The Place Between The Promise & The Palace
Today, we’re focusing on how we respond when life doesn’t go as planned—when everything seems to fall apart without reason.
…23 So it came to pass, when Joseph had come to his brothers, that they stripped Joseph of his tunic, the tunic of many colors that was on him. 24 Then they took him and cast him into a pit. And the pit was empty; there was no water in it.
The pit represents those seasons when:
Things suddenly fall apart,We feel rejected, forgotten, or betrayed,And it seems like the dream God gave us is now impossible.The pit _________ the condition of our ______ —especially how we handle pain, rejection, and betrayal—before God can trust us with greater influence or promotion. Your _____ today can become your __________ tomorrow.
1. EVERYONE WILL FACE A PIT
Pits are the low places of life—times of disappointment, rejection, betrayal, financial struggle, or failure. But the pit doesn’t mean God has ___________ you.
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
2. PITS REVEAL WHAT’S IN OUR HEART
The dream reveals your ________, but the pit reveals your _______.
He sent a man before them—Joseph—who was sold as a slave. They hurt his feet with fetters; he was laid in irons.
Until the time that his word came to pass, the word of the Lord tested him.
In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while, if need be, you have been grieved by various trials, that the genuineness of your faith… may be found to praise, honor, and glory at the revelation of Jesus Christ.
What comes out of us when we’re squeezed in the pit—bitterness or trust—reveals what’s truly inside.
Many people fail the pit test by blaming others, becoming bitter, or doubting God’s goodness.
God wants us to _____ ____ even when we don’t understand what going on. “God doesn’t test us to find out what’s in our heart—He already knows.
He tests us so that we can see what’s in ____ _____.
3. DON’T LET BITTERNESS TAKE ROOT
Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life. The condition of your heart determines the direction of your destiny—if it’s _______ by unforgiveness, you’ll remain in the pit. The temptation to become resentful toward those who hurt us is __________ in the pit.
Looking carefully lest anyone fall short of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up cause trouble, and by this many become defiled.
Watch your heart closely. A “root of bitterness” refers to deep-seated resentment or unforgiveness that, if left unchecked, grows like a root and spreads—affecting not only you but everyone around you.
Guard your heart against bitterness.
Make a conscious decision to forgive those who wronged you.Remember: holding a grudge keeps you in the pit, not them.When you hold on to bitterness, you stay in the pit. When you forgive, God lifts you out. Unforgiveness keeps us _______ where we are; forgiveness allows God to _____ ____ forward.
Take time this week to identify an area in your life where you feel “stuck in a pit.” Ask yourself honestly: How am I responding— with trust or with frustration?
“Search me, O God, and know my heart…” — Psalm 139:23–24
Goal: Let God reveal what’s in your heart during hard seasons.
Release Those Who Hurt You
Write down the names of anyone you may still feel bitterness or resentment toward. Pray over that list and make a conscious decision to forgive them, even if your feelings haven’t caught up yet.
“Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you.” — Ephesians 4:31–32
Goal: Uproot bitterness and invite freedom into your heart.
Reaffirm Your Trust in God
Every morning this week, speak this declaration aloud:
“Lord, even when I don’t understand, I trust that You are working all things together for my good.” — Romans 8:28
Goal: Build spiritual endurance and strengthen trust during uncertainty.
Respond with Faith, Not Feelings
Ask yourself: Am I responding out of faith or out of feelings?
Journal or share with a friend how your going to respond to the setback in your destiny.
Choose to act based on what you know God has promised — not on what you see or feel in the moment.
“For we walk by faith, not by sight.” — 2 Corinthians 5:7
Goal: Develop spiritual maturity by trusting God’s Word above your emotions, even when you’re still in the pit.
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