Dear Shandy

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you learn you were "cuttable" from the guest list, should you still bother going to the wedding? If you're engaged but not actually sure about marriage, is that your gut talking or typical wedding cold feet? If you know for a fact that your friend's fiancé has a habit with the "White Lady", do you tell the friend? And your platonic friend is wonderful but her eyelash extensions are holding her back—do you tell her, and if so, how?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:39 - Q1: I Was “Cuttable” From The Guest List; Should I Still Go?

5:03 - Q2: I Wasn’t Invited To A Wedding & Have Never Felt So Excluded—Help!

17:33 - Q3: My Gut Is Telling Me I Can’t Marry Him, But…

27:25 - Q4: Should I BLOW The Whistle On My Friend’s Fiancé’s Extracurricular Activity Of Choice?

46:31 - Q5: My Friend’s Eyelash Extensions Are Over The Top—How Do I Tell Her?

Referenced Bachelorette Recap (about natural nails): https://youtu.be/YjNpLxsRqh4?si=x8vMnHKlxLvIBH4E

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It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Emily who has been in a casual long distance situationship with a guy who claims he needs to be single. However, his dating app activity says otherwise and his actions seem to show he really cares. She's caught real feelings... should she see where this "fling" goes, or is this guy a giant red flag? Listen on for the Shandy take!

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Emily!

36:57 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you always beat your man at the board games he introduced you to, how can you mend his love of them? If your friend loses the key to your building that you gave her as a favor, does that deserve punishment? Is it OK to "therapy police" your husband? And if you find out your dad has been killing squirrels in his spare time, what should you do?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

3:55 - Q1: Beating My BF At Board Games Has Made Him Lose Interest In His Hobby—Help!

13:04 - Q2: Should I Ignore My Friend’s Birthday Because They Ignored Mine?

21:16 - Q3: My Friend Lost The Key To My Building That I Gave Her As A Favor—Shandy, What Would You Do?

27:09 - Q4: My Husband And I Always Fight About This—Am I In The Wrong?

36:44 - Q5: My Father Is A Squirrel Murderer—Help!

48:05 - Q6: Am I Wrong For “Therapy-Policing” My Husband?

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SIDEBAR IS BACK, BABY! This series was created for our most random thoughts and discussions to live, and we can't wait to read yours in the comments!

Shandy saw their quarterly in-theater movie—what did they think? Is it possible to get better at holding your pee? Can you guess the cost of two juices in NYC? Are police officers staring at their phones while on the job? Did Shandy like White Lotus Season 3? Are commercials good for you? What are YOUR favorite commercial jingles? What is the least delicious type of potato? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Shandy In-Theater Movie Review

6:19 - Peeing

8:25 - White Lotus Season 3

12:24 - Patrick Schwarzenegger

13:40 - The Cost Of Juice

16:11 - Cops On Their Phones

19:26 - Recognizing Faces

26:15 - Waiting

29:39 - Guns N’ Roses

32:07 - Commercials

38:06 - Fingerling Potatoes

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SURPRISE!!! Today we're joined IN STUDIO by Love Is Blind's Joey and Sara! Going into this recording we truly had no idea what was going to happen. Would this be a group friend hang or a Tell All-turned-Love Fest??

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome Joey & Sara!

4:00 - Are They Or Aren’t They Dating??

7:53 - Monica

21:58 - The Love Square

25:08 - Online Hate, The Hardest Parts & Misconceptions

41:42 - That Bachelor Audition

44:07 - Exclusivity

46:27 - They Rank Their Relationship

47:56 - How They Complement Each Other

49:56 - How They Annoy Each Other

54:31 - How They’re Different Than They Imagined 

1:10:17 - The Newlyweds Game

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He's baaaack! It's been 2 years since we first had Ramit Sethi on and he was such a hit, we had to bring him back! Today's money convo might not only help with your marital arguments, but it could also help with your personal finances given the shaky market right now. Today we cover everything from how to have healthy conversations around money, tackling Lifestyle Creep, whether or not you can afford to have a baby, to—thanks, tariffs—what to with your money RIGHT NOW. Listen on to get rich!

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2:40 - Why A Book For Couples?

3:58 - “Our Only Source Of Marital Argument Is Money” / The 4 Times Couples Talk Money

7:35 - Discrepancy in Earning/Spending

13:43 - When Shandy First Spoke About Money / When To Start

18:28 - “How Do I Not Get Upset When My Husband Buys $600 Watches Without Consulting Me?”

22:35 - Keeping Money Separate

26:43 - “How Do I Deal With Being The One In The Friend Group With The Least Amount Of Money?”/Keeping Up With The Joneses

37:20 - Lifestyle Creep

39:29 - Your Four Key Numbers

42:52 - Pay Off Low Interest Debt Or Invest?

45:04 - “Now Is Different”

46:26 - Gold, Silver & Bitcoin?

48:48 - “Can I Afford To Have A Baby?”

53:19 - “My Parents And I Are Soon To Come Into A Large Sum of $$; What Should We Do With It?”

54:58 - Sharleen’s Stupid Question (But Some Of You Will Thank Her!)

57:20 - Given The Tariffs, What You Should Be Doing With Your Money Right Now

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It's CALLER DAY! 📞 Today we're joined by Sarah who is in a long term, long distance, *polyamorous* relationship. While she has agreed to all the terms, she doesn't feel prioritized or valued. Is this her anxious attachment style rearing its head or is it the relationship itself? And can she regain the power in this dynamic? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Sarah!

40:30 - Shandy Debrief

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It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! What should you do if your mother-in-law keeps sending you money as a way to control you? As a guy in today's dating climate, is it assertively sexy or just plain pushy to reach back out to a past flame? And is it possible for your dream baby name to be "cursed"? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Introduction

1:37 - Q1: My Mother-In-Law Keeps Trying To Control Us With Money—Help!

15:23 - Q2: I’m Still Thinking About Her… Should I Reach Back Out?

32:52 - Q3: Should I Still Use My Dream Baby Name?

46:52 - Q4: Our Friends Booked Their Wedding One Week Before Ours—Should We Still Go?

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Callers are back in session! Today we're joined by Hannah who is juggling a lot in her personal life: a loving husband, 2 kids AND a loving girlfriend. But while things seem peachy, Hannah's parents—with whom she's extremely close—do NOT approve. How can she gain their acceptance of her poly lifestyle? Or how can she learn to accept their lack of acceptance? Listen on for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Caller Hannah!

24:43 - Shandy Debrief

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At long last, we're joined by Carolina from season 29 of The Bachelor!

Today Carolina dishes the behind-the-scenes dirt on being the season's "villain" and shares the many things Grant told her off camera. She also provides loads of juicy context for the season's most polarizing scenes. Did Grant act like a player? What did Rose *really* tell Carolina off camera? Have she and Dina patched things up? And is Mean Girl Mob Mentality a thing? We devoured this candid conversation with the open book that is Carolina and we think you will too!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Carolina!

1:37 - Was She Ever A Contender For Bachelorette?

2:43 - Did She Know She’d Become The “Villain”?

6:32 - Was There A Moment When Things “Turned”?

9:24 - That Dancing Group Date

11:44 - Things Grant Said

15:15 - Relationship Management

18:03 - The Season’s “Great Leader” Culture

24:16 - Rose & The “Player” Vibes

35:12 - Juliana

38:44 - The Scotland Group Date

43:10 - Dina

48:50 - Women Tell All

51:06 - True Friends

51:57 - Her Honest Thoughts on Grant

53:49 - Shandy Debrief

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