Dare 2 Date

In 2021 there are more ways to meet singles than at any other time. Yet, there it's never felt harder! 

You hear the horror dating app stories in the media, as well as dating horror stories from everyone around you. Venting about them makes you feel better!

Is it possible to actually find a relationship in 2021 without having to settle?

The answer is a huge YES! 

In this week's podcast, I tell you Sally and Julie's story of how got results so YOU can too!

How do you know the difference between love-bombing and the real thing? 

In this week's podcast, I give you the answer so you don't fall victim to one. The purpose of this podcast is to make you aware of toxic behaviour, rather than hyper-focused on what could go wrong. Becoming the victim of love bombing can leave damage that will have a lasting impact. 

It is much easier to recognise the difference rather than have to heal after a toxic relationship.

I will give you 6 easy steps to stop the difference between a lover. bomber and someone who is genuine.

Dating can be tough and it can feel hard to meet someone who you like and who likes you back. If you have experienced people ghosting you, had a string of horror dates or been dating people where you just don’t know where you stand then it is easy to get excited when you finally meet someone who shows they care!

For a minute I want you to imagine how it would feel to meet someone who gives you all the attention, affection, appreciation and love you have always wanted.

They give you flowers, compliments and want to be with you all the time.

It would feel amazing right? Like all your dreams have finally come true.

So much so that you overlook the red flags and the things that just don’t feel right. You feel like it is hard to meet someone so why would you pass this up.

But what if that attention was toxic instead of being real love?

You could be experiencing love bombing instead of the real thing.

Communication is the foundation of every healthy relationship including dating, love, family friends and work. Yet with the people, we are the closest to, we assume that they will know us well and will automatically understand what we want and what we need from them. When that doesn't happen you get disappointed and it can build resentment in your close relationships.

When you first click with someone, they do get you and it happens easily. It feels amazing to just click with them and have someone finally gets you! You feel heard, seen and understood. It generally happens without any effort.

You will finish each other sentences, do anything to make each other happy and feel you 'get' each other and easily meet each other's needs.

Then life gets in the way and those things fall away.  

This is the time when communication issues come up. You may hear yourself saying - 'If they really cared they would have .......', 'If they loved me they wouldn't have acted that way'.

You expect that if they really cared they would know what you need and end up feeling resentful when they don't.

In this podcast, I talk about how that happens and how to communicate so you are heard.

I am sure you have heard that nice guys finish last. Is this true or is this a myth?

You might say that you see the evidence of this every S.I.N.G.L.E DAY with women choosing to be with the arsehole or bad guy. The one who gives her crumbs and treats her badly. You can instantly spot he isn't a good guy, so why can't she?

In this podcast, I give you the answer as well as what women really want in a man and how you can win her over.

Honesty bombing is the new black and the new emerging dating trend.

It's the dating trend that's good news for singles.

Are you thinking about getting back out there at events or going online, yet scared that people will tell lies about who they are?

You are not alone, it is a HUGE concern for singles out there.

In this week's podcast, I talk about honesty and dating. 

I also talk about the 10 Common Lies Singles tell and how to spot them.

The reality is in a world that has been interrupted by COVID singles don't want to waste any more time!

Singles are over been lied to and game playing when it comes to dating, and want honesty! 

Rather than playing the pre-pandemic dating game of trying to present yourself in the best possible way and hiding your baggage, singles are being honest from the start. Why? Well, no one wants to waste any more time. They can't be bothered trying to create that perfect persona. 

Being transparent about who you are and what you want is the way forward. 

Time to be honest, real and authentic as you will get much better results when you do.

First impressions matter, especially in the competitive dating environment. You only get one chance to make a first impression in the superficial world of dating! First impressions matter and you have a short amount of time to make yours. 

You want to make a good impression but you don't want to lead anyone on, give them the wrong idea or even worse hurt them.  You want to make the most of your time and opportunities as you feel you don't want to waste any more of your. precious time. 

So how you make that killer first impression and be remembered for all the right reasons? 

This Podcast will tell how! You will found out why first impressions are crucial as well as how to make that first impression that gets you the results you deserve!

Have you ever been told that you need to write a list of what you want in a relationship? You know a bit like a shopping list, except for a person! I am sure everyone wishes it was that easy! It is common advice to tell you to write a list to make sure you find the right person.  In this video, I tell why that 'traditional;' list doesn't work when you are looking to find the one!

When someone you love breakups with you it is one of the most painful experiences you can go through. You might not be able to eat, sleep or function. Your friends and family may be sympathetic for a while but then start to tell you that it happened for a reason, that there are plenty of fish in the sea and you will meet someone better. They mean well, but that advice doesn't help in fact, will often make you feel worse. In this Podcast, I give you advice on how to get through the breakup. 

In this week's podcast, I will give you Sara's story as well practical tips to deal with ghosting, breakups and rejection.

Ghosting is a modern phenomenon! You may be lucky enough not to have never been ghosted and wondering what it is! It is when someone you have been dating simply disappears from your life without a trace or explanation. This could be after a couple of dates or even months of dating!

People have been ending relationships badly since the beginning of time but it has become so much easier in the technological age. Ghosting people you barely know and who aren’t part of your daily life is easy to do without you seeing the effects.

25% of singles admit to doing it even though they don't like it!

If someone has ghosted you, didn’t want a second date or broke up with you after dating for a while. What do you do when someone doesn’t want you? How do you cope with that rejection?

Rejection hurts! In fact, rejection SUCKS! Rejection NEVER EVER  feels good!

It may be hard to reject someone but it is always worse to be on the receiving end.

You can be ghosted for so many reasons that just aren't personal. Maybe they weren't over their ex, or not ready for the type of commitment you are, they could be having personal issues or they were looking for an ego boost., or simply weren't in the right place to give you what you want.

If you are struggling with the effects of ghosting, rejection or a breakup, why not book in a free discovery call? Click here to chat with me.

I see way too many single women waste time on men who are happy to spend time with them but don't ever want to take things any further. The ladies think the guys will see how amazing they are and change their minds. However, they don't and the worst part is that it can take women years to realise this.

Not every man you meet or go out with will want to make you happy (which is a huge red flag). There are many guys who want to enjoy your company without commitment. How can you tell the difference, especially when it feels so good when you are together.

I understand how you feel, after dating people you aren't attracted to it feels good with him someone who you are attracted to. You have told him what you are looking for and hope he is on the same page.

So how do you know?

It is actually simple when you know what to look for.

For me as a coach for men and women, it is easy for me to see the signs and I am going to let you know exactly what to look for so you don't waste your precious time.

This podcast will give you the answer to the question!