In complete awe of her I reached out to learn more about Deja’s story and ask her how she’s handled her entire life getting flipped upside down. The family being forced to live apart, the two older children not able to see their baby brother in the hospital for months, the rollercoaster of not knowing if their son is going to survive and her still doing all the regular ordinary things! I first did something SO out of the norm (crazy even) but I felt it so strongly on my heart so I had to and...she was appreciative but didn’t quite agree, yet. She also said something incredibly powerful during our conversation that stopped me in my tracks, “My reaction to it won’t change my child’s diagnosis!” Tune in to hear about the message I first sent and hangout with us as we dive into multiple hard topics. She is proof that your mindset is everything. She is also proof that weathering the storms (even really really hard ones) as husband and wife is possible when the foundation is strong, and effort is made.