Dear Nelly

Rusty Bertha's marriage of 27 years ended when he was 49 and he was shitting in the shit. Flash forward 7 years and he is happily remarried after doing a shitload of therapy and then meeting a wonderful woman on the apps. YES, IT DOES HAPPEN. Nelly and Rusty talk about all of that plus what sort of flirt he is and do's and don'ts of dating. They take a great listener call about boundaries and Rusty's BIG MISTAKE in dating and relationships.

RUSTY BERTHA: HERE and HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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In this ep, Nelly drops in to ponder how toxic people rely on silence and how liberating it is when you find your voice. She also muses on how egocentric we are when it comes to divorce, dating and all the things. She invites you to WWRPD - what would Ru Paul do - and ask yourself how important your current situation is in the Grander Scheme of Things. So you got divorced - sure it's huge, it's also nothing in the Big Picture view of human history and even, of your life. You can put the shame, worry and fear down. She also take wonderful call from a woman who was sitting right in the shit and is out the other side with a full bush and a new lease on her (sex)life. Bravo!

• Sherapy Sessions Podcast HERE
• Character Outs Podcast HERE
• The Ru Paul interview Nelly references HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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Nelly turned 50 last week and she drops in to take some birthday calls and talk about the bug 5-0 milestone. Nelly gets into "un-fu*king" yourself and how aging can be an opportunity to shed all the negative crap that has held us back and, how joy is there to be taken. She also shares what she's reading, listening to and watching.

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Nelly xxx

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Bec and I talk about being long-term-single, how to flirt (or not) and why rending to your own garden is the most important thing. We take a great listener call from someone who is NOT embracing being single and a letter about a pash n' dash. A great ep with a golden girl of comedy.

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24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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Nelly drops in take a listener call telling her she WAS WRONG (she sort of was?), to rant about Fake on Paramount Plus and some other stuff. You'll really love this episode if you've dated a fantasist/pathological liar/ predator.

• Info on FAKE here
• Info on The Dating Gamble (INSIGHT) here

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13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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This week Nelly drops in with a Bonus ep dedicated to listeners and the stuff she's reading and watching.

• I AM CELINE DOCO HERE
• MUSEUM OF BROKEN RELATIONSHIPS HERE
• COUPLES THERAPY HERE
• DR GABOR MATE HERE

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13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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In this bonus episode Harley asks Nelly some advice on parenting a teen who is out of his depth and, they discuss that old balance between living a happy and pleasurable life and being healthy. They have zero solutions.

Harley's podcast Shitting with the Door Open HERE

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13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.

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In an era of smaller and smaller families, how on earth did comedian Harley Breen end up living in Queensland with 4 kids? He blames Psilocybin!

Harley and I discuss navigating the ups and downs of coparenting after divorce, feeding 4 kids and, who broke the world. We have a good chat about Love Languages and take two wonderful listener calls on whether or not our caller is too fussy and another on how to tell a "Friends with Benefits" you've caught feelings. Gorgeous Harley leads with his heart and shareS some exquisite rants with Nelly. ENJOY!

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13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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Nelly is just dropping in with a few musings on holidays, love songs, TV and other stuff. Why? Just because she missed yas.

• DEAR NELLY PLAYLIST: HERE
• COUPLES THERAPY: HERE
• MELISSA ETHERIDGE DOCO HERE

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.

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The glorious Cath Davis is back! Cath and Nelly have a great chat about how to be included in conversation as a single person surrounded by married couples (hint: that's on the couples), Cath's favourite love songs and how Cath has been. They take two listener calls - one on learning absolutely nothing about menopause from doctors and another on the "Low Bar" for men in dating. They finish the free episode with a chat about Nelly's queen of rock: Melissa Etheridge and her relationship history.

A gorgeous ep with one of Nelly's faves.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

If you love the podcast, please rate, review and spread the word. This stuff works best by word-of-mouth so please share, share and share some more. We can't do this without you!Nelly, Producer Fahey and Producer Sammy xxx https://plus.acast.com/s/dear-nelly.

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