Dare 2 Date

Having your shit together will instantly make you more attractive to the type of person you want to meet! 

This isn't just based on my opinion, it is based on research and data from all the major dating platforms/apps.

Back in 2019 singles rated physical attractiveness as the thing they most wanted in a partner, yet in 2022 only 70% did.

In 2022, singles are looking for people who want to be the best versions of themselves and put more importance on stability and security.

I tell you more in this week's podcast.

This week I talk about how women don't owe you pretty. I will also talk about why safety matters to women and why approaching women you don't know calling them pretty doesn't work as it does in the movies!

Men and women are equal but the reality is that they think and act completely different in ALL areas of their life, particularly dating! Those differences are what gets in the way of success.

Both men and women put themselves out there holding to be loved, accepted and validated. However, in the superficial world of dating, they often get the opposite - rejection, disappointment or crappy relationships that even border on abusive!

Maybe it makes you feel like you need to kill, change, squish or minimize who you are to be wanted!

That doesn't work, in fact, it leads to more unhappiness and losing who you are just to be wanted by someone else.

In this podcast, I will have the conversation about what you can do and how you can feel good about yourself.

At the moment in an uncertain world where you still want to meet someone, online dating is a good option. 1/3 of all Australians and around 50% of Americans meet and marry someone they met online.

If you have come out of a string of failed relationships, you might not be able to trust yourself anymore.   

Maybe you have a habit of picking someone who isn't over their ex, someone who doesn't want the same type of commitment that you do or worst of all people who cheat on you.  You may want to meet someone but don't trust yourself not to choose another loser.  

After a string of failed relationships, it is hard to trust your own judgement! So, you think what if someone could just choose someone for me, surely then it would work out. 

But you only have to watch an episode of MAFS to see that isn't always the case as you may be stuck in the trap of self-sabotaging your own happiness.

In this week’s podcast, I talk about how self-sabotage can get in the way of your happiness even when you meet the right person.

Did you decide that 2022 is your year to date but you still aren't getting the dates or the results that you want?

When things don't work out it is easy to come up with stories as to why! Maybe you tell yourself that it's because there aren't any good singles out there, that all the good ones are taken or you are not getting results because the online profiles are fake! It is easier to say all men are...... or all women are....

Some of the stories/reasons may make sense and some can be crazy, yet when you are struggling with things, of course, you will come up with all these reasons because looking at yourself and taking responsibility is not always the first thing any of us do.  

Let's look at what may be getting in the way including what we expect from relationships nowadays.

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I was excited to do my 1st Podcast for 2022 and it was the perfect day for it - National Ditch the New Year's Resolution Day! It seems the 17th day of the new year is the day people decide to ditch their new year's resolutions. You know they decide to ditch the torturous diets and horrible exercise regimes and celebrate with an extra glass of wine!

Did you set a new year's resolution to find love in 2022 and already feel a bit disappointed with how things are going? Or have you decided you want this year to be different but it seems the same as any other year?

If you have answered yes, then this podcast is for you!

'Each day is a blank page in the diary of life. The secret of success is in turning that diary into the best story you possibly can.

The new year is about new beginnings, resolutions and setting goals. At the top of many single’s list of new year’s resolutions is finding love or simply getting a date.  Multiple dating apps report that the first Sunday in January is the busiest day of the year, with all the major apps seeing a significant spike in new members. So, if you’re looking for love or someone to date, January is the time! 

In this week's podcast, I give you tips on how to succeed and get the results that you deserve. succeed:

I didn't cover what to chat about in the messages when you get a match, as it would have been too long. So, I have included this link to my blog - 3 Startling Examples of Online Dating Messages that Get Results

In this week's podcast, I interview Dave Rogers who is passionate about men's mental health. We have a real conversation about dating, men's anger and their mental health. Dave provides practical strategies for men to increase their confidence and get past the anger they are feeling and even find out how they can laugh more.

Dave shares how to have the perfect date, how to laugh at yourself, how to express your feelings and how to be impeccable with your words to others and especially to yourself. 

Dave Rogers is a Global Mentor, Author, Ex Banker, Yoga Instructor, mental health advocate and also led coaching initiatives in more than 15 natioNS.

If you want to see more of Dave check out his YouTube Channel Continual Shift

This week's podcast is for the ladies out there, especially those who are sick and tired of wasting time on men who don't want to commit or who change their minds about being in a relationship. 

I have the bigger conversation about sex when to have it, does it matter and what are the odds of a one-night stand turning into more. 

I also talk about what the 10 Date Rule is, as well as the pros can cons of the 10 Date Rule.  

In this week's podcast, I give you the answers.

Single? How do you survive and thrive in the lead-up to Christmas and the actual day?

Expectations run high, right?

There is stress related to money,  family, overspending and loneliness. In fact, 1 in 5 feel lonely and almost 50% dread Christmas. All these stresses can remain hidden the rest of the year but are in your face during Christmas.

Being single can be tough at any of the year but it can be worse at Christmas when it can feel like an ordeal you need to survive!

It is all too easy to look around you and see happy families/couples EVERYWHERE!  You see it on TV - those cheesy Christmas movies with people with picture-perfect lives, hear about it on the radio,  billboards and as you go about daily life. It can bring up all sorts of regrets, especially if you are divorced and not part of the happy family you had always imagined you would be.

In this podcast, I give you practical tips to survive and even thrive!