Conversations for Couples

Conversations for Couples

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  • 64: Marriage and Money with Rachel Cruze

    Money is one of the biggest sources of conflict in marriage — but it doesn't have to be. In this episode, Julie and David sit down with Rachel Cruze, two-time #1 national bestselling author, financial expert, and host of The Rachel Cruze Show, for an honest and insightful conversation about how money habits, money personalities, and money histories shape our most intimate relationships.

    Rachel shares how growing up as Dave Ramsey's daughter — born just months before her parents filed bankruptcy — shaped her life's mission of helping people win with money before they hit rock bottom. Together, Julie, David, and Rachel dig into the real reasons couples fight about money, and what to do about it.

    In this episode:

    • The two most common money conflicts couples face — and how to navigate them
    • Spenders vs. savers: how opposites can actually make each other stronger
    • Why your "money story" from childhood may be running your finances today
    • The shame and guilt cycle around money — and how to break it
    • Why combining finances in marriage isn't about control, it's about intimacy
    • The debt snowball method and zero-based budgeting explained
    • Why both spouses need a seat at the financial table
    • How tackling hard money conversations can actually deepen your relationship
    • Julie and David's own debt story — and how Dave Ramsey's work changed their marriage
    • Rachel's husband Winston, and how a spender married a saver (and made it work)
    • Raising kids with a healthy money mindset in the age of Amazon and Apple Pay
    • Whether you're just starting out, merging finances later in life, or trying to get on the same page after years of conflict — this episode is packed with practical wisdom and real talk.

      Connect with Rachel Cruze: Instagram: @rachelcruze Facebook: @rachelramseycruze The Rachel Cruze Show on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-rachel-cruze-show/id1447308241 
      Visit us at thebulitts.com

      Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

      31 min
    • 63: Two Docs Find Each Other - Twice!
      What happens when two doctors fall in love, get married, go through medical school and residency together, survive a pandemic on the front lines and then get divorced? And then get married again? Julie and David sit down with trauma surgeon Dr. Brittany Bankhead and emergency physician Dr. Brian Kendall to unpack one of the most remarkable relationship stories they've ever heard.
      Brittany and Brian met in college in a medical communications class, dated long distance while Brian was in the Peace Corps in Albania, got engaged after their first kiss on the beach, and married seven months later. Thirteen years, two kids, multiple cities, and the chaos of COVID later, their marriage crumbled. But the way they divorced was just as intentional as the way they came back together.
      In this episode, Julie and David explore:
      ✔️ How Brittany and Brian navigated a whirlwind romance and early marriage shaped by cultural and religious expectations
      ✔️ The emotional weight of training together in medical school, long-distance residencies, and COVID on the front lines
      ✔️ Why Brittany was the one who said "enough" and how post-COVID PTSD and suicidal ideation led her to transform her own life
      ✔️ How they co-parented from houses in the same neighborhood (with a pool in between and a golf cart to get around)
      ✔️ The moment at the pool, two and a half years after the divorce, when they looked at each other and thought: wait
      ✔️ Their "rant or remedy" communication tool for supporting each other without trying to fix everything
      ✔️ How intentional scheduling, coffee walks, pickleball, and date days booked by their family virtual assistant keeps their relationship strong
      ✔️ Dr. Brittany Bankhead's passion project, Modern Mom Lab, pairing high-achieving moms with family virtual assistants to help both sides thrive
      Dr. Brittany Bankhead, Trauma Surgeon, Associate Professor of Surgery at the Medical University of South Carolina, and Founder of Modern Mom Lab
      🌐 https://www.modernmomlab.com
      📱 TikTok & Instagram: @BBankheadMD
      Dr. Brian Kendall, Emergency Medicine Physician and Medical Communicator
      📱 TikTok: @BKendallMD | Instagram: @BriankendallMD
      Family Virtual Assistant: Jessica Geist | 785-564-3997 | [email protected]
      Find Julie & David at https://thebulitts.com and on all social media platforms @TheBulitts
      31 min
    • 62: What a Couple! Savvy and Spectacular!

      After 39 years of marriage, Jamie and Zane Tarence from Alabama have learned that the secret to a lasting relationship isn't doing everything together — it's knowing when to give each other space. In this candid conversation, Julie and David sit down with Jamie, creator of the popular lifestyle brand Family Savvy, and Zane, an entrepreneur and investment banker, to talk about what almost broke them, what ultimately saved them, and how they built an independent but deeply connected partnership. From taking separate cars to events to navigating completely different personalities, this episode is full of honest, practical wisdom for any couple trying to figure out how to grow together without losing themselves.

      Julie is not your therapist and David is not your lawyer. This podcast is meant for educational and entertainment purposes only.

      What You'll Learn:

      • Why Jamie and Zane credit community, faith, and professional resources — not luck — for saving their marriage
      • How understanding personality profiles (DISC, Enneagram) changed the way they see their differences
      • The surprising habit that eliminated a major source of conflict in their marriage (hint: separate cars)
      • Why healthy independence in a marriage is a strength, not a red flag
      • How to meet your partner's top needs — and stop sweating the rest
      • The story behind Family Savvy and Jamie's mission to empower women in their "second act"
      • Why both spouses understanding family finances is essential, regardless of who earns the money
      • Connect with Jamie & Zane:

        • The SavvyCast Podcast — available on all podcast platforms
        • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/family_savvy/
        • Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/familysavvy/pins/
        • Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familysavvy/
        • Find Julie & David:

          • Website: thebulitts.com
          • Follow on all social media platforms: @thebulitts
          • 31 min
          • 61: Building A Women's Business

            What does building a business have in common with building a relationship? More than you'd think.
            Carla Biesinger is a business mentor and Instagram marketing expert who helps women create profitable online businesses — and she's coached over 10,000 clients worldwide to do it. Based in Lisbon, Portugal, Carla's journey started in Buenos Aires, where she co-built the city's #1 restaurant on TripAdvisor with her then-boyfriend — only to walk away with $12,000 after five years of work. That moment became her turning point: she would never be financially dependent again.
            Today, Carla teaches women how to grow on Instagram, build an email list, and sell without feeling pushy — so they can create real income on their own terms.
            Julie and David Bulitt talk with Carla about what it takes to rebuild after a relationship and a business fall apart at the same time, why financial independence matters in relationships, and how the same intentionality required to grow a business is the same intentionality every couple needs.
            What You'll Learn:

            How to grow on Instagram without a big following
            Instagram Stories vs. feed posts — what actually drives sales
            Building an email list that converts
            How to sell authentically if you hate selling
            Why financial independence strengthens relationships
            The confidence gap holding women back from entrepreneurship

            Connect with Carla Biesinger:
            Instagram: @carlabiesinger
            Free Webinar: Available in Carla's Instagram bio
            Learn more about Julie and David at thebulitts.com

            31 min
          • 60: The 20 Million View Debate

            Julie and David Bulitt never expected a simple shower video to rack up over 20 million views — but it did, and the comments it unleashed revealed something far more profound than they anticipated. In this solo episode, Julie and David break down the three major waves of reaction to their viral Instagram and TikTok reel: the critics who found it uncomfortable, the couples who were inspired and saw themselves in it, and — most strikingly — the flood of men quietly confessing they've given up on intimacy in their marriages. Julie and David get personal about what it means to feel unseen in a long-term relationship, why staying intentional about attraction and appreciation matters at every age, and why one anonymous comment from a man in a sexless marriage stopped them both in their tracks.

            📱 Watch the viral shower reel: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DVV08f1AL0q/ 🌐 Website: thebulitts.com

            20 min
          • 59: Fixing Foster Care One Backpack at a Time

            Rob Scheer, founder of Comfort Cases and author of A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time, joins Julie and David to share his deeply personal journey — from growing up in the foster care system himself, to adopting four children and witnessing firsthand that nothing had changed. When his kids arrived carrying trash bags, Rob didn't just feel the pain — he built a movement. In thirteen years, Comfort Cases has delivered over 300,000 backpacks filled with essential, dignity-restoring items to foster children across all 50 states, Washington D.C., and Puerto Rico. Rob shares what goes into every case (and why every detail matters), how he built a national organization powered by everyday people, and why he believes our legacy is defined by what we give — not what we take.

            Learn more and donate at comfortcases.org Rob's podcast: Fostering Change Rob's book: A Forever Family: Fostering Change One Child at a Time

            21 min
          • 58: The Healing Power of Tattoos in Relationships with Tina Marie

            Join hosts Julie and David Bulitt as they explore an unexpected connection between body art and relationship healing with Tina Marie, founder of Tantric Tattoo in Sandy Spring, Maryland. From couples getting matching tattoos to commemorate their commitment, to paramedical tattooing that helps women reclaim their bodies and intimacy after breast cancer, Tina shares powerful stories of transformation and connection. Discover how the art of tattooing creates healing moments—whether it's reframing trauma through scar coverage, honoring lost loved ones, or helping couples rebuild intimacy after medical challenges. Tina's compassionate approach goes beyond ink; she creates a therapeutic space where clients process grief, celebrate resilience, and literally wear their healing journey on their skin.

            Connect with Tina Marie: Email: [email protected] Location: Tantric Tattoo, Sandy Spring, Maryland

            Learn more about Julie and David Bulitt: Website: https://thebulitts.com/

            23 min
          • 57: 26 for 26: How to Keep Your Relationship Exciting with Intentional Dating

            Join marriage therapist Julie Bulitt and divorce attorney David Bulitt as they launch their exciting "26 for 26" campaign - 26 creative dates throughout 2026 to keep relationships fresh and fun! In this candid conversation, the Bulitts share why consistent, intentional dating is crucial for long-term relationships and reveal their upcoming date plans including dance lessons, cooking challenges, speakeasies, and more. They discuss the neuroscience behind new experiences with your partner, offer budget-friendly date ideas, and invite listeners to join them on this year-long journey of rediscovering romance. Whether you've been together for 4 months or 40 years, this episode will inspire you to prioritize fun and connection in your relationship.

            Follow Julie & David Bulitt:
            Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebulitts/
            Website: https://thebulitts.com/
            Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thebulitts

            16 min
          • 56: Connecting Across Generations with Legacy Of A Grandpa

            In this episode of Conversations for Couples, Julie and David sit down with Rick Cognata, founder of Legacy of a Grandpa and author of "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time." Rick shares invaluable insights on intentional grandparenting, creating core memories, and building lasting relationships with grandchildren. From navigating boundaries to understanding the importance of presence over perfection, this conversation explores how to be the grandparent your grandchildren will cherish for a lifetime.

            Rick discusses his journey from leadership developer to grandparenting advocate, the importance of starting early to build strong foundations, and practical strategies for long-distance grandparenting. Whether you're already a grandparent, soon to be one, or simply interested in multi-generational relationships, this episode offers wisdom, humor, and actionable advice.

            Connect with Rick Cognata:
            Instagram: @legacyofagrandpa
            Website: https://legacyofagrandpa.com
            Email: [email protected]
            Book: "Connecting Across Generations: One Conversation at a Time" (available on Amazon)

            Connect with The Bulitts:
            Website: https://thebulitts.com/
            Subscribe to Conversations for Couples on YouTube and all major podcast platforms

            29 min
          • 55: Finding The One: Healing, Intuition, and Building Lasting Love with Jamie Bronstein

            Join Julie and David Bulitt in this insightful episode as they welcome relationship therapist Jamie Bronstein, LCSW, to discuss the keys to finding and maintaining healthy relationships. Jamie shares her expertise on healing unresolved issues, trusting your intuition, and knowing when you've found "the one." They explore common relationship challenges including infidelity and financial issues, the importance of empathy and communication, and how to differentiate between past trauma triggers and genuine red flags. Jamie also reveals her unique approach to helping couples reconnect and discusses her book "Manifesting" and upcoming Ready for Love Summit. Plus, hear candid insights about how relationship professionals navigate their own partnerships.

            Guest: Jamie Bronstein, LCSW
            Website: https://therelationshipexpert.com
            Instagram: @therelationshipxpert
            Book: Manifesting (available on Amazon and Barnes & Noble)
            Ready for Love Summit: https://readyforlovesummit.com
            Podcast: Love Talk Live
            The Bulitts Website: https://thebulitts.com/

            37 min

          About Conversations for Couples

          From the publisher's feed

          Married for 37 years and parents of four daughters (two adopted, two biological), David, a divorce lawyer, and Julie, a family therapist, have both been witness to families struggling with life’s most difficult challenges and at the same time, they have weathered their own struggles at home.  Authors of two award winning books, the Bulitts delve into the conversations they have had, those they should have had and those that every couple needs to have in order to find success, happiness and fulfillment.  

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