Dateless in Delray

Maybe you should talk to someone. If you've ever heard that advice, this episode of Dateless in Delray is for you! Host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with the "Not-So-Filtered Therapist," an experienced Marriage and Family Therapist and host of the "Naked Truths" podcast. They discuss the importance of self-love in relationships, delve into the complexities of infidelity, and explore how self-esteem influences dating dynamics. The conversation also uncovers secrets to maintaining long-term, fulfilling partnerships. With her candid and compassionate approach, the "Not-So-Filtered Therapist" offers unfiltered insights into the realities of love, trust, and human connection, and shows why all of us could probably use a litte therapy!

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In this lively episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer reconnects with fellow Sharon, Massachusetts native, Donna Star—a dynamic Executive Coach who helps corporate professionals "live their life on purpose.". Together, they delve into the nuances of dating after 50, sharing personal anecdotes and practical advice. Discover how to leverage professional skills in the dating world, embrace new life chapters, create boundaries, and build genuine connections in our digitally distant world.. Whether you're re-entering the dating scene or seeking to enhance your current relationships, this episode offers valuable insights with a touch of humor and heartfelt stories.​

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​In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Dr. Janné Lomasky, a licensed psychologist, co-author of To Stay or Not To Stay?: A Self-Help Workbook for People Considering Divorce, and host of the podcast, Your Mental Highness.. Together they delve into the "love-starved" phenomenon, discussing how chronic loneliness affects mental and physical health, leading individuals to seek fulfillment through binge-watching, alcohol, or other substances. Dr. J shares insights on recognizing when one's relationship contributes to feelings of isolation and offers strategies to cultivate genuine connections. Tune in to explore the impact of loneliness and discover pathways to meaningful relationships.​

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​Trying to be smart in your search for love? Join host Susan Heller Shoer in this  episode of Dateless in Delray, where we get schooled by Janet Armstrong, a retired elementary school teacher and author of Navigating Parents Through Elementary School. Five years ago, they met at a Yoga on the Beach session in Delray Beach and have been good friends ever since. Together, they explore Janet's "Lesson Plan for Love," detailing her adventures in online dating after 50. From crafting the perfect dating "syllabus" to grading potential partners, Janet shares her insights on navigating the digital dating landscape. Discover her must-haves and deal-breakers, and learn how her teaching experience influenced her approach to finding love. This episode offers a humorous and heartfelt look at embracing new chapters and the pursuit of connection at any age.​

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This week, Dateless in Delray goes on location to a vibrant houseboat community of Sausalito, California, where love and relationships take on unconventional forms. From Living Apart Together (LAT) to cohabiting in floating homes, this eclectic enclave redefines modern romance.

Susan Heller Shoer sits down with medical researcher and pioneer Dr. Jacob “Jay” Lalezari, along with former LAT advocates Tam Morgan, head of The Foundation for Inner Peace, and Peter Miller, a longtime renewable energy and climate change advocate. Once committed to living separately, Tam and Peter now share a multi-level houseboat. Can couples thrive whether or not they share a roof? Tune in as Susan uncovers the stories of those rewriting the rules of love, commitment, and connection—on the water.

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In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer chats with the fabulous April Kirkwood, a standout from The Golden Bachelor, to dish on love, life, and reality TV. From her fascinating years-long relationship with the legendary Frankie Valli, to her career as a holistic therapist, to her experiences navigating dating after loss, April shares heartfelt stories and behind-the-scenes secrets from the hit show. With humor, wisdom, and a dash of resilience, she reminds us that love has no age limit and reinvention is always possible.  Don’t miss this golden opportunity to laugh, reflect, and get inspired by one incredible woman’s journey!

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In this inspiring episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer welcomes Nicole Chaness, the dynamic host of the 50s AF Podcast and creator of the wildly popular Bedroom Confessionals (https://50safpodcast.com/bedroom-confessionals). . Nicole shares her journey from heartbreak and loss to rediscovering herself and embracing life with humor, honesty, and resilience. As she prepares to relaunch her podcast this March, Nicole opens up about her experiences with divorce, widowhood, and starting over. From the fears of dating after 50 to finding joy in independence, this episode is packed with insights, laughter, and the ultimate reminder: your next fabulous chapter is always within reach.

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In this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer sits down with Michelle Hays, Certified Marriage Coach and host of the Monarch for Love Podcast. With decades of experience helping couples break free from loneliness and resentment, Michelle shares practical advice for building long-lasting relationships. From tips for successful dating to setting personal boundaries, Michelle’s insights are perfect for anyone seeking love or strengthening their connection. Plus, she reveals her secrets as someone who’s been proposed to five times! Whether you’re single, dating, or married, this episode offers inspiration and tools for creating a relationship that’s truly built to last.

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Are you ready to get out of your comfort zone and into the world of sex, intimacy, and non-traditional relationships? On this episode of Dateless in Delray, host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Karen Bigman,, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, and host of her own podcast, Taboo to Truth.. Karen shares her insights on everything from when to get intimate in a new relationship to getting comfortable with "sex toys," to polyamory and navigating ethical non-monogamy. Love, sex, and connection—let’s talk about it all! Don’t miss this unforgettable episode.

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In “Let it Go: Attachment Styles, Trauma, and Psychological Obstacles to Finding Love,” host Susan Heller Shoer is joined by Dr. Jeffrey Segal, a licensed psychologist with over 25 years of experience in individual, couples, and family therapy. Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the groundbreaking work of Sue Johnson’s Hold Me Tight (HMT) program, Dr. Segal shares how understanding attachment styles can help couples break negative patterns and strengthen connections. 

We’re also joined by South Florida single Steve, a retired attorney who’s swiping but struggling to find “the one.” Together, we’ll explore how our past experiences and childhood traumas can impact not only long-term relationships but also dating in today’s modern world.

Funny, insightful, and packed with takeaways, this episode is perfect for anyone seeking deeper understanding and connection in their love life.

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