Today, we’re talking about communication and quality time with your significant other (we call this “Heart Time” as you’ll hear us explain). If you’re single, this episode isn’t exclusive—much of it applies to family relationships in general.
We often operate on assumptions. We’re all guilty of it. You typically don’t realize this is the case until something blows up. This usually happens when there are unmet expectations.
Family is a big part of business. I’m not just talking about working with family, but your work affects your family life just as much as your family life affects your work.
Communication and mindset are vital. You need the support of the people around you and you can’t ask for their undying support while providing none in return.
Matt and I both struggle with this: it’s easy to think we’re doing our job of providing for our families by working hard. But monetary provision isn’t everything. There’s no substitute for spending personal time with the people you care about. You can’t just write a check.
It’s important to set aside designated time to spend with your family. It’s also key to make sure you’re all on the same page. Understanding each other’s mindset is critical. You may have a very long-term vision when it comes to handling finances where as your spouse may be more focused on the now (or vice versa).
You both need to play off of each other’s strengths. It’s not about converting them to your mindset necessarily, but more so about making sure both of you support one other.