Oh hey, Bollywood! In this episode, Becca is joined by Danny Sura, Asian-British actor to talk about everything Bollywood, dating practices in India, how you can gain confidence through acting, and the importance of always being authentic. Never be afraid of being yourself, so let’s stop pretending and be our genuine, authentic selves! 

Jump straight into:

00:40 - How to redirect dating disappointments 

03:55 - On Danny’s background and how he uses psychology to improve his performance.

07:15 - Two British people move to Mumbai: On Danny’s podcast and the dating panorama in India.

12:25 - First you breathe, then you Act With Confidence.

17:31 - The magic of Bollywood and how Danny built his acting career in the industry.

20:17 - Dating in India: A different approach to Tinder-ing and meeting people.

21:59 - Getting caught ringing adult hot lines, his ongoing project, and Danny’s biggest dating advice.

29:40 - The dating hack of the week: embrace an abundance mentality!

Resources

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Talking Brits In Bom Podcast

Act With Confidence

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Is it just us or is everyone else’s dating life a little bit weird right now? In this week’s episode, Becca is joined by the co-hosts of the Seeing Other People podcast, Ilana and Jonah, to spill some tea, talk about the importance of communication and dish about bad texters. Don’t miss this fun conversation!

Jump straight into:

(03:28) - Why negativity is such a turn off.

(06:53) - COVID dates with potential serial killers and how to change the world with a toothbrush. 

(13:12) - How Seeing Other People has changed the way Ilana and Jonah approach dating.

(20:51) - Professional daters and Hinge staff: How work can get in the way of your dating life. 

(24:44) - Block someone if intruding on your inner peace! Bless and release! 

(27:05) - Struggling to get over a past relationship.

(32:50) - The dating hack of the week: How to make dating more fun by switching your mindset.

Resources

How to Not Die Alone by Logan Ury 

Seeing Other People Podcast

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Dating can be pretty hard, and it gets so much tougher when you are not aware of your own worth. Confidence and joy have a crucial role when it comes to attracting an extraordinary partner, that is why it is so important to do the inner work first. In this episode, Becca is joined by Lily Womble, former matchmaker and founder of Date Brazen, to talk about why we must learn to flow, the importance of having our essence based preferences crystal clear, and why there is absolutely nothing wrong with celebrating ourselves and our milestones. While some people can’t stand an empowered woman, your soulmate will surely find it irresistible! Listen now to hop on the #BrazenBrag movement and attract the relationships you deserve.

Jump straight into:

02:23 - How to get past Imposter Syndrome with compassion and kindness.

08:43 - On Lily’s matchmaking powers, coaching career and her past toxic relationship.

15:13 - Remember this mantra: What is meant for you will not pass you by.

18:53 - The dating app industry, why you are for the few, not for the many, and the importance of evaluating your essence based preferences.

27:35 - How to handle the “How are you still single?” questions and unsolicited advice on your dating life.

34:14 - Bragging is empowering! Why you need to celebrate yourself to attract a great relationship. 

Resources

Join the Celebrate Your Single Self Challenge 

Check out The Brazen Breakthrough 

Follow Lily on Instagram

The Date Brazen Podcast

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If you have never heard of manifestation you might as well be living under a rock. In this episode, Instagram star SailorBailey is back again to chat with Becca about her manifestation secrets, the importance of gratitude journals, and her dating advice for all the single folks out there! Tune in to get inspired and excited about this fresh, new year. The world is yours, so let’s manifest some magic! 

Jump straight into:

00:21 - Funny dating profile flops! 

02:13 - On Bailey’s manifestation secrets and her successful and happy 2020.

09:14 - How to manifest your ideal partner.

14:09 - Bailey’s manifesting goals for 2021 and the role of social media these days.  

20:25 - Why you need to start a gratitude journal today and the crucial difference between affirmations and manifestations.

23:38 - Why consistency is key in the manifestation game and Bailey’s best dating advice.

32:29 - Becca’s dating hacks of the week!

Resources

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The Slight Edge by Jeff Olson

Unfu*k Yourself by Gary John Bishop

Untamed by Glennon Doyle

The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle 

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Magic Mud Toothpaste

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Who would have thought that you could flirt and talk about politics at the same time? In this episode, Becca chats with Molly Kawahata, Former Obama White House Energy & Climate Advisor, to talk about how she came up with the #DateSaveAmerica, what it was like to reach out to undecided voters through dating apps and how the media reacted to the movement. You won’t want to miss this wonky and wonderful episode!

Jump straight into:

00:20 - Why Becca started the Dating in the Bae podcast.

06:45 - Dating + Politics: How Molly came up with the #DateSaveAmerica to reach out to people and encourage them to vote.

13:42 - How Hinge and the media reacted to the #DateSaveAmerica movement. 

16:47 - Dating hack homework assignment: write yourself a self-compassion letter! 

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Dating is supposed to be fun, it is more of a process than it is a grind! In today’s episode, Becca is joined by match.com founder, Gary Kremen, to chat about how he created and conceptualized match.com, the toxic swiping culture of the modern dating world, why you should stop being so picky, and the importance of thinking outside the box. Tune in to listen to this awesome conversation and to witness Gary setting Becca up with incredible prospects himself!

Jump straight into:

01:30 - Dates and newspapers: Gary’s motivation to create Match.com.

05:04 - Gary, the Domain King, on the sex.com legal case, and the diversity inside the modern dating world. 

08:40 - Everything wrong with the “Swiping Culture.”

12:07 - The importance of dating with the desire to learn and have fun! 

16:01 - On the ridiculous fear of “cat ladies” and how empowered women can intimidate men. 

18:55 - Dating during COVID, the “dating your coworker” taboo and Gary’s relationship advice.

24:51 - Becca’s dating hack of the week.

Resources

Match | Meet Someone New

Connect with Gary on LinkedIn

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Due to COVID, remote dating is here to stay! And even though it is not the traditional way to do it, it can still be fun! You never know who you’ll meet on the other side of the screen. In today’s episode, Becca is joined by your favorite dating coach, Erika Ettin, who never runs out of jaw-dropping dating stories, to chat about “white lies” in dating profiles, how to have great dates — even through Zoom —  and how you could find the love you deserve through online dating. You may think the pandemic ruined your love life, but it is up to you to look at it differently and make the most out of it. Tune in to get inspired and set up that glowing profile!

Jump straight into:

00:21 - 2021, we are ready for you! 

03:28 - The 1-sushi-roll man: How Erika ended up dating the same guy 6 years later without realizing it.

13:34 - Dating profiles and lies: Calling your date out is okay!

21:55 - How to prevent your Zoom date from being awkward and end the date with kindness.

26:57 - Are female and male experiences around COVID dating any different?

29:31 - Why you should keep looking for love even in the middle of a pandemic.

36:04 - Becca’s dating hack of the week!

Resources

Follow Erika on Instagram

A Little Nudge

Love at First Site by Erika Ettin 

So, We Met Online

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We are just weeks away from the end of 2020, a year in which we’ve definitely learned a lot of things. In today’s episode, Becca is joined by Tara Jade Nichols (Yes! Again!!) to chat about everything you want to know around astrology and wrapping up this year. Moon eclipses, a powerful winter solstice and the beginning of the Age of Aquarius, Tara has you covered! This episode is packed with juicy tips and tricks to make the most out of these important events and find neutrality and peace amongst the chaos. Tune in now!

Jump straight into:

04:21 - Let go or be dragged: All you want to know about eclipse energy and how it can influence your life decisions. 

08:57 - Don’t panic, but expect a little chaos and drama soon! Pro tip: just stay out of it.

12:46 - What can you expect from the upcoming Age of Aquarius?

17:02 - The winter solstice and what exactly makes December one of the most powerful and energy loaded times of the year. 

20:04 - Karmic relationships and what you should know about cord cutting.

29:03 - Why it is so important for us to clear and make room for our own energy.

33:03 - Becca’s dating hack of the week! 

Resources

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Schedule your personalized reading

Astrology 101 with Tara Jade Nichols

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How has the dating world evolved during the pandemic? Today, Rebecca is joined by her friend, Dr. Ann Tran, a clinical psychologist and dating coach in San Francisco.

Dr. Tran is a licensed clinical psychologist specializing in psychotherapy about relational concerns and dating coaching in San Francisco, California, with over a decade of experience. She’s in the dating trenches with you, even during a global pandemic and a racial revolution fighting for justice. In this episode, they sit down to chat about the benefits of pandemic dating, how to learn from every situation and aim to become your best self, all about some of their dating experiences, and so much more. Tune in into this episode and get involved in this conversation! You won’t want to miss it!

Jump straight into:

03:02 - Ann’s journey and why she left her trauma work.

05:22 - On the fascinating world of online dating. 

10:53 - COVID-19 dating and its two different approaches. 

13:33 - The experience Ann had meeting someone during the pandemic.

16:53 - Why Ann made the decision to file for her divorce.

21:23 - The learning behind this difficult moment and how it changed her and her dating life.

25:07 - Everything you want to know about dating coaching.

Resources:

Check out Dr. Ann's website

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