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26: I heard this saying from Bob Proctor - The moment you graduate from college, you're obsolete.

Essentially it means if you're not growing, you're dying.

I don't have a college degree and I got kicked out from high school.⠀ ⠀

That being said, even though I didn't get the traditional education, I'm constantly upgrading and learning.

I'm always curious. And I think I'm not bounded by the traditional education system, my mind works in a different way.

I'm always thinking of other ways of doing something and what's the most efficient way of doing things because I don't have a rule book.⠀

The world is huge and there's no way we can learn everything in one life time.

The scientists and NASA are constantly finding new things so why should we stop learning.⠀

When we're open to learning, we stop judging and become more accepting of others.

We attack what we don't understand because that's a threat to our believe system. 

🌈So if we drop our guards and just be genuinely interested in one another, the world will be in a much better place for all of us!⠀

25: 💁‍♀️People often tell me that their prayers aren't being answered so they feel betrayed by God and therefore go through Life in resentment.⠀

I wasn't listening. I was spending a lot of my time complaining and comparing my life to others and lamenting why others seem to have it better than me.⠀

The truth is I can't see the Big Picture but God can.⠀

In A Course in Miracles, it said that if you're in control, you're in competition with God.

And God doesn't let you see the entire plan. He gives you bite size information. And ushers you to take that one step in front of you. 

🙅‍♀️Impatience gets you no where too.⠀ ⠀

But this is a lesson on it's own.⠀

God can see the whole picture and therefore already knows what I need.⠀

Life is an on going process. Everyday is an opportunity to get to know YOU.

Life isn't easy but it's rewarding when we enjoy the journey instead of resisting it.⠀

24: We're not only living in times of extremes, we're going through massive transitions.

Look around you'll see old systems breaking down and even Mother Nature is changing.

If you resist change, you'll feel uncomfortable and it almost feels like death every single day.

There're no books in history YET that talks about how to deal with this transition because we're literally writing history and we're part of making history.

Isn't this exciting?

We need to not only shift our thinking and awareness, we must also change our lifestyle habits.

In fact, those of us who are awakening aren't attracted by all the luxury material living as before.

We've learned to enjoy them but not be consumed by them.

So, that means if you're focusing your business on drawing people in by all the first class travels and all, it's not going to work with the more conscious entrepreneurs.

Because we now know we don't need manipulative fancy marketing to live that lifestyle.

In fact, we're really called to simplify our lifestyles. I'm not saying minimalists here. There's really no one lifestyle that fits all.

When I say simply your lifestyle means to literally remove things that are taking up your time to work on yourself.

The # 1 reason for not having time to mediate or journal or even just talk to yourself is... "I am busy." What are you so busy with?

Really!

Busy doesn't mean productive.

Therefore, eliminate distractors and commit to spending as much time as possible with yourself.

Talk to yourself. Be your own cheerleader. Raise your vibrations.

No one is going to do that for you.

We don't spend time with ourselves yet expect our loved ones to make us happy.

That doesn't sound right at all!

I don't know about you. I love spending time with myself. Doing what I want to do each moment.

You ask me how I get all my inspirations for writing all these posts? I spend time talking to myself and researching each topic and then form my own opinions.

Self awareness is key if you want to thrive in this new season.

All the best! 

❤Elyse-Anne

23: (Replay) 📅So. July is here and July brings in more no nonsense energy.⠀ ⠀

🙋‍♀️Can you feel it?⠀

Many people are afraid of the Mercury Retrograde season but I suspect they're just using it as an excuse not to take action and just want to blame something.⠀

It's uncomfortable for sure but I'd rather be uncomfortable for a short period of time than my entire lifetime.⠀

No time for procrastination. Either it'll work or not.⠀ ⠀

We're on the brink of extinction so if that happens, what's the point of accumulating all your material stuff?

And I'm not saying you should live like the monks now. NO! That's not what I mean.⠀

After all, we're here to manifest and create things into reality.

It's time to stop waiting for the environment and circumstances to be right before you take action.

There's really no time to waste because each day is passing by sooooooOoo quickly.⠀

As Mother Earth raises her frequency, so must we and that means we really must let go of what's holding us back.

That's presented to us as challenges and lessons we must learn.

Those who wish to take their own sweet time, will transit and move on to another realm where time is much slower.⠀

We're part of the change and we're the chosen ones.

So stop waiting for someone to appoint you to lead.

It's YOU!⠀

21: Trying to be positive all the time is a lie.⠀ ⠀

No one on this planet can be positive ALL the time. You can TRY and then think you're positive.⠀

I woke up feeling crap about myself as if everything was falling apart and I felt useless and not good enough.

It was crazy.

This is a sure sign that EGO is taking over and trying to keep me safe.

This is also an indication that you're ready for the next level of evolution.⠀

Going back to emotions. Understand that YOU'RE are human being and YOU'VE emotions.⠀ ⠀

Society have continuously try to rob us from our feelings and trying to get us addicted to various things to run away from our own emotions.

So that "THEY" can manipulate and control us.

Imagine a life FREE from addictions!⠀

Your emotions lets you know where you are in your life right now.

It requires a lot of love and courage to face yourself.⠀ ⠀

Basically it triggers our survival instinct.

Once again, you're a human being.⠀

The only difference between a "good" and "bad" emotion is the story you tell yourself.⠀

Remember to leave me a comment and get this conversation going.

Enjoy the unfolding.⠀

22: 🙋‍♀️It's normal to have desires to have a better life.⠀

🤷‍♀️The question is do you want to have more? The answer is YES right?⠀

And then we blame LIFE for forsaking us.⠀

If you want to win in a game, you must know and obey the rules. Otherwise it's like a dog chasing it's own tail.

And you may be feeling the same way.

🙅‍♀️NO!⠀

Taking action with the believe that you don't deserve it, it's just a waste of time and energy.⠀

You believe in your struggles more that you believe you can thrive.

What you focus on expands.⠀

All of us have a story. And it may not be the truth. Most of us come up with the story to justify how we feel.

The brain always has to give meaning to what is happening.

Your struggles are also an indication of what you've been tolerating.⠀

You need to learn to tap into your God given gifts and claim your space.

Those who you see are living their dreams have figured out who they truly are and refused to settle for anything less that what they know they deserve.

The Law of Attraction is responding to YOU. 

🤷‍♀️Why are you tolerating?⠀

Enjoy the unfolding.⠀

20: Everyone wants to love and be loved. Everyone wants to be wealthy, healthy and happy yet why does all these good things avoid us like a plague?

Are all the good things we want only available to a handful or it is available to all of us?

The answer is : it's available to all of us. Because we're all Children of God.

God doesn't have a favourite child and He doesn't show favouritism.

Well then why do we suffer?

Suffering is a choice. We've bought into a believe system that we need to suffer to somehow be worthy to receive the love we deserve.

We were taught to suffer!

The people who holds the power wants the mass to suffer so that they can control us.

We now know that we're the creators of our lives and we don't have to give up our power to anyone.

And you can see this happening in organisations, politics and corporate companies.

We've reached enough critical mass to overthrow the old way of doing things.

Because we're sick and tired of being sick and tired of being told what to do.

This means, we've to look at our personal lives and take personal responsibility.

If you don't learn from your personal history and history will repeat itself again.

It's time to make a decision to THRIVE.

With Gratitude,

Elyse-Anne

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19: We already have a lot on our plates and many a times we put ourselves last on the list.

Sometimes it's so crazy we don't even get 10 mins for ourselves.

As Tony Robbins said, if we don't even give ourselves 10 mins, then we don't really have a life!

I was a flight attendant for 10 years and looking good is part of my job. And when I became a full time housewife/stay at home mom, I always had to find reasons to dress up.

I mean... I didn't want to look like I was crazy.

But that was when I was younger and I wanted to fit in.

Something amazing happens as you get older. 

You just don't give a shit about what other people think about you anymore.

I've learned to live by my rules. I decided to make up everyday for myself for no reason.

I'm looking good for myself. I want to feel like a million bucks when I'm cleaning the house, cooking and doing grocery shopping.

Why do I need to look good for the world?

I've tried to lose weight and followed so many diets and finally I gave up and decided to follow my rules.

And you know what? My rules rocks.

I eat whatever I want. Drink whatever I want that makes me feel good.

It's my body. My life. My say.

So it's time to live life your way. The experts don't know you. You're the expert of you.

With Gratitude,

Elyse-Anne

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18: It's really easy to get sucked into the day to day routine and then abandon ourselves.

When I say abandon I mean that we're not giving enough ME time to ourselves. If that's the case, then how will we ever have a great relationship ourselves? 

🤷‍♀️How can love ourselves more and get to know what we truly want?

So, a great place to start is to ask yourself this one very simple question. 

👉ARE YOU TRULY HAPPY WITH YOUR LIFE?

If you're not aware, it's easy to get sucked in to other people's business and you end up with a mediocre life that you detest.

And then if you start to give yourself excuses and then you tolerate everything and everyone around you.

However, once you ask yourself this question and you're really serious about taking matters into your own hands, the Universe will step right in to support you. 

🙋‍♀️It starts with having the courage to look at your life from a very honest point of view.

If you've created this 'mess', then only you can change it - no one else!

There're basically 4 areas of life that we desire to thrive in.

1. LOVE

Go down the list and do a self check to see how you're doing in each department. 

💃We can definitely have it all but it requires work and brutal honesty with thyself.

And when one area is thriving it'll overflow into other areas of your life.

Most women cannot compartmentalise their emotions (I think I can but I can't) so it's vital that we've emotional clarity on what's going on with our life.

I'm aware that my marriage is taking a toll on my energy and I'm spending most of my energy resenting my marriage. 

💁‍♀️So since this is the energy sucker, I've to suck it up and handle this first.

That was what I did.

You can't be happy and angry at the same time. So I want to get this out of the way so that I can have space for other areas of my life.

True enough. Once I decided to make the appointment with the lawyer, everything else started to fall into place.

Don't rush the process. Change and transformation takes time.

Key is that you're aware of what's really going on in your life.

The Universe gives you more of what you tolerate. Stop tolerating now!

With Gratitude,

Elyse-Anne

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17: We can always love ourselves more can't we? But do we? 

A lot times people think self love is about going for massages, spa treatments and even a shopping spree.

It's a great way to destress for sure but what's the point of the activities if you're still the same person at the end of the day?

Self love is doing things for your highest good.

I know it sounds selfish but you can't give what you don't have. You want to come from a space where you've overflowing with everything and you've so much to give and you don't have think about your next meal or rent.

Self love also means let your yes be yes and no is a complete sentence.

As women we've all these unspoken crazy rules to make us fit into the patriarchy system.

If you don't stand up and speak up for yourself, no one will.

Just because you're a nice person, doesn't mean you're a doormat.

What's the point of being nice to others but you end up betraying yourself?

What you tolerate you'll end up getting more of. Because that's the vibration you're sending out to the Universe.

At the end of the day, you teach people how to treat you the right way.

And it begins with you.

Self love is really all about getting to know YOU and having a fabulous relationship with you.

When you've an amazing relationship with you, you're having an amazing relationship with God.

And you become the entire UNIVERSE!

I wish you well.

Love and blessings,

Elyse-Anne

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