Courtship Code

After 8 years of helping women attract partners so that they can get married I’ve learned that courtship is actually a simple process. It’s not easy. But it’s simple. Right now you may think it’s difficult and complicated because that’s what your past experiences have taught you. So because you’ve been winging it for so long you have patterns that cause you to repeat past mistakes. In this episode we discuss why it's time to stop overcomplicating courtship and how to make it simple.

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Today's episode is a Monday Coffee Chat replay. Coffee Chats are living coaching calls in the CCC student community where students get to submit questions for live feedback and coaching. This call features insight on the first 30 days of courtship, the importance of being present during the first 30 days, and why it's more important to focus on intention vs attention in the early stages of dating & courtship with a new man.

15 Minute Courtship Assessment Call

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Queen of Courtship Assessment

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Questions? Send a DM on Instagram @zarajcaptivatingcourtship

“Choosing you is always the best option,” says mom and entrepreneur, Ceceily, of The Captivating Courtship Code coaching. In her thirties, with three children, she finally feels like she has full permission to be her most authentic self in relationships.

In this episode, Ceceily details adjusting to life after divorce and rediscovering dating and courtship as a newly single woman. She discusses how she struggled to distinguish the values learned as a child from the values she truly embodied as an adult woman, and how her inner child impacted her romantic relationships. Through her journey in coaching and healing childhood triggers and wounds, Cecily began her transformation into her now blooming love life to attract better partners, increase her business as a female entrepreneur, and feel more empowered for a quality relationship.

Listen to this podcast to take the first step towards joining a community of career driven millennial women who own their value, value healthy relationships, and use a simple dating and courtship process to attract committed relationships and marriage.

The Relationship Assessment Call linked below is for career driven millennial women like you who want to assess their love blocks and have a game plan for courtship.

Time Stamps for the episode:

00:00 - Introduction to Cecily

4:25 - How Zara Met Cecily

5:40 - How Cecily Joined Captivating Courtship

9:46 - Being a Chameleon: placing value in what you do for others

16:41 - The Change in her Courtship Experiences

21:02 - What Would Have Happened If She Chose To Not Join CCC

24:28 - What Happens When There Is A Gap Between Identities

32:48 - Her Love Life Right Now

37:33 - Being a Mom Of 3 & Courting

41:12 - Online Dating

43:50 - Expectations from: “Dating with Children”

49:55 - Cecily’s advice to YOU!

56:26 - How it Feels to Be A Part of This Community for The First Time

1:00 - Practicing Vulnerability

1:06 - How Coaching Impacts Courtship

Links mentioned in the episode:

20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call

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Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

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Queen of Courtship Assessment

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Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

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If you anxiously attach as soon as you like a guy and put all your eggs and focus in his basket this episode is for you. When you are dating & courted for a few weeks or months, and then the relationship doesn’t turn into actual commitment, it may cause you take some time off out of frustration and disappointment. Then after some time you may work up the courage to do it all over again, and the new cycle begins. Feeling like you’re on a treadmill is exhausting. 

And you can stay in this same spot for years. This pattern causes a lot of wounds, heartbreak, low self worth and relationship anxiety due to always waiting for the ball to drop and for the man to say he isn’t ready or just end things out the blue

If you want a man who is compatible, will commit, and you don’t want to get emotionally attached too quickly you have to get off of this treadmill that’s wasting your time and making your more distrusting and fearful of getting hurt. In today's episode you will learn how to break this cycle and start meeting men who will commit in the next 30 days.

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A secret many high achieving successful women have is that they struggle with confidence and self worth. And society has made the mistake of confusing a woman with goals with a woman who isn’t fragile, fears rejection and failure, and a woman who doesn’t actually have it all together.

So you’re often treated as strong, or expected to have all of the answers, or to figure it out on your own. And while this may have allowed you to accomplish things you’ve set out to make happen…it’s also left you feeding into the beliefs and expectations others have put on you.

You may really want love and a partner who will see you as their best friend. A man who loves and values you and respects you, but deep down inside you don’t really believe it’s possible or that it will happen. And you really fear failure. Not just failure of settling and being a man who doesn’t meet the expectations of the people you care about…but you also fear the possibility of failing at ever attracting and being loved for who you are.

In this episode we'll dive into the real deal about why successful women lack confidence with dating, courtship and relationships.

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Being a matchmaker taught me there’s a luxury in the convenience of having help with love. The successful men and women I worked with as a matchmaker understood the benefit of accelerating their path to love.

Yet they would overcomplicate finding a partner even with help. I realized there were key things happening:

It didn’t matter who I introduced them to if they didn’t change these things and had the belief that they didn’t need to…they prolonged the opportunity to attracting a partner, unnecessarily. And most importantly, they weren’t getting any younger and in the back of their mind was a time clock and family pressure only causing more stress. So they needed to work with their situation and avoid reality and work against it.

In this episode we discuss why letting love come naturally is outdated and the future of love and relationships for smart, successful women.

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If you reflect on the last 6 months and you have had some ups and downs with meeting men, yet you are feeling confident that there are men available then you may be thinking something is missing that’s blocking you from attracting the right relationship for you.

Maybe you feel challenged with getting to 3 months and exclusivity, or had a breakup within the last 6 months and you are ready to move on?

Are you confident you can get to 4-6 weeks with a man with ease, yet you aren’t clear why relationships don’t go to the next level of?

If you want to attract a great guy, a committed relationship, and you want to see progress in your love life and that means the next courtship milestone which is 90 days

In this episode we discuss what to focus on during dating & courtship after the first 30 days so that the relationship is actually moving forward to commitment.

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Are you trying to figure out why your relationships aren’t lasting longer than 30 days? Do you want to know why after months of building an emotional connection the relationship isn’t moving forward to actual commitment or engagement? Do you want to actually take the next steps towards getting married? If you want to actually enjoy dating & courtship and you want to see progress in a relationship that leads to actual commitment without wasting time or pressuring a man to try and get him to commit, this episode is for you. In this episode you will learn exactly why the first 30 days of dating and courtship matters, and how to do it differently. 

Links mentioned in this episode

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Book Your Captivating Session

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Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code Accelerator Program

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Are you feeling clueless about courtship? If you've taken some steps towards attracting a compatible man for marriage but the relationships aren’t lasting or the men you are meeting aren’t fully committing and you’re not quite sure why, this episode is for you. Here's the thing, right now you may be taking some old outdated ways to date/court the men you’re meeting and it’s not working for you, especially if you’re a woman who’s over 30 and you’re trying to be intentional about getting married. And if do you want to get married, start a family, and want a man who will lead the way with his words and actions then you must turn this around now. In this episode we discuss the power of knowing how to court for commitment so that you can confidently meet a great guy who you can commit to so that you can get married.

Links mentioned in this episode

Follow @ZaraJCaptivatingCourtship on Instagram

Apply to The Captivating Courtship Code 

www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Take the Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Book 15 minute Relationship Assessment Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515