I think one of the topmost toxic words that I hear... is "should"

You "should " do this, you "should" do that.

From behaviours to life decisions, I'm robbed of alot of liberty since young. To being able to be independent and grow to being able to walk my own path.

In short, I'm surrounded by people who... felt that there are certain things that I should be doing to the best of my interest.

But... what if that's not me?

What if I'm unhappy doing that?

What if I'm actually didn't want to walked the path of "should?"