Courtship Code

Did the man you were dating/courting take all your attention and not commit to you? What if you knew the exact reasons why, and what steps you can take to lead to different outcomes in your courtship process so you can actually attract commitment? You wouldn't waste time on a non committal or emotionally unavailable guy again, right? High-achieving women like you don’t need to hand over all control and power to attract commitment. A happy healthy woman will pour into other cups too. She will break generational curses and get and give real love. STOP wasting your time, get to know your blind spots and be on the driver’s seat of your love life. This podcast gives clarity on why you reached a dead end in the courtship process and what to do about it for your next relationship. Create relationships that will actually lead to commitment!

Twenty-three percent of Americans aged 30-49 are single. With millions of Americans looking to attract a relationship and committed partner you may ask yourself, "Why am I still single?" This episode will bring clarity and help you take intentional action towards a high quality love life so that you can attract a compatible partner for marriage. We delve into the three beliefs of Desirability, Availability and Inevitability and the 8 reasons holding you back from taking actionable steps to improve your relationships.

Book a 20-minute relationship assessment call to figure out what’s holding you back and take actionable steps!

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20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call

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Join the CCC Program to be in the driver’s seat of your love life!

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

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Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

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If you’re someone who struggles with inconsistent communication with men, over-investing in someone who is not ready yet or find it difficult to maintain your boundaries, then this is an episode tailor-made for you.

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20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship

Do you feel like no matter how consistent you are with dating, your love life isn’t moving forward? Well, that could be because of love blocks. Love blocks create relationship patterns in your life. These love blocks could look like childhood wounds, triggers, self sabotage and abandonment.

Many high achieving women let relationship anxiety, communication issues, disappointment, or low self-worth hold them back from attracting the right partner. Identifying your relationship patterns such as fear of rejection and difficulty setting healthy boundaries, can create a ripple-effect of change in you. This episode will help you get clear how you can dig deeper into your own mindset which is the first step towards a high value love life.

Join us for this Monday's Coffee Chat behind the scenes of the Captivating Courtship Code coaching as we explore how to break free from patterns that may be holding you back from achieving the love life you desire.

Take your Queen of Courtship Assessment now to know which of the 4 Courtship avatars you are right now. This will give you specific actionable steps you can take to attract better relationships.

Time Stamps for this episode:

00:00 - Trophy Pattern

2:15 - How to Qualify a Man

4:47 - Get to Know People for Who They Really are!

5:29 - 1 Limiting Habit Women Have

6:05 - Why Qualifying a Man is Important

9:33 - Fear of Rejection is Fear of Vulnerability

10:02 - Ways to Make Yourself Heartbreak Proof

12:43 - What is stopping you?

13:50 - Manifest Your Match by Paying Attention to Your Patterns

16:52 - Boundaries are Scary but Very Important

17:11 - It’s mostly All About Plan A!

19:42 - How to Get Clear on What You Want

22:51 - Where are You Positioned?

25:07 - Journaling Your Courtship Journey

29:25 - What You Can Do Differently

31:35 - Conclusion

Links Mentioned in This Episode:

15 Minute Courtship Assessment Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515

Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

In this episode, we dive into setting clear boundaries and knowing when and why you need to lean back to build a sustainable, stable relationship. Join us for this Monday’s Coffee Chat as we explore things you can do before reacting to disrespect in your relationships.

One key to attracting your ideal partner is being clear on your own relationship needs. The more clear you are on your relationship needs, the more intuitive you will be in courtship and choosing the right partner. Clarity will help you narrow down and focus on quality men who desire your authentic value as opposed to men who disrespect your boundaries and ultimately leave you feeling unworthy.

Or maybe you’re attracting good men but they’re just not meant for you.. You probably need to break up with your type?

The Relationship Assessment Call linked below is for career driven millennial women who want to assess their love blocks and have a game plan for courtship.

Time Stamps for the episode:

00:00 - Introduction

4:11 - Why Being Clear on Relationship Goals is Necessary

7:00 - Things You Can Do Before Reacting to Disrespect

8:57 - You Don’t Need To Raise Him

13:07 - How To React To Expectations of Exclusivity on The First Encounter

15:04 - How To Make The Right Choice And Not Regret it

18:35 - Misalignment in Values, Visions, Decisions

22:43 - Expectations of Long Distance Exclusivity

29:29 - How To Score Your Man on The Commitment Scale

33:57 - Why You Both Have To Be On The Same Page

35:12 - What He Might Be Feeling & Why You Should Post In The Group Proactively

37:50 - Know When & Why To Lean Back

43:18 - Your Focus Should Be Alignment

48:00 - Conclusion

Links Mentioned In This Episode:

20 Minute Relationship Assessment Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code 2.0 Coaching Program

www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce

Questions? Send Zara a DM on Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/zarajcaptivatingcourtship

If you're meeting men and the relationships only last for a few conversations, weeks or short months but not fully moving into a secure, committed relationship then this episode is for you. When you've been in a cycle of this type of dating and courtship experiences then you will feel uncertain about where the relationship is headed and if your time is being valued with the potential for a real future with a man.

This is an important cycle to break, especially for women over 30 because you do want marriage, family, and to create a life with a partner who wants the same things out of life as you. You don't have time to waste and you have given dating & courtship lots of tries up to this point in your life so it’s time to fill in the blanks with what you need to do differently.

In this episode you will learn how to attract an exclusive relationship that’s committed which will lead to an engagement and marriage.

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Today I’m sharing 10 courtship secrets of confident successful women. These women often do a great job of masking what’s really going on in their love lives and how they actually feel. If you are like many confident successful women are hopeless romantics who are extremely resilient with relationships. You will try again and again the same way you go after any career goal in life. The thing is with career goals most follow a career success path and know the blueprint to achieve their goal. However, with relationships you tend to do the opposite. Due to shame and guilt you are uncomfortable with asking for help or letting others know how you actually feel inside when it comes to relationships. And that you don’t feel as confident internally as many assume. This shame leads to a lot of time and years wasted with a facade about how things are supposed to be and how you want others to perceive you while you're suffering with low quality relationships. In this episode I breakdown 10 secrets and how you can stop shrinking with men and start attracting the commitment you want.

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Over my years of running a matchmaking service I had the privilege of getting the inside scoop of what commitment ready men actually want and have concerns about when it comes to making the decision for commitment. These men were actively looking for wives and would share their personal thoughts and feelings with me to ensure they were introduced to the types of women they'd want to commit to. In this episode you'll learn three things matchmaking taught me about commitment ready men and what you may be doing during the first 90 days of courtship that's preventing a man from feeling safe to make the decision to move the relationship forward and commit.

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Regardless of how confident a woman may appear on the outside, many high achieving women have a deep fear of never being lovable. This leads to seeking validation, chasing unavailable men, and never feeling worthy or good enough to have the type of commitment they want. Surprisingly, many successful women have low standards when it comes to love. Yes, they may be attracted to and even enter situationships or relationships with men who would be considered high status or a prize, but they settle for poor behavior and non-committal men time and time again. 

On this episode we discuss how many successful women secretly fear of not being loved and how to turn this around.

15 Minute Courtship Assessment Call

https://Captivatingcourtship.as.me/?appointmentType=37891515

Apply to the Captivating Courtship Code

www.captivatingcourtship.com/coaching

Queen of Courtship Assessment

https://www.tryinteract.com/share/quiz/610be21f0713020017ea30ce