DARE TO LOVE

Today's subject is the teacher archetype in relationship, which you can also call the saviour archetype. This is a very common phenomenon in relationships, especially with people who are in the field of either being a teacher, a guide or a healer of some kind. 

When there’s something in your professional realm requiring you to be in that position of space holding, very often these people will find themselves in the trap of doing the same in their personal relationships and their intimate partnership, which ultimately is not very healthy so it’s a topic worth discussing. 

Today’s guest is Angell Deer, a medicine man who has his center just outside of New York, called The Sanctuary. Recently he interviewed me on his channel, and that episode was one of the most popular ones yet. So I’ve decided to keep the flow alive and get Angell onto my channel this time. I know Angell pretty well, he’s a friend of mine and a former client of mine, so obviously we’ve gone very deep into the topic of intimacy. I really respect his honesty, his willingness to open and his integrity in the way he walks his path as a medicine man. 

Click here to see more of what Angell does.

Please enjoy this episode, I think you will love it.

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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Love versus desire. In this episode we will discuss dark desires, anal sex toys, men, dating, and how to be in integrity as an attractive woman who wants nothing more than to live in the heart. And be sexy too!

All of this and so much more, wrapped in juicy real life anecdotes and wisdom that stems from life experience. Asti Maree is a former stripper who has transformed her life and now helps women empower themselves through sexual embodiment.

Asti came onto my path in a very serendipitous way. From the moment I saw her offerings and her authentic way of expressing herself, I knew this was going to be a really great match!

Honestly... one of my favourite episodes so far! Enjoy - Episode 005 - Opening Your Heart and Pussy

Check out Asti Maree:

IG: @Asti Maree 

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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Ever wondered why behavioral patterns of your parents or grandparents, are influencing how you are in relationships?

In most Shamanic traditions, the first thing they look at when encountering a pattern or a blockage, are the ancestral roots. I'm sure you've heard this before.

But the question is - how can you apply this in your daily life? That is what we will focus on in this interview. Our host is Angell Deer - a dear brother of mine, and a medicine man - who has a Shamanic healing center outside of New York.

WHAT TO EXPECT:

• Patterns in love, and why they can become self-destructive
• Why protecting your heart often leads to attracting again a challenging experience in love
• What is the relation between fear and desire, and how can you overcome this loop of repeating what you don't want, and finally open up to what you do want
• What to do when you've experienced toxic partnership in the past
• How to clear out your own shadows, to be able to open to trust in a sincere way
• How to interpret intimacy through the medicine wheel? Here we will look at the elements and how they together form the wholeness we search for in love
• Ancestral ties
• Patterns of the past
• Mother-father archetypes

For more inspiration, check out the work of Angell Deer. In his shamanic healing center "The Sanctuary" (NY) he hosts ceremonies, workshops and gatherings. 

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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Strong women intimidate boys, and excite men. So what is it that differentiates a man from a boy? And how can a strong woman remain in her power, whilst allowing the man the take the lead? 

Join me and Jeannette in this intimate conversation about dating, polarity, desire and romance. 

Jeannette Breen is the chief editor of Mindvalley Meditations. She is a dear friend of mine, and someone I respect for how clearly she can share her truth. She is unapologetic, fierce and gorgeous. 

Click here to check Jeannette's work.

I think you'll be intrigued by this podcast, as we discuss our experiences of how we have moved from protection to trust and everything in-between.

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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In this intimate episode we talk about our personal relationship with our bodies. Specifically our breasts and the importance of self-pleasure, especially if you are experiencing numbness of any kind.

These are topics that everyone should be talking about, but somehow nobody is. So join us for this episode if you're willing to strip down and meet us in this raw open space.

What we will cover:

• Breasts, and how they shapeshift
• Physical insecurities and how to overcome them through self-pleasure practices
• Desensitization of the vagina 
• How to expand your pleasure capacity 
• How to connect with yourself even deeper

Click here to check out Nikki's 3-month program starting on April 14th.

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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Do open relationships really work? Or does it actually remove you further from the heart, rather than opening it? And what does it mean to live by choice? To choose your path of purpose and live life in harmony with your spiritual self?

Click here to check out Manjeet's work and stay connected.

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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In this very special first episode I invite you for an intimate peak into my life and love history. I share with you how a series of extremely challenging events lead me to becoming the teacher I am today. 

It’s those personal stories that hold value and allow us to feel we are connected. Exactly that differentiates this podcast channel - the telling of unique life adventures. 

What we will cover:

•  The journey of healing my feminine
•  Tantra as a tool for sexual healing
•  The paradox of love - how we push away the thing we want most 
•  The top 3 pain points of why we self sabotage
•  How to overcome patterns in love
•  The philosophy behind MAKE LOVE TO LIFE

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Hi, I’m Nalaya Chakana

My life’s purpose is dedicated to sharing with others the secrets of how to manifest the love you truly desire. What I teach is fueled by passion and sincere fascination for love. It is a combination of everything that my life experience has taught me, as well as what I’ve observed in the thousands of people I’ve worked with on a very intimate level over the last 10+ years.

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