Dateless in Delray

What happens when you mix wanderlust with the world of dating? You get adventure, laughter, and stories you definitely won’t find on a resort brochure.
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by solo travel expert Shelby Frenette, founder of TravelFun.Biz, and singles traveler and foodie Jeff Shoer to explore the magic of traveling single. From luxury escapes to unforgettable mishaps, Shelby and Jeff share how travel can expand your horizons—not just geographically, but emotionally too.
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Whether you’re ready to book your next trip or just looking for inspiration, this episode is your passport to new possibilities.

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Is love really a three-course meal? Matchmakers Jessica Fass and Brian Bachow of Fass Pass to Love join Susan to share how patience, coaching, and confidence can transform dating from swipe culture into lasting partnerships. They reveal why investing in yourself first is key, what it means to be truly “match-ready,” and the surprising success stories (and hilarious misfires) that keep them inspired. Special Offer: Mention Dateless in Delray to receive an exclusive discount on a Matchmaking Strategy Session. Email [email protected] to claim your offer.

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What if the key to deeper intimacy isn’t a new partner, a bigger spark, or even better communication—but mindfulness?
In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with therapist and mindfulness teacher Wendi Dumbroff, MA, LPC to explore how presence, awareness, and intentional connection can transform dating, sex, and long-term relationships. From breaking destructive cycles to easing performance anxiety to setting intentions in love, Wendi brings decades of experience in couples and sex therapy to the conversation.
Whether you’re navigating a new romance, rekindling passion, or simply curious about how mindfulness shapes intimacy, this episode blends humor, wisdom, and practical takeaways you can use today.
Learn more about Wendi at wendidumbrofftherapy.com and follow her on Instagram at @wendidumbroff.

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Dating is complicated enough—but what happens when ADHD enters the mix? In this eye-opening and refreshingly honest episode, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with ADHD Life & Mindset Coach Leah Carroll to unpack how neurodivergence shapes love, attraction, and connection.
From love-bombing to ghosting, forgetting to text back to over-functioning in relationships, ADHD shows up in ways most people don’t expect—but can absolutely relate to. Leah and Susan explore rejection sensitivity, emotional intensity, and why dating with ADHD can feel like a rollercoaster one minute and a breakthrough the next.
Whether you’re neurodivergent yourself, dating someone who is, or just curious about how our wiring impacts intimacy, this episode offers humor, insight, and strategies for building healthier, more authentic connections—without abandoning yourself in the process. Tune in for a conversation that’s equal parts validating, funny, and transformative.

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What happens when a corporate professional leaves behind the boardroom and reinvents himself as a male escort? In this unfiltered conversation, Susan Heller Shoer sits down with George Goulburn—Australia-based escort, writer, and media personality—to explore what women truly seek when they hire him, and what his journey reveals about intimacy, confidence, and connection.
From younger women craving companionship without commitment to an 80-year-old with more energy than men half her age, George shares real, often surprising stories from his career. Together, we unpack the history and stigma around sex work in Australia, why women turn to professional escorts, and the lessons everyday men can learn from his approach to listening, presence, and emotional connection.
With humor, honesty, and a dose of humanity, this episode sheds light on what dating and relationships can look like when we strip away the labels—and focus on what people actually want.

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After 33 conversations with daters, coaches, therapists, and experts, I’m flying solo for Episode 34—and pulling back the curtain on what it’s really like to host a dating podcast while living the dating life myself. In this candid, funny, and occasionally too-honest episode, I share what I’ve learned about love, self-worth, and swiping after 50, the most surprising lessons from my guests, and what listeners have taught me along the way.
Plus, a peek at what’s next for Dateless in Delray—including matchmaking and maybe even my very own “Dating Game” reboot.

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What if your best relationship is still ahead of you? In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Ken Blackman—former Silicon Valley engineer turned sought-after relationship coach—to unpack how we evolve from casual dating to true connection. Ken shares his journey from feeling insecure and disconnected to helping couples deepen intimacy and grow lasting love. They discuss the difference between dating skills and relationship skills, navigating mismatched commitment levels, and why friendship might just be the foundation of forever. If you’ve ever dated someone who checked almost all the boxes—this episode is for you.

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What does intermittent fasting have to do with flirting? More than you think. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, Steve Feingold returns to share his personal transformation—physically and romantically—after committing to a fasting lifestyle. Joining the conversation is communication coach Laurie Schloff, who reveals how the language we use about our bodies can shape our confidence and our connections. Together, we explore how getting in shape isn't just about weight—it's about mindset, self-worth, and dating with intention. If you're ready to glow up from the inside out, this episode serves real talk—and real results.

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Ken O’Brien knows how to close a deal—and he’s still searching for the one that truly moves him. In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with Ken, a former Las Vegas bartender turned Florida real estate agent, mentor, and investor, who’s also a fitness enthusiast with a couple of bodybuilding wins under his belt. They talk about navigating dating over 50, starting over with strength, and why your heart—like your home—might just need the right buyer to see its potential. Funny, real, and full of wisdom, this one’s got curb appeal.

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What does your outfit say before you even open your mouth? In this stylishly honest episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by celebrity stylist, Delray Beach boutique owner, and host of the Do You Have It? podcast Kim Bolufé, to talk all things fashion, dating, and confidence. From first-date faux pas to post-divorce closet reinventions, we explore how clothes can reflect your confidence—or sabotage it. Kim shares real talk, real tips, and a few wild fashion confessions along the way. Whether you’re dating in Delray or just looking to level up your look, this episode is your permission slip to dress—and date—with intention.

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