Doing Dating Better with the "Profile Helper"
Are you feeling burnt out by the "dopamine slot machine" of modern dating apps? In this episode of the Cupid’s Coach podcast, veteran matchmaker Julie Furman sits down with the "OG" of online dating, Eric Resnick of Profile Helper. With over 40 years of combined experience, they share a candid look at how to navigate the digital dating world without losing your mind—or your heart—to the wrong people.

Julie and Eric dive into the shift from traditional sites to social discovery apps, the truth about "unnatural matches," and why your profile should never feel like a sales pitch. Whether you're recently divorced, widowed, or just frustrated with swiping, this episode provides the "training wheels" you need to transition from "me" to "we".


Key Takeaways:
* Dating App Evolution: Understanding the "sweet spot" between traditional apps and casual swiping. 
* The "First Week" Rule: Why you should aim to meet in person or via video within 3 to 7 days to avoid "dying on the vine". 
* Age & Height Reality: Moving past rigid checkboxes to focus on shared values and lifestyle alignment. 
* Privacy & Safety: How to protect yourself from romance scams and when to use tools like Google Voice. 
* Authentic Photos: Why candid "friend-captured" shots often beat stiff professional portraits. 
Connect with Eric Resnick: Get a free profile assessment at ProfileHelper.com.

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How do you find true compatibility in dating — especially later in life?
In this episode, Julie Ferman chats with Ann, founder of After Hello, about navigating age gaps, attraction expectations, lifestyle differences, and emotional intelligence in matchmaking.
Key takeaways:
* Why fantasy dating can set you up for frustration
* How to assess compatibility beyond surface-level checklists
* Managing power dynamics and expectations around money
* Using phone calls and virtual dates to streamline connections
* Insights from Anne’s own love story and client experiences
Dating later in life is about connection, alignment, and flexibility — not just chemistry.

Is the label, "Narcissist" misused and overused? Yes. Let's clear things up. Julie shares colleague Marina Edelman's short list on what narcissism REALLY is, how to spot it, and why you should run the other way.

Tim Molnar, Dating Coach/author of Date Smarter, uses research-backed strategies and social science insights to evolve the dating landscape. How developing the art of social magnetism and saying YES to IRL events is .... dating smarter. 

Authenticity is the new Sexy. Bob C. Grant, Relationship Coach, shares how feelings are different for men than women. What's the magic that women bring to men's lives? A woman's success and strength - is it intimidating to men, or maybe just annoying? What does support look like, and the power of the slow burn approach to sex. 

Fractured Family Relationships? Often considered a red flag in dating - Josh Coleman, Ph.D., author of "Rules of Estrangement" addresses the issue from a personal and therapeutic perspective. When values clash among family members, can we agree to disagree? Are there underlying issues at play, and what might we do ?

What 104 Dates Taught Her About Love | Heidi Friedman on The Cupid’s Coach Podcast

What does it really take to find lasting love in today’s world?
In this inspiring episode, Julie Ferman talks with Heidi Friedman, an attorney turned author, who documented her journey through 104 first dates on the road to true love.
Heidi shares how heartbreak, patience, and a commitment to personal growth helped her discover what really matters in relationships — from emotional safety and mutual support to finding someone who helps you become your best self.
You’ll Learn:
• How to stay hopeful and confident while dating
• Why “practice dates” can be your best teachers
• The key qualities that make love last
• How to move past perfectionism and open your heart to real connection
Whether you’re single, divorced, or just curious about modern love — this episode will give you fresh insight and hope for your own journey.
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In this episode, Julie Ferman sits down with author and trailblazer Misty O’Hara to explore what it really means to live — and love — authentically. From overcoming judgment to embracing polyamory and writing The Hundred Man Plan, Misty shares her personal evolution and the courage it takes to live outside the box.
Together, they unpack ideas from Brené Brown’s “Atlas of the Heart,” touching on comparison, resentment, and the power of belonging. This conversation is an invitation to honor who you truly are — in love, in life, and in every connection you make.

Watch to learn:
* How to deal with resentment and comparison
* The real difference between envy and jealousy
* Why belonging starts with being yourself
* How Misty found confidence and joy in her unconventional love story

Listen, reflect, and rediscover your own definition of love and freedom.


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Why are so many successful, capable women still struggling in love? Julie Ferman sits down with Natalia Hart, transformational coach for strong women, to unpack the hidden patterns that keep high-achieving women from finding lasting connection.

Together they explore: 
* The deeper reasons accomplished women get “stuck” in dating 
* Healing from role models and cultural messages that distort femininity 
* Balancing power with openness — and learning to receive love 
* How to embody confidence and softness without losing yourself

This episode is a beautiful reminder that strength and vulnerability can coexist — and that love often begins with reclaiming your feminine power.

#JulieFerman #NataliaHart #DatingAdvice #ConsciousDating #StrongWomen #ModernLove #FeminineEnergy #HealthyRelationships #MindfulDating #DatingCoach #RelationshipWisdom

In this episode, Julie Ferman invites you to look deeper — beyond surface attraction, resumes, or “types.”
 It’s about digging for gold in dating: noticing the qualities that truly matter, the subtle green flags, and the small acts of integrity that reveal real potential.
Julie shares practical ways to shift from judging to discovering — so you can spot the keepers and stop overlooking great partners.

Whether you’re dating online, in real life, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you what genuine connection really looks like.

Listen in and start finding the gold that’s been right in front of you.

#JulieFerman #DatingAdvice #ConsciousDating #ModernLove #HealthyRelationships #MindfulDating #DatingCoach #RelationshipTips #LoveWithIntention #DatingJourney