There is this sweet and nice girl persona that women tend to embody as a way to create safety for themselves but also as a way to secure a man. But the men that they secure that desire them to be sweet and nice in order to love and commit to them, are not actually real men. In this episode, I explore why men like this are immature and what fears they're protecting themselves from by being with a woman that’s sweet and nice all the time. 

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It is easy today to notice how disconnected men are from their emotional sensitivity and how this lack of self-awareness and emotional intelligence has and continues to lead to violent outbursts of rage and violence towards other men and women. In this episode, I want to focus on of the biggest reasons I believe men lose sensitivity to their emotions and how they affect others. 

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Have you ever felt that you were responsible for someone’s healing or wellbeing? And if you weren’t in the picture or if you didn’t tend to their needs they would be a wreck and couldn’t take care of themselves or something terrible would happen to them? In this episode, I discuss how this pattern of relating known as codependency, when it goes unchecked and unnoticed evolves and becomes what can be seen as a Savior Complex. 

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Fathers today are either completely absent or emotionally unavailable. And how fathers show up today not only affects women and daughters but men and young boys— it shapes their perspective of manhood and masculinity. So based on the state of men today there is a conversation that men are not having with each other about the effects of having absent or emotionally unavailable fathers. 

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How do you recover and heal from a betrayal by someone close to you? How do you find the courage to remove your armor in order to let love in? How could you ever put your trust in someone else again after seeing what happened when you did?

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When a man loves a woman he does three things profess, provide, and protect. And on this episode, I want to focus on how we as a collective define and view the responsibility of providing and protecting, and how it can and has negatively impacted our relationships and the evolution of men as a whole. 

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Why is it that even after we've learned a lesson, or seen what happens when we ignore specific red flags in people, we somehow recycle the same relationship? We recreate the same dynamics that exhausted us and caused us to negotiate boundaries and abandon ourselves in the process. In this episode, I explore some of the conditions that shape that experience.

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Though our traumas may be unique and different from each other, there is a trauma that we all share, and this trauma formed a deep wound inside our souls that we all carry. In this episode, I explore that trauma, how it affects us and our relationships, and the things we can do to tend to it.

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Many women and even men think that what men want and only really care and think about is sex. Which is on the list, no doubt about that. But when men mature there are things that they begin to crave, yearn, and desire from their partner that has little to nothing to do with her physical body or appearance.

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The more men can take the time to look and address how much their relationship with their mother has impacted and continues to influence their relationship with women as an adult, the less difficult it will be for women to feel safe with men.

In this episode, I explore what impedes a man's evolution, and the stories that skew his perception of the women around him.

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