Part of growing is getting out of your comfort zone. Why leave the comfort of familiarity? How do we feel productivity when we are in a state of being uncomfortable? I was joined for episode 4 of the Connect, Change & Challenge podcast by Cara Harbstreet of Street Smart Nutrition.
I met Cara virtually a couple years ago and in person within in the past 12 months. It always makes me happy when someone I follow online exceeds my expectations once we meet in person. Cara is a dietitian by trade, and a student of life. She has a great approach to learning, always providing thoughts and ideas to her audience to bring us all along, so she was a great fit for this conversation. She also throws in some snark and sass so with that we can relate.1:06
CONNECT
Cara reviews her professional hurdles and identified opportunities to go out on her own and create Street Smart Nutrition. She learned about the opportunities to challenge herself and her clients with bigger thinking. Cara talks about peoples’ connection to food and their diet. I don’t know about you, but I struggle with food decisions. I’m fortunate to be relatively health, but, of course, could do better. I love to cook, and I’m all in on full fat butter and cream. My theory of natural fats might be a little off on the nutrition spectrum. Also, if you tell me I can’t have carbs, bread and pasta will takeover my thoughts and my productivity will decrease as I’m focused on pizza and sandwiches, not strategy. So, diets aren’t my thing. This is another thing that attracted me to Cara’s food philosophies focused on intuitive eating and health at every size. The combination of taking book smart ideas, with street smart real-life situations. 2:02
Cara’s professional brand helps emulate her thinking on continuous learning and how things evolve. It’s hard to be uncomfortable or to realize that the way you’ve been living or something that you’ve thought for a time may be wrong. None of us likes to admit that we might be wrong about something, or that we have treated someone poorly, even if not intentional. Cara discussed the importance of learning how to live in that uncomfortable state, and how to take something good from process. 8:38
Another topic that can make many of us uncomfortable is racism and diversity. This is an area where I personally want to grow. How can I do better? How can I be more inclusive? How can I design programs and initiatives in the workplace that show the brand or organization is open to people who look different, think different or even just approach problems in different ways? These are questions I’m asking myself right now. Cara talks about her personal journey around race as she identifies as bi-racial, so her experience is different from others, both people of color and Caucasians. She discusses her personal journey of exploring working with an anti-racism educator while having accountability and consistency. 11:13
CHANGE
I feel like being uncomfortable is often the first step to work toward change. Most everyone can say they have experienced stress in 2020. Whether personal, professional or most likely, both. That may mean balancing watching kids and helping with virtual learning while joining your third zoom call for the day. Or maybe hosting a virtual seminar and having your screen adapter come loose and the presenters get a white screen during the live event. I don’t have kids so you can guess which one of those is from personal experience. All that being said, that’s not the type of stress I am talking about. I’m talking about topics or issues that make you uncomfortable and maybe even add stress that you don’t realize is there. Lately, there have been issues that have popped up where I’ve had to say I don’t understand how or why that person feels the way they do. I need to take a step back and see if I can better understand to develop or check my own opinions on that issue. 14:08
That all being said, between the stress and the self questioning, these don’t mean that asking yourself these questions equates to you being wrong with your feelings. It’s just keeping yourself in check. I’ve also found that many times it actually strengthens my position on topics, but I now know why I feel that way, and also understand how someone else may feel differently. We can disagree and still respect each other. 15:52
Cara emphasizes the importance of working past the stress. The educator she has worked with is Monique Melton. One light bulb statement Cara learned from Monique was that you can’t let anxiety be your barrier to continuing to work. This is something I found very impactful and a mantra that helps you live in the state of uncomfortable, and get to the point of change. 17:11
CHALLENGE
We always end every episode with the challenge, and Cara left us with two great thoughts. We talked about the need for accountability, but building your right accountability team--hose that will be supportive, but still help you push yourself forward. 20:17
Cara leaves us with advice from her professional experience. It’s a loose thought exercise where you focus on trying to find out if your actions and behaviors are aligned with your values. Ask yourself, “what are your values?” Then, evaluate your actions and see if what you are doing is aligning with the values you have identified. The question is, “Are your values being reflected in your personal actions and your professional actions?” 22:39
The second is to take a step back and ask yourself what you want to learn. What are you really aspiring to do or learn? This is a great way to evaluate how you move forward and to keep yourself from being distracted. 24:58
I hope you tune in to listen to the full episode. There were so many great thoughts in this episode it was hard to capture them all. Comment below if you have thoughts on any of the information shared, or the challenges we put forward.
If you want to follow Cara professionally, you can check her out online at streetsmartnutrition.com or on Instagram at streetsmart.rd. She posts great recipes, which not only taste good, but look good, funny memes and thought-provoking articles. All great things to have in our newsfeed.
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