This week, Dateless in Delray goes on location to a vibrant houseboat community of Sausalito, California, where love and relationships take on unconventional forms. From Living Apart Together (LAT) to cohabiting in floating homes, this eclectic enclave redefines modern romance.

Susan Heller Shoer sits down with medical researcher and pioneer Dr. Jacob “Jay” Lalezari, along with former LAT advocates Tam Morgan, head of The Foundation for Inner Peace, and Peter Miller, a longtime renewable energy and climate change advocate. Once committed to living separately, Tam and Peter now share a multi-level houseboat. Can couples thrive whether or not they share a roof? Tune in as Susan uncovers the stories of those rewriting the rules of love, commitment, and connection—on the water.

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV. From her fascinating years-long relationship with the legendary Frankie Valli, to her career as a holistic therapist, to her experiences navigating dating after loss, April shares heartfelt stories and behind-the-scenes secrets from the hit show. With humor, wisdom, and a dash of resilience, she reminds us that love has no age limit and reinvention is always possible.  Don’t miss this golden opportunity to laugh, reflect, and get inspired by one incredible woman’s journey!

In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom Confessionals (https://50safpodcast.com/bedroom-confessionals). . Nicole shares her journey from heartbreak and loss to rediscovering herself and embracing life with humor, honesty, and resilience. As she prepares to relaunch her podcast this March, Nicole opens up about her experiences with divorce, widowhood, and starting over. From the fears of dating after 50 to finding joy in independence, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the ultimate reminder: your next fabulous chapter is always within reach.

In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of experience helping couples break free from loneliness and resentment, Michelle shares practical advice for building long-lasting relationships. From tips for successful dating to setting personal boundaries, Michelle’s insights are perfect for anyone seeking love or strengthening their connection. Plus, she reveals her secrets as someone who’s been proposed to five times! Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers inspiration and tools for creating a relationship that’s truly built to last.

Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Karen Bigman,, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, and host of her own podcast, Taboo to Truth.. Karen shares her insights on everything from when to get intimate in a new relationship to getting comfortable with "sex toys," to polyamory and navigating ethical non-monogamy. Love, sex, and connection—let’s talk about it all! Don’t miss this unforgettable episode.

In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience in individual, couples, and family therapy. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the groundbreaking work of Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight (HMT) program, Dr. Segal shares how understanding attachment styles can help couples break negative patterns and strengthen connections. 

We’re also joined by South Florida single Steve, a retired attorney who’s swiping but struggling to find “the one.” Together, we’ll explore how our past experiences and childhood traumas can impact not only long-term relationships but also dating in today’s modern world.

Funny, insightful, and packed with takeaways, this episode is perfect for anyone seeking deeper understanding and connection in their love life.

Grab a glass of wine and eavesdrop on girl talk, with Double Trouble: Two Susans, One Wild and Crazy Dating World. Host Susan Heller Shoer teams up with her friend and fellow real estate agent Susan, to dish on navigating the dating scene after divorce, tackling money dynamics, health challenges, South Florida stereotypes, and more! Clearly, at least one of the Susans has her act together!  This episode is sponsored by Atik Medical Aesthetics and Wellness—feel great inside and out with their less invasive fat transfer technology! Call 561-870-0770 today.

Tired of swiping endlessly on dating apps? In Match Point: Playing to Win with  Professional Matchmaking, legendary matchmaker Julie Ferman (julieferman.com) joins host Susan Heller Shoer to uncover how matchmaking can transform your search for love. Julie, host of the Cupid’s Coach Podcast and the mastermind behind over 1,400 successful couples, shares her secrets to creating lasting connections. From her unique Romance Marketing Plan to actionable tips for getting out in the real world, Think plan your own singles events! Julie’s insights can help you find the one you're seeking.  Whether you’re curious about matchmaking or ready to give it a try, this episode serves up the ultimate love strategies.. 

In Up Your Game, Man: The Guy’s Playbook for Attracting High Quality Dates, we’re joined by Tom Lemere, creator of the innovative Tom Lemere Project (@the_tomlemereproject) designed to help men attract high-quality women and build lasting relationships. Tom, a self-proclaimed former “player,” will soon be appearing on a local South Florida TV news segment about dating. Tom and Dateless in Delray host Susan Heller Shoer chat about some of the crazy things men do to win women over. Tom shares actionable tips and insights to help men build confidence and step up their dating game. Returning favorite Bill Kavonov adds real-life perspective, like how he still finds it scary to approach a woman in a bar, while getting some great strategies from Tom. This episode is sponsored by Atik Medical Aesthetics and Wellness, featuring their less invasive fat transfer technology that gently removes unwanted fat from where you don’t want it and puts it where you need it! Call 561-870-0770 for more information..

In Extending the Honeymoon Period: Making Happily Ever After a Reality, we explore how to keep that newly dating/still have butterflies magic alive! Gottman-certified therapist Alex Antonucci (waxwingwellness.com) shares the actionable and insightful Gottman Method, known for turning relationship science into practical advice (think relationship to do list!)... Studies from the Gottman Institute show that happiy couples spend at least five hours per week intentionally focusing on each other—and not just as they’re mindlessly scrolling or binge-watching Netflix. We’re talking real, meaningful quality time. Joining us are real-life couple Dennis Shuman and Michelle Puchall of Shuman Realty, who are walking examples of Alex's tips in action! They spill the beans on keeping love exciting while working together.Looking for a home in South Florida? Dennis has you covered—reach out at [email protected] for all your real estate needs. Whether you're dating, married, happily single, or looking for love in all the wrong places, tune in to discover how to make your happily ever after a reality!