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  • Building Deep Relationships (and Letting Go) | Ep. 11 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this heartfelt episode of The Circle of Hope podcast, I sit down for a lively, soul-nourishing conversation with my dear friend of fifteen years, Keisha Carpenter-Ricks. What began as a simple meeting at a haircare class blossomed into a rich, lasting friendship built on intentionality, mutual growth, and a shared zest for life. Keisha opens up about her journey from being my hairstylist to branching out as an entrepreneur, real estate professional, and coach, all while nurturing meaningful connections that go far beyond transactional roles.


    Together, we explore what makes relationships truly thrive—from the “mirror effect” of authentic friendships to the importance of investing time and energy where it matters most. We dive into how to recognize relationships that feed your soul, how to let go (gracefully) when seasons change, and why knowing your identity and maintaining intentionality is more vital than ever. Whether you’re looking to build deeper connections, seeking wisdom for life’s transitions, or just want to witness some joyful, authentic banter, this episode is for you!


    Watch This If:

    • You’re longing for deeper, more authentic friendships and connections.
    • You’re navigating transitions in career or personal relationships.
    • You want practical tips on building trust and intimacy in any circle of influence.
    • You value the intersection of personal growth, faith, and real-world wisdom.
    • You enjoy hearing real conversations about the power of intentionality and reciprocity.


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “I get an opportunity to pour into my clients in such a unique, authentic, and genuine way. But not with all of them do I experience the level of discovery that you and I have shared over the years.” — Keisha Carpenter-Ricks
    • “I think relationships are really a mirror, and especially when we go deep, they reflect back what we’re trying to put out into the world.” — Valerie Hope
    • “Know who you are and whose you are. Because if you are clear on your identity, no one else can define you.” — Keisha Carpenter-Ricks
    • “Every relationship that develops on a deeper level has intentionality from both sides; there’s a longing for discovery that keeps us coming back for the next conversation.” — Valerie Hope


    What You’ll Learn:

    • Why intentionality is the secret ingredient to cultivating meaningful, reciprocal relationships.
    • Practical ways to recognize and build trustworthy circles of influence.
    • How to gracefully let go of relationships or clients when it’s no longer a fit for your energy or values.
    • The power of self-knowledge and identity in building resilience against outside definitions.
    • How personal and professional pivots can still reflect your core values of generosity, service, and authenticity.
    • Tips for nurturing relationships in any setting—from hairstylist’s chair to real estate deals to lifelong friendships.


    Contact Information:

    Guest: Keisha Carpenter Ricks

    • Website: https://www.keisharicks.com/
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/keishacricks/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/keisha-carpenter-ricks?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KeishaYourRealtor


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #CircleOfHopePodcast #CircleOfHope #PersonalGrowth #Connection #RealEstate #Entrepreneur

    1 hr 13 min
  • Faith, Resilience & the Power of Support | Ep. 10 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this deeply heartfelt episode of The Circle of Hope, I reconnect with one of my favorite coaching partners, Donald Stup, for an intimate, live conversation about navigating life after a life-changing health diagnosis. Donald bravely shares his journey from discovering a tumor on his spinal cord to adapting to significant shifts in mobility—including time spent in a wheelchair and recovery from a broken hip. Our discussion goes far beyond medical procedures as Donald opens up about the real, daily mind games, fluctuating emotions, and the process of acceptance he’s faced along the way.


    Throughout our talk, Donald and I explore the vital role that relationships play in helping us grow and thrive during adversity. He reflects on the invaluable support provided by his wife, faith, friends, and even unexpected acts of kindness from strangers. We dig into how simply being present and truly listening can be more transformative than any physical assistance. Our conversation also touches on the importance of workplace and spiritual support, and the unique perspective Donald brings as a coach, both giving and receiving guidance. Listeners will walk away inspired by Donald’s resilience and the actionable ways we can all build a stronger circle of hope around ourselves and each other.


    Watch This If:

    • You or a loved one is navigating a major health challenge or disability
    • You want to deepen the quality of support you offer others
    • You’re struggling to ask for or accept help
    • You’re interested in the intersection of faith, coaching, and personal growth
    • You work in healthcare, coaching, or support roles and want insight on truly impactful connection


    Episode Highlights:

    • [00:03:36] Donald shares his diagnosis and the moment everything changed after spinal surgery
    • [00:06:01] Discussing the tremendous impact of his wife’s support and the different circles of trust
    • [00:14:54] What true listening looks like—Donald’s experience with a neuro physical therapist
    • [00:23:16] The “compassion with a command” moment: an unforgettable act of kindness from a stranger during travel
    • [00:26:40] Navigating workplace accommodations and how colleagues step up with empathy
    • [00:40:36] Donald’s reflections on faith, spirituality, and finding greater peace through acceptance
    • [00:56:12] Advice for others navigating a new diagnosis or isolating situation—why reaching out matters


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “It was compassion with a command. She knew I needed something and was like, ‘Tell me what I can do to help.’” – Donald Stup
    • “Sometimes it’s better not to say anything and just be there. Just be there for that person and listen.” – Donald Stup
    • “When you struggle with something so bad that no matter what comes, you don’t say, ‘I give up’—that’s reassuring to know you really do belong.” – Donald Stup
    • “The value of a person is being able to just reach out a hand—and knowing when to take it.” – Donald Stup


    What You’ll Learn:

    • The transformative power of true, attentive listening in times of crisis
    • How to discern and build circles of trust and support around you
    • Why acts of kindness—big or small—can have lifelong impact
    • The essential roles of family, faith, and coaching in resilience
    • Practical ways to show up for others facing visible or invisible challenges
    • The importance of reaching out, not isolating, and what to do when support isn’t obvious
    • How being present and still can foster unexpected inner peace and clarity


    Stay Connected:


    Guest: Donald Stup

    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/donald-stup?original_referer=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.google.com%2F


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #CircleOfHope #Resilience #SupportSystems #CoachingJourney #FaithAndHealing


    1 hr 4 min
  • Ever Wondered If You’re Living Your True Purpose? | Ep. 9 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this heartfelt episode of The Circle of Hope, I sit down with the incredibly insightful Chuck Roundtree—sound facilitator, coach, and founder of The Love Affect. Our conversation dives straight into the magic of referrals, but not just as business transactions; Chuck reframes them as acts of love, gratitude, and energetic connection. We unpack stories of how meaningful introductions, like the one made by Reverend Veronica Valles, can catalyze powerful shifts in individuals and communities alike. Through personal anecdotes, Chuck reveals how his career evolved from a high-powered corporate executive in luxury beauty and fashion to a soulful guide facilitating sound baths and holistic healing.


    We also unravel the challenges of bridging the spiritual and corporate worlds, the “seesaw” of identity shifts, and the art of knowing when your unique medicine is the right fit—or when it’s time to refer someone lovingly onward. If you’ve ever wondered how to truly differentiate your work, create community that nurtures, or how sound healing can help us reconnect to ourselves and each other, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and practical inspiration.


    Watch This If:

    • You’re building a business or community based on authentic, heart-centered referrals.
    • You’re curious about sound healing, coaching, or alternative healing modalities.
    • You find yourself straddling the line between “corporate” and “spiritual” in your work.
    • You want to learn how to nurture, grow, and sustain soulful professional relationships.
    • You’re seeking new ways to support others (or yourself) through life’s transitions.


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “There is nothing more precious than somebody you’ve done work with who thinks so highly to engage people they know and love into that work.” — Chuck Roundtree
    • “Referrals as an act of love—it makes perfect sense. That’s an exchange, a gift I get to give.” — Valerie Hope
    • “We are exclusive, limited-edition beings… you are not going to resonate with all things. The universe is always purpose-driven.” — Chuck Roundtree
    • “What brings me joy and what I do? It’s not about being all things to all people—it’s about sharing what worked for me, with love at the center.” — Chuck Roundtree


    What You’ll Learn:

    • The profound impact of referrals rooted in gratitude, trust, and authentic experience.
    • How to identify when your unique talent is the right “medicine”—and when to gracefully refer someone elsewhere.
    • What a sound bath is and how sound and energy healing modalities support personal transformation.
    • Strategies for building community and collaborations anchored in heart-centered, unconditional love.
    • How to navigate shifts in professional identity, and what it means to “live your medicine.”
    • Why deep listening, intuition, and safety are essential in coaching and healing work.


    Contact Information:


    Guest: Chuck Roundtree

    • Website: http://www.theloveaffect.com
    • Blog: https://www.theloveaffect.com/healing-journey-insight-blogs
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/betheloveaffect/
    • LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/chuckroundtree
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BeTheLoveAffect/
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC79Q_yAQogVbJoHYCDASQ4w
    • TikTok: @betheloveaffect


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #SoundHealing #HeartCenteredBusiness #CircleOfHope #SpiritualCoaching #CommunityBuilding

    1 hr 11 min
  • Cultural Differences, New Countries, and a Friendship That Lasted. | Ep. 8 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this heartfelt and expansive episode of The Circle of Hope podcast, I sit down with my dear friend of over thirteen years, Felipe Ferreira. Our friendship began when our professional paths crossed in the hospitality industry—Felipe based in Sao Paulo and me in Texas. Over the years, despite having only met twice in person, we’ve grown an immensely supportive, curious, and genuinely reciprocal relationship spanning continents, time zones, and languages.


    Together, we explore what makes relationships thrive across cultures and professions. Felipe shares stories of his transitions—from bustling Sao Paulo to nature-loving Rio de Janeiro, and now to his new home in Germany. He opens up about the quirks and challenges of building community in different countries, the importance of “connection agents,” and how curiosity and intentionality shape lasting circles of influence. Throughout our conversation, we reflect on how to discern which relationships to nurture, how culture and language influence connection, and the power of being both a giver and a receiver in any relationship. Whether you’re moving cities, countries, or just seeking deeper connections in your everyday life, Felipe’s wisdom and our shared journey highlight the joy and impact of building your own circle of hope.


    Watch This If:

    • You’re moving to a new city or country and want tips on building authentic connections
    • You value cross-cultural friendships and work relationships
    • You’re curious about maintaining strong, long-distance friendships
    • You want to know how to be more intentional with your social circle
    • You enjoy personal growth stories rooted in real-life experience
    • You’re navigating new work environments and looking for connection strategies


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “I think it’s all about the exchange—so I receive a lot, I get a lot, but maybe I can give you a little bit as well.” – Felipe Ferreira
    • “Don’t ever take for granted that the people in your circle who are most beneficial… may not be your peers.” – Valerie Hope
    • “A smile really opens doors. And even if you cannot communicate, people can really tell if your intentions are good.” – Felipe Ferreira
    • “Letting people go is okay. There are some people that will come and go, and that’s okay.” – Felipe Ferreira


    What You’ll Learn:

    • How to leverage curiosity to build strong, authentic cross-cultural friendships
    • Why professional connections can become deep sources of personal and emotional support
    • Practical ways to adapt your social life after relocating to a new city or country
    • The importance of “connection agents” and how they help integrate you into new communities
    • How to discern which relationships deserve your time and energy
    • Strategies for staying connected with friends and colleagues around the globe
    • Why being intentional about giving and receiving is key to thriving relationships


    Let’s Stay Connected:


    Guest: Felipe Ferreira

    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/felipeof
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/felipeof/
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/felipeoferreira


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #CircleOfHope #CrossCulturalConnections #CircleOfInfluencers #FriendshipGoals #PersonalGrowth

    1 hr 11 min
  • Forming a Circle Without a Net | Ep. 7 COH | Valerie Hope

    This episode of The Circle of Hope podcast takes you inside an extraordinary life journey with Chef Dr. Yadira Stamp—a culinary entrepreneur, author, and true trailblazer whose entire story is fueled by resilience, curiosity, and indomitable hope. Inspired by a connection made on Instagram (shout out to my mom for the introduction!), Yadira and I dive deep into her transformation from a street-smart survivor in Panama and the U.S. to a cultural bridge-builder, food advocate, and role model for anyone facing impossible odds.


    We travel with Yadira as she recounts how her relentless passion for learning—and the empowering words of her late father—pushed her through harsh family opposition, homelessness, and setbacks in her engineering career, all the way to the heights of government service. Then she shares how she traded electrical engineering for culinary adventure, immersing herself with Panama’s indigenous tribes to uncover ancestral food wisdom for her doctorate—enduring creature discomforts, language hurdles, and a whole lot of creative hustling along the way. Through it all, Yadira reveals how every fleeting connection and stranger’s kindness became part of her unique “circle of hope.” Trust me—this is an episode about perseverance, cultural pride, and the magic that happens when you refuse to let life’s barriers stop you.


    Watch This If:

    • You need a real-life example of perseverance and reinvention.
    • You’re curious about indigenous Panamanian cuisine and culinary cultural preservation.
    • You want to hear how someone overcame homelessness and adversity to become a doctor and entrepreneur.
    • You’re passionate about servant leadership, giving back, or building community ties across cultures.
    • You love stories about making impactful connections—sometimes with complete strangers!
    • You need inspiration to push past your own obstacles.


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “I can do anything I want to do if I put my mind to it.” – Yadira Stamp
    • “Sometimes God closes some doors and opens another door… Out of the blue, I got a call from the federal government.” – Yadira Stamp
    • "You also challenged a bit my idea of a circle of influencers… Not everybody that we ask for support is willing to provide it. Sometimes, those connections are temporary but pivotal.” – Valerie Hope
    • “If that was the price and that was the sacrifice, so be it… I survived because in my mind, I was going to graduate.” – Yadira Stamp


    What You’ll Learn:

    • The power of perseverance when family and society don’t support your dreams.
    • How fleeting connections—sometimes with total strangers—can become life-changing and part of your “circle of hope.”
    • Insights into Panamanian indigenous food traditions and why food culture matters.
    • Creative survival strategies for overcoming homelessness and scarcity.
    • Why personal values and integrity matter more than shortcuts to success.
    • The value of adaptability—pivoting between careers, countries, and life goals.
    • The importance of giving back and supporting underserved communities, both at home and abroad.


    Let’s Stay Connected


    Guest: Yadira Stamp

    • Website: https://esenciaspanamenas.com/
    • Website: https://chefyadira.com/
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/esenciaspanamenas/?hl=en
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chefyadirastamp/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/yadira-stamp-0a19a355
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCdZUqawOxzRK2wNiRrQ0j4Q
    • Book: “Panama On A Plate - Favorite Foods From My Birthplace”


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #CircleOfHope #CulinaryStory #ResilienceInAction #PanamanianCuisine #InspiringJourneys

    1 hr 20 min
  • From Awkward Encounters to Authentic Inclusion | Ep. 6 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this episode of The Circle of Hope, I’m joined by Dr. Carla Pulliam for an open-hearted, insightful exploration of what it really takes to bring diversity, connection, and intentionality into our circles of influence. We reminisce about our first meeting—volunteering for a college readiness mentoring program where a simple conversation soon spiraled into deep dives on topics like critical race theory, menopause, and the power of authentic curiosity. Carla shares her perspective on connecting with new people and creating space for different voices, while we both reflect on what draws us to expand our circles in both personal and professional settings.


    Together, we dig into some of the real, sometimes awkward, challenges that arise when we strive for true inclusion—like how it feels to be intentionally invited into spaces because of your identity, why explicit intent matters, and why taking (and making) space is crucial for connection. We also discuss the pressures and self-awareness around DEI in today’s world, how to deal with uncomfortable feelings like imposter syndrome, and how our upbringings shape who we include in our lives. Leave this episode with new language, practical mindsets, and a sense of joy about what happens when we lead with curiosity, clarity, and care in curating our circle.


    Watch This If:

    • You want to foster genuine inclusion and diversity within your professional or personal network.
    • You’ve ever wondered how (or if) to bring up real conversations about identity, race, or difference without it feeling awkward.
    • You’re looking for inspiration on curating a circle that helps everyone grow and thrive.
    • You’re curious about how to balance taking space with making space for others.
    • You want practical examples of turning uncomfortable moments into bigger opportunities for connection.


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “If I can help you find your lane, you can help me find my lane, we’re going to create something much bigger together.” – Carla Pulliam
    • “Taking space and making space…when we honor and see, OK, this person possesses this interest or has a passion for this, or this is a strength that’s showing up—that’s for the good of the group.” – Valerie Hope
    • “I just want to check-in to see if my buddy at work is doing okay...Whether or not they’re able to fulfill the job and perform because they feel heard, and they feel like they belong—those things seem to have gone out the window once that label was slapped on it.” – Valerie Hope
    • “Can I lead with where my mind is? Because for what you know about yourself, can you just be out there with what you’re seeking or what you want, and then you know where to meet me?” – Carla Pulliam


    What You’ll Learn:

    • The difference between just “looking” inclusive and actually building authentic, diverse relationships
    • Why transparency and clarity of intent are powerful tools for connection
    • How to recognize and work through imposter syndrome and anxiety when curating your inner circle


    Contact Information:


    Guest: Dr. Carla Pulliam

    • Website: https://www.thechrysaliscenter.com/
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chrysalis.center/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/carlapulliamphd/?msgControlName=view_message_button&msgConversationId=2-MGM5OTY4OWUtMTdhOS00M2JlLTk1ODMtMDg3NzdhZTY3NmE0XzAxMA%3D%3D&msgOverlay=true
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheChrysalisCenter


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website: https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #DiversityAndInclusion #CurateYourCircle #AuthenticConnection #CircleOfHope #ConnectToJoy

    1 hr 10 min
  • How Improv, Coaching & Connection Shape Us | Ep. 5 COH | Valerie Hope

    Welcome to The Circle of Hope Podcast! I’m Valerie Hope, and in this episode, I sit down with the creative dynamo Jeanne Lambin—facilitator, coach, storyteller, and connector. Together, we explore the art (and the heart) of building real community, showing up for each other without judgment, and crafting spaces where creativity, kindness, and meaningful connection can thrive.


    We talk about everything from tackling inner criticism, to “The Something” (a unique community writing group!), to what it means to truly repair relationships and nurture your inner and outer circle. Whether your “circle” is one trusted friend or a roomful of collaborators, this episode will inspire you to approach connection with more intention, gentleness, and maybe even a little improv.


    Watch This If:

    • You’re over surface-level small talk, and crave spaces where you can truly show up
    • You want practical tips for facilitating genuine group experiences
    • You’re battling inner judgment and need new models for self-kindness and support
    • You dream of leading creative circles, workshops, or storytelling groups
    • You want to UPLEVEL your “circle of hope” for more satisfying, reciprocal relationships


    Key Moments:


    00:00 – Jeanne and Valerie’s origin story & why names matter! 

    02:30 – Building safe, creative spaces: What is “The Something?” 

    04:54 – Bypassing inner judgment: How groups normalize our challenges 

    09:46 – Coaching that’s kind vs. coaching that’s firm—finding the balance 

    13:33 – Friendships, feedback, and learning to be a “collaborative challenger” 

    21:16 – What does it mean to “repair” a conversation or relationship? 

    29:30 – Presence over agenda: The power of pausing, improv, and reading the room

     37:38 – Curating your circle: Who feeds your spirit vs. who drains you? 

    49:06 – What’s working and not working in connecting with others today 

    54:55 – Permission, time, and the challenge of asking for what you really need 

    59:25 – Understanding status — supporting each other without “lording” over 

    1:12:26 – Why the REAL work of connection always starts with self-awareness


    Quotes to Remember:


    • “One of the first rules of engagement is showing up.”
    • “The idea is just to create a safe, supported space. There’s no sharing of the work. There’s no critique. It’s just: Write whatever you’re going to write.”
    • “To meet your process without judgment, and be there for others to do the same.”
    • “Listening trumps schedule or agenda.”
    • “When you know what you need, you’re more apt to find the person who can fulfill that need.”
    • “How do you want me to listen?”
    • “If we can sit with our thoughts, you can’t change or transform what you don’t notice.”
    • “Self-absorbed isn’t the same as self-aware. Circles of connection also exist inside ourselves.”


    What You’ll Learn:


    • How to build creative, judgment-free spaces that foster real connection (and productivity!)
    • Strategies to manage your inner critic—through facilitation, coaching, and peer support
    • The art of balancing kindness and directness when guiding others
    • Techniques from improv and storytelling for better group engagement
    • Why pausing and adapting are the facilitator’s secret strengths
    • How to nurture (and prune) your circle with reciprocity, honesty, and care
    • Fresh ways to ask for what you need and support others in your community
    • The role of “status” in group dynamics—and how to build truly collaborative teams


    Contact Info:


    Guest: Jeanne Lambin

    • Website: https://www.thehumanimaginationproject.com/
    • Website: http://jeannelambin.medium.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jeannelambin/
    • LinkedIn: http://www.linkedin.com/in/jeanne-m-lambin/


    Host: Valerie Hope


    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #CircleOfHope #MeaningfulConnections #Community

    1 hr 19 min
  • What Happens When You Finally Choose Yourself? | Ep. 4 COH | Valerie Hope

    In this episode of The Circle of Hope, I have the pleasure of sitting down with Michael Anderson, a dynamic leader whose journey is nothing short of inspiring. Our paths first crossed in a workshop at UT Dallas, where Michael, then a Deputy CTO, lingered after class to dive deeper into public speaking, coaching, and finding new purpose beyond the corporate grind. What began as a networking connection soon transformed into a supportive friendship rooted in curiosity and the desire for growth.


    Michael shares his story of overcoming adversity, from growing up in a tough environment with limited role models to finding new direction in the military and, ultimately, coaching others to greatness. He takes us through the emotional pivot that moved him (and his wife!) from executive life in Texas to entrepreneurship and expat living in Mexico—driven by a desire for meaningful relationships, work-life balance, and continuous learning. Along the way, we explore the challenges and joys of building a network from scratch in a new country, the deep fulfillment found in helping others unlock their potential, and the power of mindful intention in shaping our destinies. This episode is a testament to courage, connection, and the transformative impact of conscious choices.


    Watch This If:

    • You’re navigating a major life or career transition
    • You want to learn how to build powerful relationships and inner circles
    • You’re curious about taking the leap to live or work abroad as an expat
    • You value stories of resilience, healing, and overcoming adversity
    • You seek inspiration for starting or deepening your personal development or coaching journey


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “What you see every single day in your community is a very, very small slice of what real life is actually like. You have to move. You have to do something to get outside of your immediate community.” – Michael Anderson
    • “When she shared that…that said to me that…I’m in control of my destiny. I get to select what I become, what my legacy is going to be. I’m in firm control of that.” – Michael Anderson
    • “If we can just, for a little while, each morning, dedicate a space of time…to mindfulness, only ten to fifteen minutes a day…there is no limit to what an individual can do.” – Michael Anderson
    • “The drive for growing, for moving beyond the circumstances of your childhood, for healing aspects of your life that were hindering your progress…there’s a pattern that needs to be interrupted.” – Valerie Hope


    What You’ll Learn:

    • How resilience, intentionality, and mentorship can transform your life and career trajectory
    • The role of coaching not just as a profession, but as a tool for healing and fast-tracking growth
    • Strategies for building and nurturing authentic relationships and support circles
    • The realities and rewards of starting over in a new country and culture
    • Ways to maintain and expand your network—even across distances and borders
    • The importance of mindfulness and awareness in breaking limiting cycles and creating new possibilities
    • The value of curiosity, follow-through, and continuous personal development as lifelong assets


    Stay Connected


    Guest: Michael Anderson

    • Website: http://www.yourthoughtlife.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yorthoughtlife
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/your-thought-life-consulting/
    • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/people/Your-Thought-Life/100092172354902/
    • Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yourthoughtlife
    • Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5kOXdyyGPwQgEdoz6aFu1o


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    Hashtags:

    #PersonalDevelopment #CircleOfHope #Resilience #CoachingJourney #ExpatLife

    1 hr 3 min
  • Your Intuition Is Right—Here’s How to Listen to It. | Ep. 3 COH | Valerie Hope

    Welcome to The Circle of Hope Podcast! I’m Valerie Hope, and in this inspirational LIVE episode, I sit down with intuitive coach and master connector, Shoshanna French. We share real stories of accidental meetings (are they ever truly accidental?), the epidemic of loneliness, and actionable ways to find, nurture, and deepen your circle of influence. Explore why reciprocity, boundaries, energetic resonance, and intuition are at the heart of lasting, impactful relationships.


    An earlier conversation with her inspired me to start the podcast you’re listening to now. Don’t miss the stories and wisdom that could transform how you connect, network, and thrive!


    Watch This If:

    • You’re tired of surface level networking and want MEANINGFUL connection
    • You want actionable strategies to grow and nurture your inner circle
    • You’re curious about how intuition can guide your relationships
    • You want to build impactful personal, business, or spiritual communities
    • You need real examples of setting boundaries, curating reciprocity, and sparking engagement


    Key Moments:

    • 00:00 - How Valerie & Shoshanna met (and there are NO random meetings!)
    • 04:50 - The unexpected spark: Why this podcast was born
    • 08:44 - Are we out of practice with civility? The loneliness epidemic
    • 15:03 - Evaluating relationships: Who’s always generating? The reciprocity experiment
    • 27:26 - Game nights, spirituality & finding your community in adulthood
    • 37:38 - Connection tips: How to ask the right follow-up question (even at speed dating!)
    • 50:44 - Lessons from a year of "Dinner With Millionaires"
    • 1:05:16 - Leveraging intuition to decide where you belong
    • 1:10:52 - Why giving SPACE can be transformative
    • 1:15:14 - Takeaways and next steps for YOUR Circle of Hope


    Quotes to Remember:

    • “I don’t believe in random.”
    • “If you’re listening, the world is filled with potential connections.”
    • “There is an epidemic of loneliness. People have gotten so out of practice with civility and respectful relationships.”
    • “We have relationships for what we get out of them—even if sometimes, it’s just the satisfaction of knowing someone knows they are loved.”
    • “Time, energy, and resources are finite. With whom and why do I want to share mine?”
    • “Connection is about presence and the energy exchange—reciprocity is not keeping score but tracking mutual investment.”
    • “My intuition responds to the questions I ask.”
    • “Be more interested than interesting.”


    What You’ll Learn:

    • Concrete ways to build or re-energize your circle of influence
    • How to evaluate and nurture reciprocal relationships
    • Secrets and mindset shifts learned from real millionaires
    • Using presence, patience, and intuition for deeper GET-TO-KNOW-YOU conversations
    • Creative rituals and community-building ideas (from game nights to manifestation circles)
    • How to discern the right opportunities and the right people for you


    Contact Info:


    Guest: Shoshanna French

    • Website: http://www.simplespirit.com
    • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/shoshannafrenchstokes
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shoshannafrench/


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Production Support: Lucy Hope - Podcast Editing, Copy, and Publishing.


    #MeaningfulConnections

    #IntuitiveNetworking

    #CircleOfInfluence

    #RelationshipBuilding

    1 hr 20 min
  • Why She Refused to Play Small—And You Should Too. | Ep. 2 COH | Valerie Hope

    Welcome to Circle of Hope, my podcast where I explore how powerful human connections can ignite purpose, partnership, and community transformation. In this episode, I sit down with my dear friend Janet Morrison Lane, Executive Director of the Vickery Meadows Youth Development Foundation.


    We reflect on the moment we met, the spark that started it all, and how it’s evolved into years of collaboration, mentoring, and meaningful impact. Our story is rooted in volunteering, vulnerability, and deep friendship—and I’m so grateful to share it with you.


    Watch this if you’ve ever asked yourself:

    • How do I build authentic relationships that last?
    • Can volunteering really shape my career?
    • What role does vulnerability play in friendship and leadership?
    • How can I turn service into a source of growth and connection?
    • What does it mean to show up consistently—for others and myself?


    Episode Highlights

    0:00 – Welcome and meet Janet Morrison Lane

    2:45 – How we met in 2018 (Thanks to Patty!)

    8:15 – The first spark: volunteering with Eagle Scholars

    14:00 – Creating “Raise Your Voice” and the power of public speaking

    18:45 – From strangers to soul-level friends

    24:20 – Circle of Influence: coaching, collaborating, and kindred spirits

    32:00 – Friendship and growth through walks, talks, and coffee chats

    42:00 – Volunteering as a lab for leadership

    48:40 – Janet’s journey to Executive Director

    58:00 – Listening as leadership

    1:05:00 – “Sit down and get to know the guest.”

    1:12:40 – Reflecting on the value of showing up

    1:21:00 – Final words and enduring connection


    Quotes to Remember

    “It always starts with connection.” – Valerie Hope

    “Sit down and get to know the guest.” – Janet Morrison Lane

    “You were my kindred spirit. I knew that.”

    “Volunteering became the way I got my first paid gig.”

    “We didn’t just work together. We grew together.”


    What You’ll Learn

    This isn’t just an episode—it’s a living lesson in servant leadership, friendship evolution, and community-building. Janet and I share how intentional outreach and meaningful service created a ripple effect that’s impacted hundreds of students.

    You’ll walk away with:

    • Insights into long-term, intentional relationships
    • How persistence fuels friendship
    • Stories from the Eagle Scholars program
    • The power of collaboration between nonprofits and volunteers
    • Why every act of service is a growth opportunity


    Stay Connected

    Guest: Janet Morrison Lane

    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/drjmo410/
    • LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janet-morrison-lane/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/drjmo
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@janetmorrison


    Host: Valerie Hope

    • Website:https://www.valeriehope.com
    • Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/valeriehope/
    • LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/valeriehope/
    • Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/ValerieVHope
    • Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@ConnecttoJoy


    Be Part of the Conversation

    What part of this episode moved you the most?

    Have you ever volunteered and felt transformed? Share your story in the comments.

    Know someone who needs to hear this? Forward the video and invite them into the Circle of Hope.


    #CircleOfHopePodcast

     #ValerieHope

     #JanetMorrisonLane

     #NonprofitLeadership

     #VolunteeringMatters

     #WomenInLeadership

    1 hr 7 min

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