Dear Shandy

Dear Shandy

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  • Typical duration

    67 min

    per episode

  • If it hooks

    57%

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Dear Shandy episodes

  • Q&A! My Boyfriend Is Following His Ex's OnlyFans—Is This Borderline Cheating?!

    It's Q&A time! We're back in the living room, answering YOUR burning questions. 🔥 Is it sketchy if your boyfriend follows his ex's erotic accounts, and how much does it matter whether or not he tells you about it? Do longterm friends-with-benefits relationships ever lead to actual relationships, and what should you do if you find yourself developing real feelings? And how important is sexual exploration before settling down? Your questions are getting REAL and we're here for it! 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏻‍♂️ Watch on for the Shandy take...

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



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    1 hr 19 min
  • LOVE FEST! Astrid Loch & Kevin Wendt Talk Meeting on Bachelor in Paradise & Dominos Love

    It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by engaged lovebirds Astrid Loch and Kevin Wendt! These two met on Bachelor in Paradise (Season 5) and got engaged a year later, in 2019. They join us from their new house (which is currently undergoing renovations!) to share their first impressions of each other and whether or not TV played a role. We discuss their thoughts on The One, what their (hilarious) peeves are about each other, as well as housework, handbags, and Dominos. (Unrelated: We also learn what happens to Andy's retired V-neck tees.) Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

    More Astrid & Kevin

    https://www.instagram.com/astridloch

    https://www.instagram.com/kevin.c.wendt

    https://www.instagram.com/thewendtgang

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



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    1 hr 8 min
  • I've Never Been in a Meaningful Relationship—Help!

    Just how honest should you be in your dating profile? If you never drink, would it hurt your dating chances to share that? And if you're in your mid-20s and have never been in a romantic relationship of any kind, how can you take control of your love life? Today's episode is all about hard truths and tough love. Watch on for the Shandy Take! 


    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



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    1 hr 14 min
  • Enneagram Types in Relationships ft. Certified Enneagram Coach Steph Barron Hall

    How familiar are you with the Enneagram? Have you ever considered how your type plays into your relationships? Today we are joined by certified Enneagram coach Stephanie Barron Hall. The Enneagram of Personality, rooted in psychology, is a typology of nine interconnected personality types. With Stephanie's guidance, we learn more about our own types (Sharleen's a 4; Andy's a 5) and how they play a role in our compatibility, how we feel loved, how we communicate, and yes, how we fight. Reflections and confessions lie ahead! 

    More Steph 

    Buy Her Book - https://bit.ly/TheEnnegraminLove Instagram

    Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco

    Website - https://ninetypes.co/ 

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



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    1 hr 6 min
  • Q&A! Dating Younger Men, Navigating Breakups, & Zombie Apocalypse Sex

    We're back to answering YOUR questions! You guys came at us with some tough topics this time around: Should you and your partner talk about your pasts? What should you do if you and your ex are in the same friend group? Do you only seem to want what you can't have? And after having been on The Bachelor, what was dating in the real world like for Sharleen? Our answers to your burning question lie ahead... Can you handle the truth? 

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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    58 min
  • LOVE FEST! Vanessa Grimaldi & Joshua Wolfe Chat Poop & Poutine

    It's Love Fest time! Today we're joined by Vanessa Grimaldi and her then-boyfriend (but now-fiancé!) Josh Wolfe. (Josh proposed 3 days after we recorded this!!) We learn the unique way in which these two got to know each other, how they complement each other, and the hilarious hurdle Josh had to overcome. We also talk housework, Canadian snacks, and Squatty Pottys (#notsponsored.... we wish). Finally, the Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better?? Watch on to find out...

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

    More Vanessa & Josh

    https://www.instagram.com/vanessagrimaldi30

    https://www.instagram.com/jbrwolfe

    https://www.instagram.com/nobetteryou

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    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



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    1 hr
  • My Date Doesn't Ask Questions — Is it Him Or Me?

    You've definitely been there: On a date, and the onus feels like it's on you to ask questions and keep the conversation moving. Is your date self-absorbed, or is there more to this? Could you be accidentally contributing to this dynamic? This caller conversation went in a very different direction than expected, but we loved how it brought us (sooner than intended!) to Nervous Energy. We then segue into a couple of our big first date Dos and Don'ts. Do YOU commit any of these early dating crimes??

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

    Join us every Thursday for a new episode of Dear Shandy! Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

    Follow us!

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    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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    59 min
  • Can You Remain Friends With an Ex? ft. Andy's Ex-Fiancée

    Can you REALLY be friends with an ex? We're joined by Margie, Andy's ex-fiancée, who conveniently happens to have a PhD in clinical psychology. We go for a stroll down memory lane to learn about their history together. Then we discuss how they came to be friends today and what the key components are to true friendship post-romance. Finally, we get Margie's professional input: What are the biggest mistakes people make when it comes to dating and relationships? Warning: You WILL see yourself in these!

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

    Join us every Thursday for a new episode of Dear Shandy! Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

    Follow us!

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    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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    1 hr 17 min
  • Q&A! Prenups, Defining the Relationship, & Playing It Cool

    Today is all about YOUR questions... the broader ones, that is. What are our thoughts on prenups, and do we have one? How should a woman deal with a man who doesn't satisfy her? After our meeting, did Andy go on dates with anyone else, or did he immediately close down the shop? And did Sharleen play it cool? Find out the answers to your burning questions in our first ever Q&A sesh!

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

    Join us every Thursday for a new episode of Dear Shandy! Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

    Follow us!

    Dear Shandy - https://www.instagram.com/dearshandy

    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

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    56 min
  • LOVE FEST! Caila Quinn & Nick Burrello Talk Relationship Hurdles & Hobbit Feet

    For our inaugural Love Fest episode, it's only fitting to be joined by dear friends (and engaged couple!) Caila Quinn and Nick Burrello. We dive deep on first impressions (and how those might have changed!), specific traits they value in each other, and relationship hurdles. Andy and Nick also bond over Instagram-husbandry. 😉 PLUS, we have our first ever Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game! Who knows who better??

    If you have a relationship question, write us at: [email protected]

    More Caila & Nick

    https://www.instagram.com/cailaquinn

    https://www.instagram.com/nickburrello

    https://withlovecaila.com/

    Join us every Thursday for a new episode of Dear Shandy! Subscribe and watch the episodes on YouTube! https://bit.ly/SubscribeDearShandy

    Follow us!

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    Sharleen Joynt - https://www.instagram.com/sharleenjoynt

    Andy Levine - https://www.instagram.com/machinelevine



    Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/dear-shandy/donations

    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    1 hr 4 min

About Dear Shandy

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Sharleen Joynt and Andy Levine—aka "Shandy"—combine dating advice and reality show recaps for a fun analysis of modern romance.


Sharleen and Andy are two former commitment-phobes…

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