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Alright, so I sat down with French OG for this episode of Winning The Game Of Life. This guy's got a wild background – went from grinding poker tables, understanding odds and variance, to coaching guys through the even more complex and sometimes brutal game of modern dating. We didn't waste time on fluff; we jumped straight into the deep end, applying strategic thinking and probability to figure out what actually works with women, relationships, and frankly, just navigating human psychology when the stakes feel high.
Expect some takes that might make you uncomfortable. French OG dropped some bombs, like comparing personality to makeup and arguing why chasing commitment can kill attraction. We went back and forth on whether optimizing for 'lays' is a fundamental mistake (a point where I think the Red Pill logic often breaks down), debated the real source of confidence, and even touched on whether my blue hair stunt was a calculated 'polarizing' move. It's raw, unfiltered, and definitely not your standard dating advice.
If you're tired of simplistic answers and want to explore the messy variables, the actual 'game theory' behind attraction and connection, then you need to check this out. We dissect common assumptions, challenge popular narratives, and try to find a real edge in understanding this crucial part of life. Hit play, listen close, and then tell me in the comments where you think we got it right or wrong – figuring this stuff out is part of winning the game.
CHAPTERS
00:00 – Intro: Meet French OG
01:35 – Twitter Truths & Trolls
04:45 – French OG: Poker Player to Dating Coach
09:15 – Poker Strategy Applied to Dating
13:47 – Confidence, Uncertainty & Poker Mindset
16:10 – Coaching Smart Guys (INTJs)
18:20 – Boundaries vs. Ultimatums in Dating
20:30 – Dealing with Randomness (Poker & Life)
23:34 – Culture Clash: Agency vs. Environment
25:05 – Poker Analogy: Know Your Value & Spot
27:38 – Jungleman's Blue Hair: Polarizing Works
31:39 – Don't Be Average
32:10 – Niche Strategy: Poker Tables & Dating Apps
34:27 – Red Pill Critique: Optimize LIFE, Not Lays
36:16 – Lust vs. Love: Who Secures the Relationship?
37:03 – Debate: Leading with Relationship Intent
40:05 – Filtering for Partner vs. Max Quantity
44:45 – Why Men Shouldn't Chase Relationships
45:50 – Red Pill Flaw: Metrics Aren't Everything
48:05 – Defining Male Personality
48:39 – Coaching Different Men, Different Goals
53:40 – Advice for the "Average" Guy
58:24 – Looks, Fitness & Self-Care Matter
01:00:30 – Ripped vs. Money vs. Confidence Debate
01:04:40 – Personality is Male "Makeup"
01:07:20 – The "Good Woman" Debate
01:12:15 – Compatibility vs. Pedestals
01:14:05 – Predictable vs. Exciting Relationships
01:20:15 – Control Dynamics & Dealing with Damage
01:21:05 – Final Thoughts & Outro
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French OG says that "Personality is makeup for men". Is 'game' the ultimate equalizer, or do looks/status still dominate? Weigh in!