In the wake of what happened in Brisbane this week with a husband ambushing his wife and killing her and three children we are going to discuss domestic violence.
This particular attack followed a decade of "emotional, sexual and financial abuse".
He checked her social media accounts, ordered her on what to and what not to wear and made offensive comments including: "look at your stomach, that's just disgusting.
She left him and then he killed her and her children.
A male has killed their partner 8 times already this year.
8 bloody times….that is f*cking ridiculous and simply should never happen.
The stats are that 1 in 6 women in Australia have experienced physical or sexual violence from a current or previous cohabiting partner.
Yes not all men are like this, but that doesn’t matter. That does not matter at all.
What matters is this stops.
It is important to remember that domestic violence is not "mutual combat" or "relationship conflict".
Domestic violence is when one person makes a choice to exert power and control over another person.
This is almost always the male and they rely on a range of tactics to assert control, including physical and sexualised violence, psychological and emotional abuse, financial abuse and social isolation, among others.
The problem is that where there is no physical violence, people miss the signs.
The signs of domestic violence:
https://www.facs.nsw.gov.au/domestic-violence/my-situation/i-want-to-help-someone
How to help?
https://au.reachout.com/articles/domestic-violence-and-what-you-can-do-about-it
If you're a man who uses violence and coercive control in your intimate partner relationship, make a choice to change.
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