Create with Elyse

Create with Elyse

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  • How to Prepare Yourself for a Divorce

    16: I've been toying with this idea for at least 10 years. And the reason why I didn't take action was because of FEAR.  Even up till 6 months ago, there was still fear.  

    I've 3 children and there's a lot of consider. However that being said, I did use my children as an excuse not to move forward.  Deciding that you want a divorce is just the beginning of the journey. If you've children, then there's so much more to consider.  

    That's why it had to take 10 years for me to grow up.  Going through a divorce will bring out the ugly side of you and your soon to be ex-husband and to be honest, I did become childish and egoist.  Understand that both parties are hurt and both want to be heard.  

    I've learned that when we quarrel, it's all about making our points across. We weren't ready to listen. We just want to vent.  

    As a result, a lot of hurtful words were exchanged and some words can't be taken back when said.  For me, I made a conscious decision to walk away and not run away from my marriage.  

    As a spiritual student, I recognise that there's an opportunity for me to grow and become a better woman.  A Course in Miracles said that all relationships are gifts.   

    The people who hurt you the most are your best SPIRITUAL teachers because they show you what you truly believe about yourself.  At the end of day, we're all children of God and this is something I had to get over.  

    No matter what I thought of him, he's also a Child of God.  

    Yes! He's the wrong person now but 15 years ago, he was the right person.  

    The last thing you really want to do is be angry with yourself and be guilty. You've already made the decision and you can't change the fact.  So don't make the same decision twice!  

    Like I said, there'll be a lot of ego play coming out and this is the best opportunity to heal your inner child and traumas so that you don't project it to the world and most of all your children.  

    They're watching and learning.  

    What kind of role model would you like to be for them?  

    I've 3 girls so what I do will impact and influence their love life in the future.  

    Children learn from watching not through our nagging (that would be so much easier though!).  Reach out to friends but be selective of who you speak to.  

    This is also a good time to shop around for lawyers. Talk to friends who've gone through this process and ask for recommendations.  

    It's going to be emotion journey but when you're done with the drama, 

    I promise you, you'll be at peace with yourself.  On top of that, you'll feel a sense of freedom that you've been longing for in a long time.  From this space, you'll find the clarity and strength to move on.  

    Yes this may be rock bottom for you and the only place to go is up!  

    Have faith that GOD is right there with you. Everything you need is already here. All you need to do is to take the next step.  I'm here with you.  

    With Gratitude, 

    Elyse-Anne.  

    🙋‍♀️P.S. Ready to stop the struggle, end the effort of trying & have ALL YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE?  You're just ONE decision away from living the life of your dreams.⠀  

    Tell me what you want and I'll show you how to attract it effortlessly - hustle not needed.⠀ ⠀ 

    👉Book your personalised VIP "Dreams Come True" private session with me (Elyse-Anne!) to get from where you are to where you want to be.  

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    Watch the video here: https://youtu.be/uVtF3vtFu64

    19 min
  • How to Manifest Anything You Want
    14: Listen to find out my simple manifestation trick that works miraculously all the time.
    I've manifested not just money but from winning awards to TV and Radio shows, appearing on magazines and travel opportunities.
    If I can do it, so can you.
    You can manifest anything you want.
    16 min
  • Is Your Weight Holding You Back From Making the Money You Deserve?
    13: Are you struggling with weight issues?
    And I'm not talking about losing weight because you want to fit into a wedding gown.
    I'm talking about literally losing the weight for health reasons.⠀
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    For the past 3 years I've been piling on so much weight that I went into hiding.
    This was the heaviest I've been and it's not because of child birth!⠀
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    I lost all the baby weight after my 3rd child.
    My 3rd child is turning 6 next month and I can no longer use the excuse that I just gave birth.⠀
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    I don't eat a lot and I've tried all sorts of diets and exercise and my weight still won't budge.
    What I found is that my weight gained is due to emotional stress!
    I can gain weight by drinking water.
    So it's an emotional cause!
    The body thinks I'm dying so it's storing up fats!
    For the past 3 years I went into a mild depression and I lost my self confidence and security.
    And denied my desires.⠀
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    Until recently, I finally came out of hiding and my weight started to drop.
    From 68kg - 65k without any diets or exercises.⠀
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    How?
    I finally gave myself the permission to live a big life and have everything I desired.⠀
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    I tapped into my MILLION DOLLAR IDEA and gave myself the permission to influence millions and make millions.
    If this sounds like you, then I'd like to invite you to join me in this 5 weeks project.⠀
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    Get all the deets here 👉 www.Million.TheWomanofInfluence.com.
    22 min
  • How to Become Highly Visible in Your Industry & Stand Out from the Crowd
    12: It's official! My Instagram account had the highest month ever! 20k followers or members I would like to address them in 1 month.
    20k people clicked the follow button in 30 days to follow my Instagram account.
    I'm still trying to catch my breath and take that all in. Someone please pinch me!
    After 10 years in the industry, I finally had the breakthrough I desired!
    I tried and tried and tried and almost gave up but somehow managed to convince myself to just hang on a little longer and wah la!
    This is truly living life beyond my wildest dreams. If you had told me 10 years ago that this would have happened, I wouldn't have believed you.
    Because I was the most un-tech sayy person ever! I didn't even want to buy a smart phone to begin with!
    So, let alone thinking that I would one day learn to love social media and actually excel on it!
    Anyway, during all the years of trying, I've always had the vision in my mind that ONE DAY, I'll be rich and famous.
    To tell you the truth, I've played play pretend all these years. Putting out content and speaking my truth while having this vision that lots and lots of people were listening to what I had to say.
    (Actually - at that time - no one really cared!)
    And the irony is this. Whatever that I'm saying now to my 50k members on Instagram, is pretty much what I've said a few years ago.
    It took me a few years to get it and shift after watching this interview of Marianne Williamson with Oprah.
    The reason why so many people are wanting to be stars is because they're not yet starring in their own lives and Marianne also said that we're more afraid of our own light than darkness.
    After listening to that, I had chills down my spine. I knew that I wanted to feel important but I didn't know how to get it.
    I gave my power away.
    I needed my posts to be liked a million times to feel smart.
    I needed people to sing my praises to feel like I was good enough.
    I needed to be in the spotlight because I wanted to be seen.
    At the end of the day, I realised that I had to light up my own world with my own light. I just stopped waiting for the world to validate me.
    It was the most interesting experience ever because I realised I wasn't really living in my body. It felt like I was floating outside my body and thus I couldn't hold on to whatever that I've created.
    My external success fell apart because internally I wasn't able to hold and keep up with it!
    After 3 years of going on a soul searching journey, I finally got it!
    I didn't need a fancy website or a Paris photoshoot to stand out from the crowd.
    Which by the way, I did all of that!
    All I needed was to be me. I know you might be rolling your eyes and I know it sounds super cliche.
    But if I didn't see how quickly my Instagram account grew right before my eyes, I would had done and felt the same!
    We're not here to be a clone of anyone. We're here to be ourselves and truly live life on our own terms.
    I know! Again, another cliche!
    But do you know 4 out of 5 people don't know what they really want?
    I invite you to conduct an experiment.
    Every person that you meet over the next 7 days, ask them this one simple question:
    "What do you want?"
    3/5 people will tell you that they want happiness.
    But happiness is a state of mind - meaning it's an emotion. It's already there.
    Same thing with visibility. I see so many people are teaching entrepreneurs how to become visible!
    I'm not really sure how's that working out and how to even teach visibility!
    Visibility isn't something that you DO!
    I believe visibility is equivalent to the amount of light you can channel and hold for the world. It's interesting to watch those who say they want to be visible yet at the same time so afraid of even attending networking events.
    Or hosting a live webinar or simply speaking their truth.
    The safer you feel in the world, the more visible you'll become because you're independent of the good opinion of others.
    The law of attraction never fails.
    13 min
  • How I Grew my Instagram Account to 44k Followers in 8 Months
    11: Over the years, I've always built my business from an ego space.
    Because I had something to prove and I wanted to prove that I was worth it.
    When you're in the healing and transformation business, it's really not easy to draw the line between helping and making money.
    As a business owner, I want to maximize my profits.
    But as a lightworker, I want to be of service to as many people as possible.
    I'm not going to lie and say that I don't want to have a huge following or I don't want my work to reach the masses.
    I do.⠀ ⠀
    But I've learnt that my intention sets the tone of the result.
    So the best way to grow your community is to be genuinely interested in humanity and treat each interaction as how you like to be treated.
    I dropped the focus on growing the following and stopped playing all the strategic games.
    I stopped trying to sell something.⠀
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    I asked myself what would I love to do all day even if I'm not paid?
    Once I learned that it was ok to stop focusing on the balance sheet, then the pressure was off.
    I want to build a business that I love, impacts the world and make meaningful money.⠀
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    The only time I'm greedy and I want it all!
    It takes time to figure it all out to land on a sweet spot.
    I'm still figuring things out and while doing so, I'm so honoured and humbled that you came along for the ride.
    So fasten your seats belts and enjoy the unfolding.⠀
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    29 min
  • How to Work with Your Triggers During Venus Retrograde
    10: Venus is in retrograde from 5th - 31st October 2018.
    Retrograde means that the planet is spinning backwards. And since all of us are connected in the cosmos, you don't need to be a rocket scientist to know that when something is against the flow, disruption happens.
    Maybe people get into panic attacks and they're so afraid during retrograde season. I used to be afraid but not anymore.
    I've come to love it because it's really detox season.
    If you're ready to see the truth and clear the cobwebs in your closet, then you'll definitely fall in love with peeling off the layers and get to your true self.
    This is a good time to practice what I've learnt.
    First, I stopped judging myself for being triggered.
    Then, I asked myself. Do I want to be right or happy? (From the teachings in A Course in Miracles)
    Last but not the least, I allowed myself to feel the energy and then let the energy leave my body.
    Once I was clear in my head, I took deep breathes and meditated to ground myself.
    As a more conscious being now, I realised that is just my old identity which I no longer have to operate out of.
    The need to be right comes from a place of not feeling good enough. The need to prove and to be seen.
    And only the ego needs to be seen and heard and only the ego can be hurt.
    The soul cannot be hurt so ground yourself and know that nothing can hurt and harm you.
    Detach from the story and expand your energy. I find that when I expand my energy consciously, I'm reconnect myself to the "Bigness" of the Universe.
    Your triggers are here to show you what you need to release. Don't run away or be afraid. simply be the observer.
    Love your triggers for it's here to unlock the next level and present you with more gifts.
    This is a great time to remember who you truly are.
    14 min
  • How to Manifest Money Right Now
    9: What I'll be sharing with you is how I personally manifest money to pay my bills on time and fund my dreams.
    The way I'm doing it makes no logical sense to the mind and I cannot explain to you the technical terms the way money is showing up for me.
    All I can say is that the WOO-WOO stuff works!
    Before I go on to tell you about my personal methods, I would also like to share with you what I know for sure that doesn't work.
    I've gone through many ups and downs with money. I was broke like hell - like having 50 cents in my bank account and banks howling at my door everyday to making 6 figures in a year.
    When I had money, I would worry that the money would be depleted and I was so scared of spending even 1 cent because I was worried that it won't show up again.
    In order for me to experience this and know this in every cell and fibre of my body, I need to do life another way.
    I needed to test the Universe if this hypothesis was true!
    15 min
  • How to Leave a Toxic and Abusive Relationship or Situation
    8 : Do you suffer from anxiety attacks from your relationships?
    I know I’m not the only who is going through this. I’m sure there are many women out there who are suffering silently, going through this almost alone and praying for a way out.
    So, today, I’m going to open up and be completely transparent with you. I want you to know that you’re not alone.
    And you don’t have to go through it alone.
    Yes change is scary! But I promise you that another level of freedom will be bestowed unto you when you take just one tiny step in the of self love.
    One tiny action action changes the vibration in the Universe and as a result changes your destiny.
    You may not be able to see the entire plan. This is the time to strengthen your faith in God that He has got your back.
    Most importantly, ask for help. We’re given freewill and your angels and guides and even God can’t interfere and intervene if you don’t give them them permission.
    ASK FOR HELP TODAY!
    19 min
  • Why it’s ok to be a Jill of all trades if you’re looking for your life purpose
    7 : So, if you’re looking for your life purpose, you can stop looking for it now. Because you didn’t lose it.
    When you’re ready, it’ll come find you. It’ll show up literally at your doorstep.
    You just need to be ready to dance and play with it. You won’t be able to see the whole picture and you’re not supposed to.
    How do you know for sure what you really want when you haven’t tried and know for sure?
    And how do you for sure what you can or cannot do if you don’t even give yourself the opportunity to try.
    You may like it. You may not. You may excel at it. You may not!
    And it’s all ok! All paths really do lead you to one path! GROWTH!
    It’s up to you to take 10 years or 10 months or 10 mins!
    You don’t really know until you actually do it?
    Some gifts come to you as you become fully engaged in life. It’s as if as life wants to make sure you can be trusted with it. You must be ready to receive this precious gift.
    You won’t want to give matches to a 5 year old do you?
    22 min

About Create with Elyse

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Welcome to Create with Elyse, a sanctuary for your transformation and manifestation journey. I'm Elyse, your dedicated guide, ready to help you navigate the incredible world of self-discovery and unlock the boundless potential that resides within you.