect!

IG: @confidence.counsel

Money isn’t just about numbers—it’s about mindset, education, and breaking cycles. In this episode, we sit down with wealth activation coach and financial advisor, Joanna Doiban, and dive deep into the importance of financial literacy, why parents need to normalize talking about money with their kids, and how generational wealth begins with small, intentional actions. Whether you’re a parent, a professional, or just someone looking to rewrite your money story, this episode will leave you with actionable steps and a fresh perspective on building financial freedom for yourself and your family.

• Why money conversations are still a taboo in many households and how to change that.
• Practical ways to introduce kids to financial literacy early.
• The link between money mindset and generational wealth.
• Why financial independence starts with education, planning, and small, consistent steps.
• The role of parents in breaking generational money patterns and creating a legacy.

Guest Bio

Joanna is a self-care queen + Wealth Activation coach who believes

‘No matter how many workouts, meditations and gratitude journal entries you do – there is no true self-care without Financial Self-Care.’ 

Joanna is the driving force behind her mission for every child in her clients lives to start wealth accumulation - as early as 16 weeks old, using the Million Dollar Baby method.

She teaches parents how to save and grow money for their kids on autopilot with simple sustainable systems so they can have a nest egg for college and beyond. 

With a Bachelors in Finance and a Life Insurance license in dozens of states, Joanna is a trailblazer and thought leader in Financial Self-Care and Wealth Education for women and their small kids. 

Connect with Joanna:

IG: @Joannadoiban

[email protected] 

Getmilliondollarbaby.Com 

Let's Connect!

Instagram: @confidence.counsel

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On this week's episode of Confidence Counsel, Monica sits down with the #1 realtor in Chicago, Lisa Sanders to talk all things work ethic, what it takes to stand out, how to make your clients feel special, networking and celebrating your wins!!

Guest Bio

Lisa Sanders has been passionately and successfully selling real estate for over a decade, averaging at least 75 homes per year, and has been recognized as a consistent top performer in the Chicago-land area.

Lisa has been distinguished as the #1 REALTOR®—based on homes sold—for the neighborhoods of Norwood Park and Jefferson Park. Named a Top Producer by the Chicago Association of REALTOR® (CAR), every year, since 2007.

Lisa was raised in Cedar Rapids, Iowa, and her dad was a well-known football coach for Coe College and the University of Northern Iowa. He instilled Lisa's strong work ethic at an early age while working on her acreage. Lisa attended Iowa State University on a track scholarship. While there, she met her husband, who was captain of the Cyclones, Iowa State University's football team. Marrying right after college, they moved to Chicago, where they have lived ever since, raising their 4 children, Brendan, a Marine stationed in Oahu Hawaii and now resides in Florida, Kylie, who attended the University of Kentucky and was recently married, Kaelan, who attends DePaul University and ClareRose, who attends the University of Illinois. 

Connect with Lisa

Website: https://www.atproperties.com/agents/8839/lisa-sanders

Mobile: 773.398.0378

Office: 847.657.7000

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On this episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of confidence and how it impacts your journey to starting an online side hustle. Originally an Instagram Live discussion with the editor-in-chief of Get Griefy Magazine, Kera Sanchez, this conversation has been converted into a podcast to reach a wider audience.

Common Fears Holding People Back

• Identifying the fears that prevent people from starting their online ventures
• Strategies to overcome these obstacles

Personal Stories of Overcoming Self-Doubt

• Real-life experiences of pushing through hesitation
• The turning point that led to taking action

Reframing Your Mindset for Entrepreneurial Success

• Essential mindset shifts needed to start your online business
• Overcoming the 'I'm not ready' syndrome
• Practical steps to move from hesitation to action

Addressing Common Concerns

• Fear of failure
• Fear of judgment
• Feeling unqualified
• Fear of being seen

Whether you're considering becoming an online coach, course creator, or pursuing any other online venture, this episode provides valuable insights to help you build the confidence needed to start and succeed in your side hustle.

Resources Mentioned:

• Learn more about the Confidence & Visibility Accelerator Beta Round
• Free Resource: Claim Your Expertise Workbook – Download it here

Connect with Us:

• Monica's Instagram: @confidence.counsel:
• Kera's Instagram: @getgriefymagazine

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Do you ever catch yourself thinking, "Of course, this would happen to me!" when things go wrong? Whether it's getting sick on your birthday, snagging a speeding ticket when you're already late, or feeling like life just doesn’t go your way—if you’ve been stuck in that mindset, this episode is for you.

In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into the concept of Lucky Girl Syndrome, a belief system that can radically shift how you experience life. We'll talk about how your mindset—specifically your core beliefs—can influence your reality and why the idea that everything always works out for you could be the key to manifesting more positivity, success, and luck into your life.

You’ll learn:

• What Lucky Girl Syndrome is and how to recognize if you’re stuck in a victim mentality.
• The power of core beliefs and how they are formed in your subconscious.
• How to shift your internal narrative and embrace the belief that "everything always works out for me."
• The science behind the Reticular Activating System (RAS) and how it helps you find proof that supports your beliefs.
• Real-life examples from my own life that show how adopting this mindset can create small, everyday wins that add up over time.

If you’re ready to stop feeling unlucky and start believing in the power of your mindset, this episode will guide you on how to reframe your thoughts and become the “lucky girl” you’ve always wanted to be.

Resources Mentioned:

• Learn more about the Confidence & Visibility Accelerator Beta Round

Connect with Me:

• Instagram: @confidence.counsel:
• Free Resource: Claim Your Expertise Workbook – Download it here

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In this episode of Confidence Counsel, Monica dives into a powerful mindset shift inspired by those bittersweet back-to-school posts that flood social media. While it’s easy to get caught up in the grind of daily life, Monica shares a simple yet profound hack to help you stay present and appreciate the beauty in life’s mundane moments.

Imagine your 90-year-old self getting the chance to relive today – the little smiles, the chaos, the routines, all with a renewed sense of gratitude. Monica walks you through how this exercise can transform how you approach your day and help you stay connected to what truly matters, even amidst the chaos of motherhood and everyday responsibilities.

Tune in for this heartwarming perspective on living fully in the present and learn how to stop living on autopilot. Plus, hear Monica’s own story of embracing this mindset in her daily life and how it’s helped her feel more connected and grateful in every moment.

Let's Connect!

Instagram: @confidence.counsel

Click here to learn more about my confident communication and visibility accelerator opening at the end of September!! LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE!

On this episode of the Confidence Counsel podcast, we dive into a crucial aspect of confident communication: understanding your audience. Our host, a seasoned trial lawyer and coach, shares invaluable insights on how the jury selection process in courtrooms can be applied to identify and connect with your ideal audience in business.

In this episode we cover:

1. The importance of knowing who you're speaking to, whether it's a jury or your target market
2. How to identify your ideal customer or listener
3. Strategies for tailoring your message to resonate with your audience
4. The parallels between selecting a jury and choosing your business audience
5. Tips for building trust and credibility with your audience

Whether you're an aspiring podcaster, a budding entrepreneur, or a seasoned professional looking to refine your communication skills, this episode offers practical advice on how to effectively reach and engage your audience.

Tune in to discover how understanding your audience can dramatically improve your confidence and effectiveness in both personal and professional settings. Don't miss this unique blend of legal expertise and business acumen that will transform the way you approach communication!

Let's Connect!

Instagram: @confidence.counsel

Click here to learn more about my confident communication and visibility accelerator opening at the end of September!! LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE!

If you could get qualified as an expert in Court for what you want to teach online, would that help boost your confidence to finally get started? Not feeling like an "expert" is not a good enough reason to hold off pursuing your dream any more.

On this week’s episode of Confidence Counsel, Monica is taking you to court to live out your Elle Woods/law school fantasies! No, but seriously- this episode will help you reframe your fear around not being “qualified” enough to start your entrepreneurial venture.

Monica, a skilled trial lawyer of over 12 years, gives an overview of the process that courts use ("SKEET") to qualify witnesses as experts to demonstrate to you, the entrepreneurial-hopeful, that you already know enough and can get started today. There are people out there who know MUCH less, helping way more people and making much more money doing what they love because they recognize what they have to offer!

Ways to connect and work with me:

Instagram: @confidence.counsel

Click here to learn more about my confident communication and visibility accelerator opening at the end of September!! LIMITED SPOTS AVAILABLE!

On this episode of Confidence Counsel, we dive into the theme of confidence and our relationship with the future. Monica shares personal insights, powerful anecdotes, and practical tips to help you embrace the unknown and build your confidence.

Key Takeaways:

• Monica's journey back to the podcast after her maternity leave
• The new format: concise, motivational episodes released every Monday morning
• Exploring the concept of confidence and our relationship with the unknown
• The importance of showing up, embracing failure, and seeing the win in the experience
• Personal stories and examples, including insights from Monica's legal career and motherhood
• Introduction of a new pilot program to help women overcome fear of public speaking and being seen online so that they can start or grow an online business

Resources Mentioned:

• Join the Waiting List: Click here to learn more about becoming a founding member of Monica's new pilot program focused on teaching women how to build confidence online and pursue a passion-based side hustle.
• Follow Monica on Social Media: Instagram, Facebook

On this week's episode of Confidence Counsel, Monica opens up about the biggest lesson she learned while doing a jury trial at 35 weeks pregnant and how you can apply that lesson to live your best and most authentic life today!

Connect with Monica

IG: @confidence.counsel

Website: www.confidencecounsel.com

Click to sign up for a complimentary clarity call to see if you would be a good fit for 1:1 coaching with me: https://confidencecounsel.com/contact/