Cussing Like A Sailor

A look back and a look forward

Find out what Jennifer was like growing up in this weeks episode!

Daniel opens up about his first date with Jennifer and what the most challenging thing about being with Jennifer is. Push play and share with a friend!

Love is a feeling and a choice it is an investment!

In a trauma-informed connection, we are looking to establish the existence of the relationship as a separate entity. Push play to learn more!

Collaboration is essential to ANY relationship and too many couples loose sight of the reality that no matter what they encounter, no matter what they are fighting against you stand a better chance if you are fight together against the problem rather than fight each other over the problem.

When we’re moving into a trauma-informed connection, the opposite of gaslight is going to be perspective sharing and perspective-taking. Push play to learn more.

Criticism implies the need for correction, but like it or not just because you don’t like something your partner does or doesn’t do doesn’t mean they have to change it.

Constructive feedback requires accountability on the part of the complainant rather than responsibility on the part of the accused.

Push play!

The trust and dependency stage of trauma bonding occurs when the initiator begins shaping the target to rely increasingly and eventually almost exclusively on them for mental and emotional support.

Check out this bonus episode about the five love languages and five apology languages.