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  • CVAD Episode 110: Self Love Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries

    Masturbation, Mental Health, and Relationship Boundaries: The Conversation Nobody Wants to Have

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    🎧 Streaming everywhere

    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/T1c97Yg8cCA

    📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?

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    00:00 Cold Open
    00:30 Show Intro and Where to Find Us
    01:45 Icebreaker: Bedroom Names and Alter Egos
    07:00 Facebook Jail, Alternate Pages, and May Awareness Months
    13:30 The History of Shame Around Self-Pleasure and the Gender Double Standard
    22:00 Toys, Preferences, Desensitization, and When Solo Pleasure Becomes a Relationship Problem
    31:30 The Amazon Package That Went to Grandma Twice and Our Most Embarrassing Caught Stories
    38:00 Mental Health Awareness Month: Can You Date Someone Who Refuses to Get Help
    45:00 Marv Opens Up About Depression and Suicidal Ideation
    51:30 Male Role Models, How They Shape Relationship Behavior, and Mentoring Young Men
    55:30 Final Thoughts and Show Close
    57:20 End


    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #mentalhealth #mentalhealthawareness #selflove 

    58 min
  • CVAD Episode 109: Sex Tapes,Cheating Celebs Bedroom Communication: What Couples REALLY Won't Say

    What would you do if your sex tape leaked online? Marv and Tay go there — and don't stop there. This episode covers Ray J's wild claims, Klay Thompson fumbling Megan Thee Stallion, Tory Lanez, and the real reason couples stay silent about what they want in the bedroom. Are you a pleaser or a controller? Can two pleasers actually work? Plus, would you date someone who refuses to meet your people after 6 months?

    CVAD brings the real conversations nobody else is having. Subscribe and tell a friend.

    📧 Guest/Topic submissions: [email protected]
    🌐 www.conversateafterdark.com

    🎧 Streaming everywhere

    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/nLFHdsyjlV0

    📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?

    Email: [email protected]

    🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com

    👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share

    0:29 Intro & Where to Find Us
    1:45 Icebreaker: Your Sex Tape Just Leaked — Now What?
    13:30 Ray J Claims 12,500 Partners — Do We Believe Him?
    23:50 Klay Thompson Fumbled Megan Thee Stallion
    32:20 Tory Lanez, Accountability & Why People Still Hate Meg
    41:10 Do Couples Actually Talk About What They Want in Bed?
    50:30 What Happens When Two Pleasers Collide
    59:45 Would You Date Someone Who Won't Meet Your People After 6 Months?
    1:11:00 Introducing Partners to Family — Where's the Line?
    1:18:45 Final Thoughts & Outro


    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #meganthestallion #klaythompson #rayj 

    1 hr 3 min
  • CVAD Episode 108: Is Porn Ruining Your Relationship?

    In this episode of Conversate After Dark, we dive into real conversations about relationships, intimacy, and boundaries.

    We break down:
    • How important alone time is in relationships
    • Clingy vs independent partners
    • Does porn negatively impact intimacy?
    • Can good sex actually save a bad relationship?
    • Revenge sex, toxic habits, and relationship truths
    This episode gets honest, funny, and real about modern dating and connection.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere

    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/ZtgjcPI3bqw

    📩 Want to be a guest or suggest topics?

    Email: [email protected]

    🌐 Visit: www.conversateafterdark.com

    👍 Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share

    0:00 Intro + where to find the show
    0:38 Icebreaker: how important is alone time in a relationship
    3:30 Clingy vs independent partners
    4:03 Nonchalant partners and getting too used to being single
    12:12 “Nothing is worse than being touched when you don’t want to be touched”
    13:20 Does porn mess up intimacy in relationships?
    14:27 Porn and unrealistic expectations
    16:26 Can porn desensitize you sexually?
    21:18 What if your partner’s porn preference is the opposite of you?
    22:37 Race preferences and dating outside your race
    28:16 Black men and Black women discussion
    28:49 Can good sex save a struggling relationship?
    32:19 Can you have sex while still mad at your partner?
    36:23 Would you ever have revenge sex?
    43:30 Friends, loyalty, and crossing relationship lines
    50:17 Outro


    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    51 min
  • CVAD Episode 107: Sometimes You Just Want To Sleep In The Car

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the viral clip of the man sleeping his car to avoid his wife, and can you be with someone who does not think sex is important. 

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RPqwmg_vLC8
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    49 min
  • CVAD Episode 106: Manifesting A Marriage

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about is it weird to manifest a marriage.

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/JiRKZrimOoA
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    41 min
  • CVAD Episode 105: What Is Your Apology Language?

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about apology languages and when does liking social media pictures go too far?

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/gdCKXnHHejU
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    44 min
  • CVAD Episode 104: Should You Still Be Going To The Club If You're In A Relationship?

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you be going to the club if you're in a relationship?

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/st8qrDMrTm8
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    1 hr 9 min
  • CVAD Episode 103: Are You Telling Your Friend That You Saw Their Partner Cheating?

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about should you tell your friend or not if you catch their partner cheating on them?

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJxEEAGP94U
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    56 min
  • CVAD Episode 102: When Dating Feels Like Babysitting

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about marrying too young and dating someone who is immature. 

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/7C3yiI5gQBo
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    1 hr 1 min
  • CVAD Episode 101: When Should You Take The Relationship Public

    On this episode Tay and Marv talk about the importance of matching energy, and when should you take the relationship public. 

    Grown folks talk. No fluff. Just real convo.

    Tune in and tell us what you think.


    It’s the real talk you need before you hit “post.”
    No fluff, no mess — just grown conversation.

    🎧 Streaming everywhere
    📺 Watch on YouTube:https://youtu.be/FJaBGjKqlqE
    📌 Link in bio

    💬 Got thoughts? DM us or email [email protected]

    #CVADPodcast #ConversateAfterDark#SocialMediaAndLove #healingjourney #GrownFolksTalk #BlackLoveConversations #LoveAndBoundaries #ModernRelationships #RealTalkOnly

    54 min

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