NELLY IS COMING AT YOU SOLO!

This month you're getting Nelly solo - fresh on the heels of her birthday, a solo holiday and a NEW LOVE. Nelly gets into some great culture shares, she talks about what it's like to start dating again at 51, and how to holiday alone. She takes some incredible listener calls and gets into a hard but necessary discussion about abuse perpetrated by women.

CULTURE SHARES:

• SURVIVAL OF THE THICKEST
• FOUR SEASONS
• NOBODY WANTS THIS
• RECKONING BY MAGDA SZUBANSKI
• A WISDOM OF AGE BY JACINTA PARSONS
• THE LIFE IMPOSSIBLE by Matt Haig

SUPPORT SERVICES:

• Rainbow Door Family Violence support for LGBTQIA+ folks HERE
• LGBT Domestic Violence Foundation HERE
• 1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE
• 13YARN: 24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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Jacinta Parsons: I'd been to paradise but I'd never been to me!

Author and ABC personality Jacinta Parsons came out of a very long-term relationship a few years ago and swore off dating. Then she met a bloke in an airport lounge and now they're loving each other sick, mate! Jacinta's dating story is like a rom-com that wrote itself. We talk about this, her INCREDIBLE NEW BOOK and, we take a brilliant listener call about being taken advantage of (to put it mildly) in an awful se*ual liason. Some if it is hard stuff, but so moving and relevant. I know you will love this episode - it has lots of laughs and tears. Just like we like it around here.

JACINTA'S WEBSITE HEREA WISDOM OF AGE, BY JACINTA PARSONS HERE

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13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

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Adam Richard: age is just a number, until it's not

The Fabulous Adam Richard is back to talk about something very special - his thesis on DEAR NELLY! Nelly and Adam also talk about aging, we get an update on Adam's new adventures in Ethical Non-Monogamy, life admin and some other stuff. Nelly and Adam take a raw and real listener call about se*ual boundaries and how they are NOT NEGOTIABLE. A wonderful episode with an old friend and Dear Nelly favourite.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

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Poh Ling Yeow: BONUS episode BONUS for MAY 2025!

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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Poh Ling Yeow: I just can't face the bloody apps babe!

Poh joins us this month to talk about being friends with your ex, being long term single and why she can't face all the messaging and shenanigans of the apps. Nelly also takes some great listener calls. A fabulous episode with a national treasure.

MasterChef Australia: Back to Win continues Sunday at 7pm, and Monday to Wednesday at 7:30pm on 10 and 10 Play

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

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APRIL 2025 EPISODE

This month we are joined by T-Rex - the President of the Melbourne chapter of the iconic Dykes on Bikes. T-Rex and I chart her journey from dirt-bike farm-girl to two marriages, some difficult relationships and ultimately, to finding herself and her person. T-Rex's journey is that of so many of us - a long and winding road to self-discovery and happiness with some pot-holes and fox burrows in between. You'll be inspired to find your own patch.

TICKETS TO OUR NEXT LIVE SHOW ON MAY 15TH (MELBOURNE) HERE

Dykes on Bikes Melbourne HERE

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

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IT'S ALL ABOUT YOU: NELLY COMING AT YOU SOLO WITH LISTENER CALLS AND LETTERS

This month Nelly is going commando - no co-host - to tackle your listener calls and letters. We have everything from how to get hope back, to coercive control, to dating dilemmas.

A solo ep with Captain Thomas at the helm. Enjoy!

TICKETS AND INFO FOR KIRSTY WEBECK'S TOUR HERE

Interview with Rebecca Solnit, “Hope in the Dark”

https://youtu.be/htstajrxUIc?si=04pnJ-nlsqz3kVwB

 

Coercive control:

https://www.healthline.com/health/coercive-control#restricting-autonomy

 

Non-physical abuse: 

https://www.cnv.org.au/help/what-is-family-violence/#:~:text=Family%20violence%20isn't%20always,t%20do%20what%20they%20want.

 

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

 

Nelly's website HERE

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Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

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DO NOT DATE WHILst ON THE HORN: THE BAR will be TOO LOW!

THE FABULOUS ADAM RICHARD is back with Nelly to tackle some listener letters and questions that they didn't get to last time. These range from how to set up your profile, to dating while s*x-starved to community to parenting whilst living with a mental illness. As always, they are hilarious and highly inappropriate.

 

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

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DEAR NELLY FAVOURITE SCOTT BRENNAN IS BACK TO HELP NELLY FIGURE SH*T OUT

One of our favouite homosexuals is back to help Nelly answer some straight lady questions from listeners. Why? Because, why not. Scott has been sitting in the sh*t and we get into that. We take questions on hooking up with a work friend, sex toy etiquette and, how to enjoy big events on your won. We also take an inspiring call about dating in a regional area, later in life. A beautiful episode with a dear friend of both Nelly and the Dear Nelly Community. You'll love this one - a ripper start to 2025.

 

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

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The Fabulous Adam Richard: how do we set up an open relationship?

In addition to your guaranteed monthly episodes, Nelly will now drop in solo and/or with a guest to talk sh*t and take listener letters when she has time. We start today with a very long episode with Nelly's old mate The Fabulous Adam Richard. Adam and his long-term partner have just opened up their relationship and Adam is loving some aspects and finding others challenging. They GET INTO IT. Nelly and Adam also take some wonderful listener letters.

It's a long one - listen in two parts or go on a really long walk.

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1800RESPECT is A Confidential information, counselling and support service that is available for free, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week to support people impacted by domestic, family or sexual violence: CLICK HERE

 

13YARN

24-hour national crisis support line for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people. Call 13 92 76 or visit www.13yarn.org.au

 

Nelly's website HERE

Fahey's website HERE

 

Love yas,

Nelly xxx

 

 

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