Dear Future Hubby Podcast

Today’s episode is going to be just a little bit different. I wanted to talk about a Wife in the Bible that I have been reading about, Queen Vashti! As I go on this journey of singleness, I have studied various wives to gain better insight of the kind of wife I desire to be to my future Hubby! Of course it goes without saying, I desire to be the Wife he Needs, but what will that look like for me? Well, I have heard this passage preached about over the years from a lot of pastors different perspectives but as I research this “character” in the Bible, I want to share an alternative perspective based upon what I have researched so far. Bear with me please as I attempt to share my thoughts. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged!

Today is January 1, 2023! Happy New Year to all of my Listener’s out there in Podcast Land. As I was going through my journal, I stumbled upon a journal insert. For the sake of protecting certain identities, I have replaced the name with “This Man”. This also allows me to pray for my “True Husband”, my Future Hubby! I hope that my level of transparency will help someone to be totally and completely honest with themselves. In my opinion, some decisions would be avoided if we only practiced to heal first! Nevertheless, I truly believe that GOD can turn every mistake I ever made into a testimony that gives Him All the Glory! I hope this Episode encourages someone! Be encouraged.

🛑 If You are Easily Triggered by the words “Death, Suicide or Murder”, please do not proceed with listening to this Episode 🛑 The death of dancer Stephen “Twitch” Boss hit many of us HARD! However, I believe when death shows up unaware, if we survive the experience of losing a loved one, we should take a moment to Reflect on the gift we call LIFE! I understand, not every person looks at Life as a “Gift”. Some people have other choice words! I get it! And that’s your business if you feel this way. However, I wanted to take this moment to speak my truth concerning my encounter(s) with death. Listen in as I share my testimonies as transparently as possible! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged! And if you are having suicidal thoughts, please do not make a permanent decision based off of a temporary circumstance. Please seek help from your local suicide hotline. Or contact 988lifeline.org or by phone at: 1-800-273-TALK if you would like to get involved or speak to a professional. Take care of Yourself because there is Only One You!!!

Now how many of you are willing to put your flaws on Blast?! I Am! And the truth of the matter is, is that I Talk Too Much! But in the famous words of Tabitha Brown, “That’s My Business!”. The only difference is, I am about to Share my business on this here episode. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Sometimes when we are facing adversity, we cannot seem to see “the forest for the trees”. However, if we look a little deeper, we can see beyond that forest altogether. Well, I have been through a few forests over the span of my life and there is one thing I have learned, “never make a permanent decision based off of a temporary circumstance.” Listen in as I unpack this. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

Hello Everyone! I hope y’all had the most amazing Holiday with friends and family. And whether you celebrate Thanksgiving or not, I hope you truly ceased every moment to be with and around the people you love! Today, I wanted to talk about being your authentic self and what that looks like for me. Listen in as I speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

🛑 Public Service Announcement: This episode is for Mature Audiences Only! If you are someone who is easily Triggered, please do not proceed with listening to this Episode🛑. Today, I wanted to delve into knowing people by the fruit they bear. Sometimes we are so focused on people’s actions that we neglect to truly Listen to the words they speak in our presence and when we are not present. However, if you truly want to know if someone is for you or against you, try listening to what they say to you and about you! I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

This inquiring mind would like to know, if my Future Hubby is a Compassionate Man of GOD? I have head so many people talk about making a list of the qualities they desire in their Future Spouse, in their Purpose Partner. Well, one of the qualities I desire in my True Husband is “Compassion”. Listen in as I speak on this subject. I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

I cannot speak for every generation, however, I do know of A Generation of people who do not apologize for the mistakes they have made, even if their mistakes hurt their children beyond measure. Listen in as I speak on my truth concerning this very thing. Do you agree or do you disagree that apologies are necessary? Either way, I hope this Episode encourages Someone! Be encouraged.

It may have taken me a moment today to get to the heart of this question, but I do believe that if you stay until the very end, you will understand my Why?! A lot like my life, I have gone over the valley, under the hill, through the woods and eventually found that right path again. For some people, life may have turned out the exact way they planned it! Well, not for me!!! My life has been Messy and some of my choices have been Too! Yet, I have discovered the value of finding my Peace and it most definitely was not found in ‘People Pleasing’. In fact, it didn’t come until I Stopped trying to please People altogether!!! Listen in as I share My Truth. Maybe you can Relate! Or maybe not! And that’s Okay!!! Nevertheless, I hope this Episode Encourages Someone! Be encouraged.