Dare 2 Date

Dare 2 Date

By Debbie RiversEducationSelf-Improvement
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Dare 2 Date episodes

  • S2:3 Can you Convince Someone to Like You?

    Tired of the dating game? Feeling frustrated with rejection? You're not alone. In this podcast, we dive deep into the fascinating world of attraction, exploring whether you can truly 'make' someone like you and offering practical strategies for navigating the inevitable bumps in the road. We'll discuss the importance of authenticity, the role of chemistry, and how to build genuine connections. Join me as we navigate the complexities of love and dating with honesty, humour, and a lot of self-compassion.


    29 min
  • S2:2 How to Keep Going When You Feel Like Giving Up

    Let's be honest, dating can be tough. It's easy to feel discouraged, lonely, and even hopeless when things don't go according to plan.


    In this episode, we'll have an honest conversation about the challenges of finding love in today's world and how you can stay motivated


    I will give you practical advice, and tools to enjoy the process. Whether you're single and searching or simply looking for a little extra motivation, this episode is for you


    22 min
  • Season 2: 1 How to Live Your Best Possible Year 🎉

    Feeling stuck in a Groundhog Day loop?


    Are you tired of the same old routine and dreaming of a year that truly feels different?


    In the first episode of Season 2, I share my proven process for creating your BEST YEAR EVER.


    And I've turned the camera on but made the rooky mistake of looking at the screen and not the camera.


    We'll dive deep into:

    • Rediscovering what brings you joy: Reconnect with your passions and find activities that truly make you come alive.
    • Looking at wht really works
    • Setting impactful goals: Not New Year's resolutions that you give up within two weeks.
    • Creating lasting change: Discover simple yet powerful strategies to break free from old patterns and create new, empowering habits.
    • This isn't just about resolutions – it's about creating a year of intention, purpose, and profound personal growth.

      Listen now and get ready to experience a year unlike any other!

      32 min
    • 95: Dating Trends in 2025: Less Bad Behaviour & More Romance

      Tired of the dating drama?

      In this episode, I dive into the top 6 dating trends for 2025. Based on research from over 40,000 Bumble users worldwide, I'll uncover what singles are looking for:

      • Less ghosting, more honesty: Say goodbye to the disappearing acts!
      • A return to romance: Forget the endless swiping, let's get back to genuine connection.
      • Shared interests are key: Forget small talk, let's talk about our passions.

      • Get ready for a realistic look at what's happening in the dating world and how to navigate it confidently and get the results you deserve.

        34 min
      • 94: Dating After Divorce: A Practical Guide

        Many people ask me how to get back into the dating scene after a divorce. It's a common question, and the answer is often complex. Divorce can be a challenging experience, and the level of difficulty can vary depending on the circumstances.

        Whether you were the one who initiated the divorce or it was unexpected, you may be feeling a range of emotions. This can include feelings of worthlessness, guilt, or mixed emotions.

        One of the biggest challenges after separation is loneliness. Having so much free time can be overwhelming, and you might crave companionship. However, the thought of dating again can be daunting.

        It's completely normal to have mixed feelings about returning to the dating world. You might be excited about a second chance but also nervous about the unknown or the possibility of failure.

        Today, I want to focus on the practical aspects of dating after divorce, based on my own experience.

        While it might feel scary at first, I promise you dating can be fun and rewarding. Let's explore some practical steps to help you navigate this new chapter in your life.

        38 min
      • 93:Stop the Fizzle! Craft Messages that Get You Dates (Not Crickets) ❌➡️❤️

        Stop the Fizzle! Craft Messages that Get You Dates (Not Crickets) ❌➡️❤️

        Tired of matches going nowhere fast? This week's podcast episode is your rescue mission!

        We're diving deep into the secret weapon of online dating: Killer messages!

        Here's what you'll learn:

        • Ditch the boring! Discover creative, engaging messages that spark real connections.
        • Stand out from the crowd! Stop sending generic greetings – grab their attention and make them want to chat!
        • Beyond the bio – beyond the "Hi"! Unlock the power of messages that create emotional connections, not just transactions.
        • Bonus: We'll dissect real-life message examples (good & bad!) so you can see the magic in action. ✨

          This episode is for you if:

          • You're tired of one-word replies.
          • You want to make a memorable first impression (without the cheese!). ❌
          • You're ready to turn matches into dates (and maybe even something more!).
          • Ready to stop the fizzle and spark amazing connections? Listen now!

            40 min
          • 92: Long Distance Love: Can It Work?

            Love knows no distance, or does it? This week's podcast tackles the age-old question: can long-distance relationships work?

            In the past, I might have given a more definitive answer, but love (and life!) is rarely black and white. So, whether you're currently single, coupled up, or a curious media type, tune in for some insightful tips on navigating a long-distance relationship, especially if your partner travels for work.


            We'll be exploring:


              • My nuanced take on long-distance love (it's not all bad!)
                • Practical tips for making the miles melt away
                  • Strategies for staying connected and keeping the spark alive.
                  • So, grab your headphones and join me as we delve into the world of long-distance dating!


                    20 min
                  • 91: Do Fun Tests/Relationship Theories on SM work?

                    You know how we love a good shortcut, right? Relationship theories/tests on social media

                    are like that - bite-sized explanations for complex situations. They're catchy, relatable, and promise a quick fix for our love lives – which EVERYONE wants.
                    Plus, they spark conversation and debates, which keeps people scrolling and sharing.
                    But do they work and are they true? In my
                    opinion, they are fun but oversimplified. I see people taking advice from social media that they thought they understood but got it wrong – often people
                    don’t see what they are doing. There is some great advice on SM and some terrible advice out there. In this week's podcast, I talk about:


                    • The Orange Peel Theory
                    • The Ketchup Theory
                    • The Doritos Theory
                    • Are they fact or fiction?

                      24 min
                    • 90: Married at First Sight or Married at First Mess? Why Dating Shows Get Dating WRONG (and How to Get It Right!)

                      Is reality TV a reflection of real-life dating? This week's episode dives deep into shows like Married at First Sight to expose the surprising truth: the drama you see on screen is often a mirror reflecting the challenges singles face every day.

                      We'll unveil why so many people (looking for love, not fame!) struggle to find lasting connections.

                      Here's what you'll learn:

                      • The hidden baggage holding you back: Uncover the low self-esteem, unresolved past relationships, and emotional burdens that sabotage dating success, even if you're unaware of them.
                      • From "Married at First Sight" to Married at First Mess: Discover why these seemingly perfect TV matches often fall apart, and how these same patterns play out in real life.
                      • Beyond the Reality Show: How to Find Real Love: Move from "Married at First Mess" to a fulfilling relationship! We'll explore practical steps to overcome baggage, build healthy self-esteem, and attract the love you deserve.
                      • Tune in and learn how to turn your dating life from reality TV drama into a real-life love story!

                        Further Information

                        In the podcast, I referred to the Learn to Love Yourself Course. You can find more information here - https://debbierivers.com.au/learn-to-love-yourself/

                        27 min
                      • 89: Enemies to Happy Relationships

                        Join me on this week's podcast as we explore the challenges of modern relationships and uncover the truths behind common myths.

                        In this episode, I challenge the idea that finding the "right person" guarantees relationship bliss, using insights from the hit show "Married at First Sight" to look at the complexities of chemistry versus compatibility.

                        Discover why communication is seen as the foundation of healthy relationships and learn practical tips for mastering this essential skill.

                        Whether you're single, in a new relationship, or celebrating years of love, you'll get valuable insights and strategies for creating fulfilling connections in today's fast-paced world. This podcast is for you.

                        16 min

                      About Dare 2 Date

                      From the publisher's feed

                      Dating in 2021 is a whole new world! It even comes with its own language which are mostly terms for bad behaviour like ghosting. This podcast is all about dating, love and relationships. It will also help you cut through the crappy advice that doesn’t work, you know all the weird stuff that we’re told we should do.