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Self-trust isn’t a one-and-done achievement. It’s not something you check off your to-do list and forget about. It’s a relationship—a daily commitment to showing up for yourself, especially when life gets messy, uncertain, or overwhelming.

In this final part of my self-trust series, I’m opening up about what it really looks like to sustain self-trust as a lifestyle. This isn’t about perfection—it’s about creating practices that keep you grounded, aligned, and moving forward even when doubt creeps in.

Here’s what we’re diving into:

How I Keep Self-Trust Alive – The rituals, reflections, and daily practices that help me tune into my intuition and confidently navigate challenges.

The Messy Truth About Doubt – Why self-trust isn’t about always feeling confident, but about moving forward even when doubt whispers in your ear.

Living Self-Trust in Relationships – From letting my dog choose our walking route to empowering my kids to make their own decisions, self-trust shows up unexpectedly.

Setting Boundaries with Clarity – How self-trust has made it easier for me to say ‘no’ to what doesn’t align and ‘yes’ to what does, without second-guessing myself.

Shaping the Future with Self-Trust – Why trusting myself has allowed me to dream bigger, take risks, and stay open to whatever comes next.

This episode will guide you through a powerful reflective exercise to envision your life if you lived fully from self-trust. You’ll leave with actionable steps to weave self-trust into your daily life—whether it’s a morning check-in, journaling about your wins, or letting go of control in small but meaningful ways.

Tune in to explore how self-trust can become your foundation, compass, and daily practice.

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Do you ever wonder if self-trust can really make a difference—or if it’s just another buzzword? Maybe you’re asking yourself, “What if I trust myself and fail? What if I end up making the wrong choice?”

I get it. I’ve been there too. But what if trusting yourself could create results you didn’t even realize were possible? In this episode of Cracked Open, I’m breaking down exactly how self-trust has created profound, real-life changes in my life, my relationships, and my business—and how it can for you, too.

Here’s how this episode delivers:

• Turning Fear into Connection – I share how self-trust helped me open up in my marriage, creating a deeper bond and level of intimacy I’d been yearning for (and didn’t even realize was already possible).
• Achieving Real Career Wins – Learn how trusting my inner voice led to tangible business results, including a viral Instagram moment, thousands of new followers, and my first $10K month—all without chasing trends or people-pleasing.
• Elevating Client Sessions – Discover how self-trust has sharpened my intuition, made my work with clients more powerful, and helped them trust themselves on a deeper level.
• Building the Right Relationships – I’ll show you how trusting yourself attracts the right people—clients, friends, and opportunities—effortlessly aligning you with your goals.
• Reclaiming Freedom and Joy – Find out why self-trust made my life feel lighter, more authentic, and even a little bit like “cheating” at personal growth.

This isn’t about “trusting yourself” as a nice idea—it’s about how it leads to actual results: stronger relationships, unexpected career breakthroughs, and a sense of alignment that makes life feel exciting again.

Still unsure? You’re not alone—self-trust can feel scary, especially if you’re used to second-guessing yourself. But by the end of this episode, you’ll have a clear sense of how to start trusting yourself in small, tangible ways—and the confidence to see what unfolds from there.

Journaling Prompt: If I fully trusted myself, I would…
Give yourself permission to explore this. You might be surprised by what comes up.

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Welcome back to Cracked Open. Today, I'm taking you behind the scenes of my life and opening up about what the last year has been like for me as I've leaned into self-trust. This episode is the first of a raw and honest three-part series filled with moments of clarity, powerful practices, and a whole lot of growth and freedom.

If you've ever felt lost, constantly looking outside yourself for answers, only to realize the validation you crave isn’t out there, you might want to stick around and keep listening.

I’m sharing the real, raw story of how everything changed when I finally chose self-trust over external approval. It wasn’t an easy path—letting go of what others think never is—but it was SO worth it. This shift opened the door to deep, unexpected transformation in my career, relationships, and myself.

Here’s a taste of what you’ll discover in this episode:

• The Moment of Clarity – How I realized that self-trust was the key to moving forward and why it felt like both a risk and a revelation.
• The Practices That Built Self-Trust – Simple, life-changing habits and a powerful exercise you can steal.
• The Surprising Results – Choosing myself led to career breakthroughs, viral moments, deeper connections, and a profound sense of freedom.

Please join me as I walk you through the practices and mindset shifts that helped me transform from feeling lost to truly found. Remember to subscribe—this is just part one of the series! 

If you want to share any insights or revelations from this episode, send me an email at [email protected] or send me a DM on IG @alannabankscoaching.

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Imagine waking up one day, humming a tune in your shower, and realizing it has a profound message about liberating your mind.

That's exactly what happened to me. 

I share a validation love note inspired by my friend's struggle to let go, focusing on stepping out of comfort zones, challenging societal norms, and breaking free from self-imposed limitations. We'll also touch on the power of fostering a culture of acceptance and support.

Have you ever wondered about the magic that could happen if we let our minds wander, dream, and imagine?

Join me as we explore this, drawing on the importance of self-reflection, compassion, and challenging our beliefs—the importance of surrounding ourselves with inspiring people and the community's role in mental liberation.

Connect with me on Instagram @alannabankscoaching 

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Have you ever felt like your feelings and experiences are dismissed or ignored? I'm kicking off the second season with a focus on something we all crave but rarely get enough of - VALIDATION.

As we move through this season, I'll be your guide, sharing my validation notes, little love notes reminding you that your emotions are valid, you matter, and you're not alone.

Each week, we'll explore how validation serves as a salve for self-doubt, insecurity, and isolation.

This season, we explore the importance of being seen, heard, and understood and how to navigate tricky emotional landscapes, testing situations, challenging relationships, and life's ups and downs. Feel free to connect with me on Instagram at @alannabankscoaching - let's embark on this validating journey together.

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I created this hypnotic meditation for the members of my Embrace program, and I thought it would also be helpful to share with the larger community. 

This guided hypnotic meditation is a powerful way to connect with your inner child and offer them the love and support they need to let go of the opinions and beliefs of others and normalize what being a kid is all about. It is a gentle and compassionate way to help you work through any unresolved emotions or traumas from your past and connect to your adult version.

This guided hypnotic meditation can help you find the inner strength and resources you need to heal and move forward. In addition, it is a powerful tool for anyone who wants to cultivate a greater sense of self-love and self-compassion.

Music by Maura ten Hoopen. Licensed from http://restfulmind.com

For inquiries about my Life Amplifier program and Embrace, please message me on Instagram at @alannabankscoaching

Enjoy, and thank you for listening. 

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Dr. Nic Natale is back for another episode, where we explore sexual shame and how it affects your confidence and enjoyment in your sex life. We discuss the various factors contributing to sexual shame, including societal norms and cultural beliefs, and how it manifests in your thoughts and behaviours.

We share practical tips and strategies for overcoming sexual shame and reclaiming confidence in your sexuality. In addition, we discuss the importance of self-exploration and self-acceptance and how to overcome feelings of guilt or shame around your desires and fantasies.

We also touch on the role of communication and vulnerability in building sexual confidence.

If you've ever felt embarrassed, guilty, or ashamed about your sexual desires or experiences, this episode is for you. Join us as we share how to break free from sexual shame and reclaim confidence in your sex life.

For inquiries about my Life Amplifier program and Sexual Freedom coaching, please send Alanna Banks a message. You can find me on Instagram at @alannabankscoaching

You can follow Dr. Nic Natale @drnicnatale or learn more at www.nicnatale.com

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In this episode, Alanna welcomes sex therapist and coach Dr. Nic Natale for a conversation about the all too common problem of mismatched libidos in relationships. 

With empathy and expertise, they explore how to navigate this sensitive topic with their partner and share practical tips for bridging the gap between differing sex drives. 

Whether you're the high or low libido partner or somewhere in between, tune in for an enlightening and informative conversation on keeping the flame burning in your relationship.

I love you all very much. Thank you for supporting my mission and my passion. The best way to show me support for free is to share this podcast with your friends and family, rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or send me a review.

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You can follow Dr. Nic Natale @drnicnatale or learn more at www.nicnatale.com

I also have another podcast, No Excuses Coaching, with Ryan Montis and Alanna Banks, where we discuss the mindset, attitudes and strategies of elite coaching @itsthenoeexcusespodcast

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Do you feel like your relationship isn't going anywhere? Is the spark gone?

Join me, Alanna Banks and my guest Dr. Nic Natale, Sex Therapist and Coach, as we discuss the possibility of resurrecting your dead bedroom.

Dr. Nic walks us through his process called the Erotic Profile, which he uses with his clients to increase the passion and intimacy in their relationship and get the spark back.

Don't miss this enlightening episode on resurrecting your dead bedroom and get the flame burning again!

I love you all very much. Thank you for supporting my mission and my passion. The best way to show me support for free is to share this podcast with your friends and family, rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or send me a review.

For inquiries about my Life Amplifier program and Sexual Freedom coaching, please send me a message.

You can follow me on IG at @alannabankscoaching

You can follow Dr. Nic Natale @drnicnatale or learn more at www.nicnatale.com

I also have another podcast, No Excuses Coaching, with Ryan Montis and Alanna Banks, where we discuss the mindset, attitudes and strategies of elite coaching @itsthenoeexcusespodcast

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Happy February! This month we're going to zoom in on love and relationships. I'm pulling from the Erotic Tarot Deck. 

In addition to hypnotic meditations, I'm providing monthly general readings to help you gain insights and inspiration for the month ahead. 

My mission with these readings is to help you open a dialogue with yourself, clarify your thought process, focus on the positive, identify areas for improvement, make decisions and ultimately find peace in your heart. 

I love you all very much. Thank you for supporting my mission and my passion. The best way to show me support for free is to share this podcast with your friends and family, rate the podcast on Apple Podcasts and Spotify, or send me a review.

I invite you to book a one-to-one cards and insights reading with me. For inquiries about my Life Amplifier program and Sexual Freedom Hypnosis, please send me a message.

You can follow me on IG at @alannabankscoaching

I also have another podcast, No Excuses Coaching, with Ryan Montis and Alanna Banks, where we discuss the mindset, attitudes and strategies of elite coaching @itsthenoeexcusespodcast

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