Confident Collective

This week, Kristina and Raeann break down the return of the iconic Victoria's Secret Fashion Show, from their favorite walks to the curve model representation. At the afterparty, they reaffirmed that they ARE big girls and Raeann now manifests her runway debut in next year's show. They highlight favorite moments, from Ashley Graham owning the spotlight to Lisa from Blackpink's stunning performance, but they also drop some critiques—pointing out the lack of glitz and glam and the small percentage of body diversity. The girls reminisce about the old show and how happy they are that it's back but with better diversity and the message that it's for the girls! Kristina and Raeann also share that they're hosting Friendsgiving for the Confidant community again this year! It'll be an intimate affair in NYC and it'll sell out quickly so join our Patreon to be the first to know. Thanks to our sponsors! Get 15% off OneSkin with the code: TCC at https://www.oneskin.co/ #oneskinpod #ad #sponsored

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Kristina took a peaceful but semi-chaotic bike ride to the podcast studio today. Raeann chats about her wholesome weekend with her parents and how her dad will strike up a conversation with literally anyone. Kristina also shares her perspective on school uniforms and how parents put pressure on themselves just to impress other parents. They also talk about their frustration with brands that claim to carry larger sizes but don't, and on a more positive note, they share their excitement about attending the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. In today's episode, the girls break down the latest in pop culture, from Sabrina Carpenter's flirty, pop-star charm to Raeann's love for Remi Wolf's captivating star power. They explore Chappell Roan's quick rise to fame and her struggle with the spotlight, while Ilona Maher wins hearts on Dancing with the Stars and deserves that celebrity status. Kristina swoons over her new favorite show, Nobody Wants This, featuring a realistic nod to how dating is right now. Plus, they cover Anne Hathaway's Princess Diaries 3 news, how everyone seems to hate J. Lo, and the crazy P Diddy conspiracy theories!

Today's episode is all about the art of delusional confidence, but first, Raeann chats about her birthday plans for Gabe's 29th and Kristina tells us about her upcoming suburban block party. Plus, they share everything that's on their fall wishlists—think apple picking, chunky sweaters, and fall re-runs like Practical Magic and Gilmore Girls. Now, get ready to embrace your delusional confidence! We break down how to embody and apply this unapologetic belief that you can achieve anything. Delusional confidence is all about having a dream, creating a clear vision, and working hard to turn aspirations into reality. Kristina and Raeann share their examples of how they apply this mindset, from dating to being on TV to becoming a curve model. As you begin to speak your dreams into existence, you have to tune out the haters, surround yourself with ambitious people, and embrace the ups and downs. Just believe in yourself and remember, sometimes you have to be a little delusional!

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Today's Ask Away is a good one, but first, the girls fill us in on their trip to sunny Los Angeles. Kristina and Raeann chat about their live show in LA with Naturalizer, where they interviewed Deepika Mutyala, Founder of Live Tinted, and celebrated the launch of Naturalizer's most inclusive boot line yet. They also try to decipher the question of, are you are innately cool or popular, and chat about Kristina's fascination with the P Diddy scandal. The girl's questions today are hard-hitting, from self-care and body image to relationship dilemmas and childhood friend drama. Raeann and Kristina give advice on how to shift your mindset towards fitness for mental health and strength, rather than just physical change. They also cover how to navigate a stale relationship and complicated work crush, along with how to feel confident and overcome insecurities when dating. Hopefully, a little fresh perspective and honest advice gives you girls some clarity!

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In this *Live* episode from Los Angeles, Raeann and Kristina, along with special guest Deepica Mutyala, engage in a lively conversation about confidence, inclusivity, and fashion. Deepica shares her journey in the beauty industry, challenges of representation, and the success of her brand Live Tinted. They discuss confidence in dating, career hurdles, and the significance of a supportive community. Audience questions further explore business failures, inspirations, and the essence of genuine leadership.

This episode was brought to you LIVE from Los Angeles thanks to Naturalizer!

Today, we're joined by Payton Sartain, content creator and podcast host of Note to Self. We chat relationships, city vs. country living, and how to navigate life transitions. Payton talks about her frequent moves—from the Midwest to Fashion Week in NYC to preparing for her next chapter in South Florida. As someone who thrives on new beginnings, she offers advice on navigating life in a new city, making friends as an adult, and finding your community. Payton also gives a peek into her relationship (and Raya success story) with her MLB boyfriend, Joe, and how she manifested him down to a T. The takeaway? Trust yourself, stop overthinking, and don't be afraid to walk away from what doesn't serve you. And remember, we're all just girls trying to figure life out as we go! Kristina and Raeann also chat about their trip to LA, their obsession with the Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, and how taking a break from drinking may have to wait until winter.

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In this episode, Raeann talks about her first few days doing 75 Medium (75 Hard Rae edition), focusing on consistency, routine, hitting her hydration goals. Kristina celebrates her 7-year wedding anniversary and shares marriage advice on communication and how to balance life with kids. They also dive into their latest obsessions — Raeann's dopamine menu of little joys like iced matcha, fresh sheets, and ocean dips, while Kristina raves about her new pilates princess era. Today, the girls are talking alllll about food! The focus is to celebrate the joy a good meal can bring and to quiet the toxic diet culture. They share nostalgic childhood dishes, like Kristina's grandma's butter pasta and Raeann's family's homemade pizza dough. From last meals on earth to their shared love for sauces to food-specific pet peeves, they reveal all their food loves and hates. Plus, they drop their favorite NYC restaurants where you don't need a reservation two months in advance. Whether it's cooking scrambled eggs at home or ordering sushi delivery, Kristina and Raeann remind us that food should be fun and free from shame! Bon appétit, ladies!

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In this *LIVE* episode of TCC, Raeann and Kristina sit down with the iconic Lauren Chan. Together, they dive into the world of fashion, body confidence, and how to authentically show up as yourself. Lauren shares empowering insights on choosing outfits based on how they make you feel, not just how they look. Plus, they discuss fashion inclusivity, give a shout-out to brands making an impact, and share advice on finding emerging designers. Tune in for style tips, real talk, and a whole lot of inspiration!

This episode was brought to you LIVE from NYFW thanks to Naturalizer!

We're back, Confidants! Raeann and Kristina are back from their summer break, settling into their new sunroom studio! They dive into the joys and challenges of suburban life and how they're striking the perfect balance between that and their city roots. Rae shares her summer adventures, from horseback riding to hiking in Colorado, while Kristina reflects on her relaxed, family-centered summer and some heartfelt thoughts on motherhood.

Rae and Gabe are perfect - are they not? Raeann gives us an update on their relationship—go back and watch her bull riding video on Instagram if you haven't seen it! The conversation also turns to pop culture, where they chat about their admiration for stars like Addison Rae and Sabrina Carpenter, plus all the buzz surrounding Love Island USA and influencer drama.

To top it all off, they share their excitement for their first live event with Naturalizer on September 3rd, where they'll be celebrating inclusive sizing and fostering a sense of community. This episode feels like catching up with old friends—full of warmth, insight, and a little bit of juicy gossip.

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In the final rewind episode of the summer, we turn back the clock to one of our personal favorites! Remember when Rae dropped the big "what are we" question? And Kristina rocking the neighborhood mom scene. We're also spilling tea about the craziest things we've ever done in relationships (hint: it involves jumping out of moving vehicles! 🚗). We chat about Rae's wild Breckenridge girl's trip, tackle troll comments, and discuss Kristina's obsession with Mike the Situation. The girls are thriving and leaving that toxic energy behind. "42% of people in their 20s & 30s have never been in a relationship." We're delving into the inner struggles of never having been in a relationship. In this rom-com generation, we expect great sex and fairytale romances, but overcoming the fear of rejection and battling self-doubt can be daunting. Don't worry, you're not alone. The TCC community chimes in with their burning questions and insecurities about their lack of dating experience. We're here to be your hype women and remind you that you ARE hot, funny, and smart enough to land the person of your dreams. Being perpetually single isn't a bad thing; if anything, it's kind of a turn-on. Podcast episodes of Confident Collective drop every Tuesday. New episodes return NEXT WEEK on September 3rd! Resources:

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