Dateless in Delray

What if the secret to better dating—and deeper relationships—has nothing to do with chemistry, and everything to do with communication? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer talks with Laurie Schloff, Founder of Partners in Communication, Inc., and author of Smart Speaking and He & She Talk. Laurie is one of the nation’s top communication coaches, known for helping people express themselves clearly, listen with empathy, and communicate with confidence in every aspect of life—including love. Together, Susan and Laurie explore how our words, tone, and body language shape everything from first impressions to lasting connection. They share tools for speaking with intention, listening to truly understand, and navigating dating’s trickiest moments with courage and clarity. They discuss how to communicate authentically on dates and avoid misfires; the art of listening to connect—not just to respond; and how to express your needs without fear or apology. If you’ve ever wondered why good communication feels harder in love than in life, this episode will help you find your voice, speak your truth, and build real connection—one conversation at a time.

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In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with powerhouse mentor, bestselling author, and faith-driven entrepreneur Kim S. Anderson. From her early career in NBA communications to leading Savvy Media, homeschooling four children, and empowering women around the world, Kim’s journey is one of reinvention, resilience, and purpose.
Together, Susan and Kim explore the deeper work required to attract healthy love—breaking old patterns, rebuilding self-worth after heartbreak, and shifting from “waiting for love” to becoming truly ready to receive it. Kim shares insights from her signature program, The Pathway To Your Divine Perfect Mate, an 8-step system designed to help women heal, grow, and align with the relationship they deserve.
This episode is a powerful blend of faith, strategy, and truth-telling for anyone navigating midlife transformation, singleness, dating, or rediscovering their worth.
A must-listen for women ready to step confidently into their purpose—and into the love story meant for them

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In this special crossover episode, Dateless in Delray teams up with Your Mental Highness as Susan Shoer sits down with psychologist Dr. Janné Lomasky to explore what really happens in the brain and body when we fall for someone. From the intoxicating rush of dopamine and “chemistry” to the emotional crash of heartbreak, Susan and Janné break down the neuroscience behind attraction, the nervous system’s role in love, and why modern dating can feel like an addictive rollercoaster. They also dive into Janne’s own dating experiences, the signals our bodies send before our minds catch up, and how to stay grounded, clear, and conscious while navigating connection in a swipe-first world. With humor, honesty, and a dose of science, this episode unpacks the highs, lows, and lessons of love in the modern age. A must-listen for anyone looking to elevate their awareness — and their love life.

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In this eye-opening episode, Susan Shoer sits down with Joshua Shea, pornography addiction and betrayal trauma coach, to explore how hidden compulsive behavior can quietly unravel trust and intimacy in relationships. Joshua shares his own journey through addiction and recovery, the neuroscience behind compulsive porn use, and why betrayal trauma can feel as painful as infidelity.
They dive into how partners can rebuild safety, how individuals can recognize the signs of addiction, and what healing looks like on both sides. Honest, compassionate, and deeply human, this episode brings clarity to one of the least talked about issues affecting modern dating and relationships.
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This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes Dr. Orest Komarnyckyj, host of Old Guy Talks To Me and founder of Hold the Door Coaching (drorestk.com), for a bold and refreshingly honest conversation about men, aging, and intimacy.After a 33-year career as a periodontal surgeon, Orest Komarnyckyj, reinvented himself as a mentor for men—helping them optimize health, rediscover confidence, and build what he calls “kick-ass lives for themselves and those they love.” This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan and Orest unpack the truth about testosterone, communication, and connection, while challenging outdated ideas of masculinity and aging. Discover:
• How men can reclaim passion, purpose, and presence at any age
• The real link between hormonal health and emotional connection
• Why communication—not performance—is the foundation of intimacy
• What women need to know about men’s vulnerability and confidence
It’s candid, funny, and deeply insightful—a conversation for anyone ready to rewrite the rules of love and life after 50.
Visit drorestk.com to learn more about Dr. Orest’s Hold the Door Coaching and his mission to help men live, love, and age boldly.

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This week on Dateless in Delray, we’re revisiting one of our most inspiring and listener-favorite conversations — Curiosity, Courage & Connection with Louise Walker, Human Potential Coach and founder of Circle of Courage.

Louise joined Susan from Australia to talk about the deeper side of dating: how curiosity opens doors, courage builds intimacy, and self-awareness transforms every relationship — starting with the one you have with yourself.

And now, Louise is traveling to Florida to lead a live, in-person experience sponsored by Dateless in Delray:

💛 Love By Design: A Courageous Dating & Real Connection Experience
Saturday, November 15th | 1–5 PM | Space of Mind, Delray Beach

This four-hour immersive Enneagram Experience is for singles, couples, the happily solo, and anyone interested in self-discovery and authentic connection. Come learn your type, uncover your patterns, and design love by intention — not accident. A post-event happy hour at Dada keeps the connection flowing. Hope to see you there!

🎟️ Get your tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/love-by-design-courageous-dating-real-connection-tickets-1814632818609

Then listen in as Susan and Louise explore what it really means to date — and live — by design.

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What if the secret to finding love isn’t about looking out there—but coming home to yourself?
In this transformative episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Olivia Sage, a somatic therapist, healer, and host of Becoming Your Own Soulmate, for a deep dive into how the body, trauma, and nervous system shape the way we love.
From ayahuasca journeys to embodiment practices, Olivia shares how true healing begins when we reconnect to our physical and emotional selves. Together, she and Susan explore how unhealed wounds drive our relationship patterns, why somatic work changes how we date, and how becoming your own soulmate is the first step to attracting the right partner.
Whether you’re curious about plant medicine, tired of repeating the same dating cycles, or simply ready to feel more grounded and open in love—this conversation will meet you where you are and gently guide you inward.

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In this special full-circle episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Brian Howie—host of The Great Love Debate podcast, owner of PodPopuli, and her very first guest 42 episodes ago. Together, they riff on the realities of modern dating: from the highs and lows of dating apps to the revival of matchmaking, the dream of meeting “organically,” and what the future of love might look like. With his signature candor and sharp insights, Brian unpacks why singles are more connected—and more confused—than ever, while Susan shares how his coaching and support helped her grow as a podcast host. This lively conversation is equal parts funny, frank, and forward-looking, reminding listeners that love is always evolving, and so should we. If you’ve ever wondered whether you should swipe, hire a matchmaker, or just hang out by the avocados at Publix—this episode is for you.

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In this  episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Shoer sits down with debut author Stephanie Todd, whose novel Love. Lies. and Libidos blurs the line between fiction and lived experience. Todd takes us deep into the raw terrain of passion, betrayal, forgiveness, and the messy journey of reclaiming the self after heartbreak.
Together, they explore the creation of her novel, the courage it took to reveal intimate details of her own life, and how her children reacted to seeing parts of their family story on the page. Stephanie opens up about why she calls her past “the wreckage,” how deficiencies like a hunger for affection can blind us, and the haunting question of whether true passion can ever be felt again after betrayal.
Listeners will hear her insights on intuition versus anxiety, why we stay in relationships long after we know we should leave, and what advice she offers for those navigating the complexities of dating and love today.
If you’ve ever wrestled with trust, yearned for a love that consumed you, or wondered how to rebuild after everything has fallen apart, this conversation will remind you that you are not alone.

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Endless swiping leaving you burned out? Video dating might be the spark you’ve been missing. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Zach Schleien shares how Spark is changing the dating game—bringing back authenticity, laughter, and face-to-face chemistry without the awkward small talk.
We’ll dive into why video-first dating helps people connect more meaningfully, how technology is shifting the way we meet, and what the future of online dating really looks like. If you’ve ever wished dating felt less like work and more like magic, this episode is for you.

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