Dear Shandy

It's Q&A time! We're back, answering YOUR burning questions! If you and your podcast co-host disagree on whether or not to release an episode, should you compromise or stick to your perfectionism? If you know a relationship is doomed, is it still worth exploring for the experience of having "loved and lost"? If your entire family has near-daily Zoom calls, are you the A-hole for not wanting to participate? And if your husband gifts you a solo sex toy for your anniversary, is it kinky or just plain rude?? Come join us in our living room for the Shandy take!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:59 - Q1: My Podcast Co-Host Wants To Release An Episode I Don’t Like—What Should I Do?

11:12 - Q2: Is It Better To Have Loved And Lost Than To Have Never Loved At All?

24:27 - Q3: My Entire Family Has A Zoom Call Almost Daily—Is This Normal & Do I Really Have To Join?

49:06 - Q4: My Husband Gifted Himself A Solo Sex Toy For Our Anniversary—Am I Overreacting?

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HAPPY THANKSGIVING, SHANDIES!!! And what better way to celebrate thanks than with a double date?? That's right: It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Andrew Spencer and Alexe Godin from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise!

Today Alexe and Andrew whirl into the studio despite Andrew's flight being delayed and Alexe having lost her phone! They give us a peek into the delightful chaos that is their relationship and discuss whether or not Alexe should have taken ALL the money on Paradise. We learn about the cultural differences of an American dating a Canadian, how they complement each other, and what they fight about (it's not what you think!) Finally, a hilarious mess of a Newlyweds Game that will have you laughing out loud! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Interviewing Two Ghosts

0:55 - Welcome To Andrew!

6:13 - Welcome To Alexe!

9:41 - Living In Chaos

11:54 - First Impressions

16:46 - Cultural Differences

18:49 - How They Complement Each Other

23:13 - Early Hurdle

24:45 - What They Fight About

32:02 - The Newlyweds Game

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It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Shandy is excited to be joined in-studio by Bailey Taylor Brown and Jeremy Simon from Season 10 of Bachelor In Paradise!

Today Jeremy and Bailey give us a peek into their relationship and how they navigated blowback from their Paradise season. We learn the ins and outs of their dynamic that you didn't see on TV, how they complement each other, and of course, how they fight! Finally, a nail-biter of a Newlyweds Game that will keep you guessing until the very end! Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome to Jeremy & Bailey!

1:21 - Living Together

5:30 - First Impressions

14:03 - Three Adjectives

22:16 - How Their Partner Is Different Than They Imagined For Themselves

23:42 - How Jeremy’s Mom Handled The Show

25:39 - Early Hurdle

30:01 - Navigating Blowback From The Season

38:15 - How They Fight

43:27 - Common Misconceptions

45:44 - Bailey’s True Thoughts On Jeremy’s Actions On BIP

52:05 - The Newlyweds Game

1:10:00 - Shandy Debrief

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Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the Finale and After The Final Rose for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping + Opening Thoughts

5:04 - Finale Kick Off

22:44 - Cindy Hot Seat

35:27 - Peg & Mel In Antigua

37:55 - Proposal

41:51 - After The Final Rose

45:21 - Taylor Frankie Paul

47:21 - Bloopers

48:01 - Overall Thoughts

51:20 - Shandy Word Watch

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Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Fantasy Suite week for ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:23 - Antigua

6:12 - Peg’s Overnight

18:34 - Cindy’s Overnight

34:47 - Episode MVP

35:19 - Andy’s A-Game

35:29 - Sharleen’s Best Dressed

36:01 - Shandy Word Watch!

37:32 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is thrilled to welcome Theresa Nist for an EXCLUSIVE in-studio conversation. You know Theresa as the winner of the mega-hit season 1 of The Golden Bachelor. She wound up engaged to Gerry Turner, their televised wedding was watched by millions, but they announced their divorce only 3 months later. What *really* happened behind the scenes, after the wedding, and after the cameras turned off?

In light of Gerry's new tell-all book describing his version of events, Theresa sits down with Shandy for her most raw, unfiltered interview to date. How did it feel for Theresa to learn that Gerry wondered if he should have chosen his runner-up, Leslie? Did she mislead Gerry about quitting her career, did she misrepresent her finances, and did she read "How To Win The Bachelor" during filming, as he claimed in the book? Did she really make Gerry sleep on the sofa?! Theresa is normally very private but could not stay silent in light of the book's many accusations. Do not miss her brutally honest account.

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- Love Fest: https://youtu.be/hWCr91mBGb0?si=LOOwxXqEToxIpIBY

- Golden Divorce: https://youtu.be/PyiFysUZJMc?si=OzqnEI2Ee4_gm8gS

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Theresa Nist

10:08 - Leslie

19:32 - Temper

22:22 - “East Coast Mentality”

27:44 - Finances, Her Work, The Prenup

42:18 - Lifestyle

45:00 - House Shopping

47:50 - Her Home

49:26 - Physical Intimacy

55:50 - Her Intentions

1:05:59 - Her Character

1:16:05 - Regrets

1:20:18 - Message To Gerry

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By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the Reunion!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:31 - Jordan & Megan

11:11 - Patrick & Kacie

19:32 - Joe & Madison

29:40 - Kait

34:41 - Nick & Annie

41:58 - Anton & Ali

51:47 - Edmond & KB

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Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down the WTA of ABC's The Golden Bachelor, Season 2!

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

0:42 - Women Tell All Kick Off

18:39 - Cheryl

20:33 - Debbie

21:34 - Mel Arrives

26:00 - Jared Fried

29:49 - Episode MVP

30:26 - Shandy’s Predictions

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Shandy is back with their world-famous reality TV recaps! Today they're breaking down Season 2, Episode 5 of ABC's The Golden Bachelor.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

2:47 - Episode 5 Kick Off

4:59 - Peg’s Hometown

12:50 - Debbie’s Hometown

20:37 - Cindy’s Hometown

31:33 - Rose Ceremony

36:59 - Episode MVP

37:11 - Andy’s A-Game

39:26 - Shandy’s Predictions

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By popular demand, Shandy is back to recapping Love Is Blind, Season 9! Today we're breaking down the finale, aka episode 12.

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Time Stamps:

0:00 - Housekeeping

1:21 - Anton & Ali

17:52 - Edmond & KB

35:52 - Jordan & Megan

46:23 - Shandy Word Watch

47:24 - Who We Would Go For

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