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  • Ep. 77 - Love After Loss: Can the People We Lose Help Us Find Love Again with Susan Anderson

    Love doesn’t end when someone dies—and according to psychic medium, life coach, and author Susan Anderson, neither do the connections that matter most. In this fascinating episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan explores the idea that the loved ones we've lost may continue to guide, support, and even influence our lives from beyond.
    Drawing from her own experiences as a medium and the insights from her book, Communicating with Grace: The Awakening of a Psychic Medium, Susan shares stories of spiritual connection, signs from the other side, and how grief can sometimes open unexpected doors to healing, hope, and even new love. Whether you're a believer, a skeptic, or simply curious about what happens after loss, this thought-provoking conversation offers a fresh perspective on love, loss, and the enduring bonds that connect us. Learn more at SusanAnderson.net.

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    41 min
  • Ep. 76 - You Never Listen to Me: The Relationship Warning Men Ignore with Hoady Spencer

    Many relationships struggle, not because of what we say, but because of what we fail to hear.
    In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer welcomes author, speaker, and relationship coach Hoady Spencer to discuss his book,"Listen Baby: A Man's Guide to Better Relationships." Hoady explains why genuine listening is one of the most overlooked—and transformative—skills in love. Together, they explore why people often listen to respond instead of understand, how emotional validation can strengthen intimacy, and the simple communication shifts that can dramatically improve romantic relationships. Whether you're dating, in a long-term partnership, or starting over after 50, this conversation offers practical insights for creating deeper trust, fewer misunderstandings, and stronger connections.
    If you've ever wanted to feel more understood—or become a better partner—this episode is full of wisdom you'll use long after the conversation ends.

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    54 min
  • Ep. 75 - Delicious DNA: Why Some Men Get All the Dates with Suki Nefertiti

    Most men aren't struggling because they're "bad at dating"—they're making mistakes they don't even realize they're making.
    In this eye-opening episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with human sexuality expert Suki Nefertiti to unpack the most common dating mistakes men make—and how a few simple shifts can dramatically change the way they're perceived by women.
    From being basic, cheap, or performative to developing what Suki calls "Delicious DNA," this conversation explores attraction, confidence, emotional intelligence, and the qualities that create genuine connection. Drawing on psychology, evolutionary biology, and real-world dating experiences, Suki offers practical, often surprising advice that benefits men and women alike.
    Whether you're dating, coaching someone who is, or simply fascinated by modern relationships, this episode delivers fresh insights, plenty of laughs, and actionable takeaways you can use on your very next date.

    Get in touch with Suki: [email protected]


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    45 min
  • Ep. 74 - The Formula of Desire: Why the Spark Fades—and How to Find It Again with Anna Elton

    What really creates chemistry? Is the "spark" something you're lucky enough to find—or can it actually be cultivated?
    In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Clinical Sexologist Anna Elton to unpack the psychology of attraction, desire, and lasting connection. Together, they explore why dating after 50 feels different, the biggest myths about chemistry and compatibility, how dating apps are reshaping our expectations, and what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships.
    Anna also introduces her Relational Desire Score, a practical framework for understanding the health of your relationships and identifying opportunities for deeper connection. Whether you're dating, rebuilding after divorce, or looking to reignite intimacy with your partner, this conversation offers fresh insights grounded in both research and clinical experience.
    Learn more about Anna, her books, workshops, and relationship resources at DrAnnaElton.com and TheFormulaOfDesire.com, where you'll also find her online relationship and desire assessments designed to help you better understand yourself and your relationships.

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    51 min
  • Ep. 73 - Rediscovering Mars and Venus: Navigating Love and Hormones with John Gray

    Thirty-four years after Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus changed the conversation about relationships, bestselling author John Gray returns with surprising new insights into the hidden role hormones play in modern love.
    In this eye-opening episode, John reveals how estrogen and testosterone shape attraction, communication, intimacy, and even conflict. He explains why certain relationship dynamics naturally boost—or deplete—these powerful hormones and offers practical ways couples can create more passion, connection, and understanding.
    Whether you're dating, in a long-term relationship, or looking for love after 50, you'll discover why the chemistry between men and women is about far more than romance—and how understanding it can transform your relationships.

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    1 hr 2 min
  • Ep. 72 - Plenty of Stories: Reinvention, Fearless Love & Building Your Next Chapter with Robin Fisher Roffer

    Reinvention isn’t just for brands—it’s for people, too. This week on Dateless in Delray, Susan sits down with Robin Fisher Roffer, one of the pioneers of personal branding and the founder of Big Fish Marketing, whose clients have included CNN, MTV, Discovery, and some of the biggest media brands in the world. Robin shares the lessons behind her bestselling books, including Make a Name for Yourself and her newest memoir, Plenty of Husbands, a candid and inspiring look at love, resilience, and finding your true path.
    From career pivots and personal reinvention to relationships, purpose, and the courage to embrace change at any age, Robin offers practical wisdom and unforgettable stories from a life spent helping others discover—and tell—their greatest story. Learn more at bigfishmarketing.com.

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    40 min
  • Ep. 71 - Love Starts Within: How Healing Yourself Changes Who You Attract

    What if the secret to finding the right relationship starts with you — not with the right app, the right profile, or the right opener?

    This week, host Susan Shore sits down with two remarkable women from very different corners of the wellness world: Marla Past, full-spectrum health coach, author, hypnotherapist, and meditation teacher; and Julie Shanebrook, founder and CEO of ChillRx Med Spa in Delray Beach. Both have turned personal struggles into powerful careers helping others feel better from the inside out.

    Together, they explore the surprising and deeply personal connections between physical health, emotional well-being, self-confidence, and our ability to build meaningful relationships. The conversation covers:

    • How cryotherapy, infrared sauna, and contrast therapy work — and why reducing inflammation can quiet anxiety and shift your entire outlook
    • The law of attraction and vibration: why becoming the person you want to attract is more than just a mantra
    • Marla's journey from childhood obesity and decades-long battle with bulimia to becoming a guide for others navigating life's hardest transitions
    • Julie's breast cancer journey, how her own wellness tools carried her through, and her moving tribute to the women who came before her
    • Hyperbaric oxygen therapy and the science of healing from the inside out
    • Why "degunk" might be the most honest relationship advice you'll ever hear
    • Whether you're recovering from heartbreak, reentering the dating world, or simply trying to feel more like yourself again, this episode is a reminder that the healthiest relationships start with a healthy relationship with you.

      Connect with our guests:

      • Marla Past: marlapast.org
      • ChillRx Med Spa: chillrx.net | Instagram: @ChillRxMedSpa | [email protected]
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        1 hr 1 min
      • Ep. 70 - Man Up: Why Nice Guys Finish Last with Elliott Katz

        A lot of men believe they're doing everything right in dating—being accommodating, avoiding conflict, and letting women take the lead. But according to relationship author Elliott Katz, some of those well-intentioned behaviors may actually be pushing women away.
        In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan chats with Elliott, author of Being the Strong Man a Woman Wants, and How To Get Your Man to Wear the Pants So You Don't Have To, to explore the most common dating mistakes men make and why confidence, decisiveness, and leadership still matter in modern relationships. Whether you're dating, married, or simply trying to understand the opposite sex a little better, this lively conversation offers timeless insights into attraction, respect, and connection. Find out more at elliottkatz.com

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        51 min
      • Ep. 69 - The Body Knows Best: Sara Perry on Desire, Intimacy, and Somatic Sexual Therapy

        What if the real barrier to intimacy isn’t finding the right person—but learning how to be honest with the one you’re with?
        In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Susan Shoer sits down with Sara Perry for a candid, thoughtful conversation about the parts of relationships most people avoid. Sara is a somatic sex coach and founder of Haven Space Coaching. She works with individuals and couples navigating trauma, chronic pain, and complicated relationships with intimacy—bringing a shame-free, consent-centered approach to pleasure and connection.
        Together, they explore what it really means to communicate desires, set boundaries, and create intimacy that goes beyond surface-level connection.
        In this episode, they discuss:
        • The truth about non-monogamy and why it’s often misunderstood
        • How somatic sex therapy helps people reconnect with their bodies
        • Why honesty—not chemistry—is the foundation of real intimacy
        • How to talk about desires, boundaries, and difficult topics without fear
        This is an honest, eye-opening conversation about connection, communication, and giving yourself permission to want what you want.

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        48 min
      • Ep. 68 - Love at First Click: Dirty Little Dating Secrets with Lopaze Lasane

        From ghosting and mixed signals to turning matches into real relationships, author and podcast host Lopaze Lasane joins Dateless in Delray to reveal the dirty little secrets behind modern online dating. In this candid and entertaining episode, we dive into dating app frustration, attraction psychology, communication mistakes, and what it really takes to make love click in today’s swipe-right world.
        Plus, check out Lopaze’s book, Love at First Click: Dirty Little Secrets to Succeed at Modern Online Dating, and his Love Can’t Wait Podcast for more unfiltered conversations about dating, relationships, and modern love.

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        39 min

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      Think you've heard it all about dating and relationships? Maybe not. Welcome to "Dateless in Delray," the podcast where we dive deep into love, lust, and everything under the sun. Each week, real men…