Decide Your Legacy

Ready to reclaim your power and supercharge your leadership? Don’t miss Episode 175 of the DYL Podcast, where host Adam Gragg gets real about the sneaky ways we give our power away to emotions, fears, and even the outcome of a lobster dinner! Adam breaks down the everyday traps—from that tough conversation you’re avoiding to letting a bad day hijack your mood—and hands you the keys to take your power back.

In this episode, you’ll discover:

• Why your thoughts, emotions, responses, and actions are the real game-changers
• How to stop ruminating and start acting with intention
• The simple daily habits that put you back in the driver’s seat of your life
• Strategies to face your fears, crush avoidance, and lead yourself (and others!) with confidence

Plus, you’ll laugh, learn, and walk away inspired to tackle whatever you might be giving your power to right now.

Listen now and discover the liberating truth: you get to decide your legacy, no one else!

Shatterproof Yourself: 7 Small Steps to a Giant Leap in Your Mental Health
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 "Face Fears, Teach Lessons"

05:09 "Beliefs, Power, and Choice"

08:17 "Managing Thoughts Through Positivity"

12:22 Cycle of Worry and Control

15:28 Facing Rejection and Self-Awareness

17:17 "Empower Your Mental Health"

22:12 "Preparing for Emotional Responses"

25:57 "Keep Commitments, No Excuses"

28:01 "Building Habits Through Routine"

29:44 "Insight vs Action: Take Risks"

Feeling rocked? Struggling with self-doubt? In Episode 174 of the DYL Podcast: Shatterproof Yourself with Seven Steps for Leaders to Rebuild Confidence When Life Knocks You Down, host Adam Gragg and his compelling co-hosts Sherman Orr and Kelsey Torkelson tackle the secrets of bouncing back from insecurity and regaining your confidence!

Uncover the seven action-packed steps to rebuild your mojo and become shatterproof, just like the multi-layered glass on a jet! From unleashing your vision to conquering your past, rewriting your perspective, practicing purposeful self-care, and forging rock-solid relationships, Adam and friends break down each tactic with practical stories, humor, and real-life vulnerability.

This episode is your invitation to face your fears, ditch perfectionism, and embrace radical authenticity. Whether you’re a leader at work, home, or just leading yourself, learn how to shift from stuck to unstoppable. Find out how to build your “monkey list,” why self-care sometimes means getting out of your own head, and why action—not just insight—is the game-changer for personal growth.

Ready to step into confidence and courage? Hit play and let DYL Podcast help you live a legacy worth remembering.

Shatterproof Yourself
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself
3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 Building Confidence with Expert Insights

04:45 Build Confidence Through Vision

07:00 "Roadmap to Success"

10:18 Self-Awareness Unlocks Personal Growth

13:34 "Know Your Worth, Be Shatterproof"

18:52 "Navigating Emotional Health Trailhead"

22:00 "Confidence Through Selfless Action"

23:06 "Cutting Distractions, Finding Balance"

26:10 "Overcome Insecurity Through Connection"

31:11 "Being There When Needed"

32:17 "Take Action, Build Confidence"

Unlock your leadership superpower in Episode 173 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they reveal the hidden magic of listening, yes, really listening. Discover why listening is not just a skill but your ultimate advantage in business, relationships, and life!

Are your fears and defenses getting in the way of real connection? Adam and Sherman pull back the curtain on how to get past surface-level chatter, tackle your inner critic, and forge deeper bonds at work and at home. Get ready for raw stories, laughter, and transformational insights that will have you tuned in and turning up your listening skills like never before.

Stop missing out on the breakthroughs waiting on the other side of silence. Hear how a single courageous conversation can spark growth, boost your confidence, and even turn bad news into new opportunities. Whether you’re leading a team, growing your business, or helping your family thrive, mastering the art of listening is your ticket to lasting impact.

Don’t just hear—listen, learn, and lead with purpose. Tune in now and start building the legacy you want to be remembered for!

Shatterproof Yourself eCourse
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 "Fear Undermines Effective Listening"

05:15 "Facing Fears for Confidence"

06:34 Dreading Asking for Help

12:38 "Deep Listening Uncovers Core Issues"

13:26 Facing Core Issues Through Listening

19:49 "Business Requires Trust and Revenue"

22:30 Mastering Sales Objections

24:07 Managing Defensive Supervisees Calmly

28:04 "Navigating Change and Connection"

30:22 "Boost Confidence, Master Listening"

Are your fears standing in the way of your greatness? It’s time to grow a pair and leap into courage with Episode 172 of the DYL Podcast! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle the real monsters under your bed—fear of flying, public speaking, awkward conversations, and everything in between.

Uncover the secrets of Exposure Therapy and discover why baby steps, bold moves, and even a brush with a tarantula can shatter the chains of anxiety. Laugh along as Adam and Sherman share hilarious (and sometimes harrowing) stories of personal growth, embarrassing moments, and surprising breakthroughs. You’ll hear real-life strategies to crush perfectionism, face discomfort head-on, and finally take action on that ONE thing holding you back.

Stop avoiding. Start deciding. Listen now to learn how to embrace your fears, ignore the voice of doubt, and walk away with a game plan for courageous leadership—whether you’re running a business, leading a team, or just conquering your next high school reunion.

It’s raw, it’s real, it’s wildly relatable. Hit play and decide your legacy today!

Shatterproof Yourself Course (Decide Your Legacy’s free course)
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 Critique of Mental Health Practices
05:48 Facing Fears for Mental Health
07:04 Recognizing and Overcoming Triggers
12:55 Tackling Leadership Fears Incrementally
16:15 Growth Through Intentional Listening
17:23 Step-by-Step Parachuting Preparation
21:42 "Overcoming Networking Anxiety"
25:14 Encouraging Willingness in Children
27:00 Facing Fears After Setbacks
30:23 "Effective Exposure Therapy Guidance"
36:15 "Overcoming Fear Imperfection"
37:54 Quick Reactions Hinder Transformation
42:31 Overcoming Fear Through Engagement
43:47 "Breakthrough Strategy for Team Meetings"
48:13 Take Action for Lasting Change

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Unlock the secrets of mastering your day with Episode 171 of the DYL Podcast—Time Management! Join host Adam Gragg and legacy coach Sherman Orr as they tackle one of life’s most precious gifts: your time. Are you tired of ending your days feeling frazzled, unproductive, or like you’re always running three meetings behind? This episode is your antidote!

Discover three powerful, actionable principles that set great leaders apart! Face the hard stuff, play the long game, and own your attention like it’s your superpower. With candid stories, playful banter, and wisdom born from real-life leadership, Adam and Sherman will show you how to turn time from your toughest enemy into your greatest ally.

Ready to kick procrastination to the curb, conquer your calendar, and feel the thrill of true accomplishment? Tune in and tap into strategies that make every minute count, so you can live your legacy, not leave it to chance.

Don’t let another moment slip away. Listen now and reclaim your most valuable resource!

Step into the world of courageous leadership with Episode 170 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast! Ever wondered what it’s like to lead the way when you’re the youngest person in the room? Host Adam Gragg, co-host Kelsey Torkelson, and special guest Tyler Higgins pull back the curtain on the real-life wins, wobbles, and wisdom of leading at any age, but especially your 20s and 30s.

From family businesses to boardroom breakthroughs, Tyler spills on balancing humility with confidence, conquering impostor syndrome, and discovering your unique strengths—even when the veterans joke they “changed your diapers.” Learn how to embrace fear, crush self-doubt, find mentors or become one! And why showing up, making mistakes, and building authentic connections are the superpowers every young—or young at heart—leader needs.

Unleash your potential, learn the secrets of self-auditing, and grab practical tips for finding your voice in a world that needs bold, fresh leadership now more than ever.

Ready to lead? Press play and get inspired to decide your legacy—no matter your age!

Shatterproof Yourself Course:
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 Young Leaders' Self-Doubt Challenges
05:58 Family Business Leadership Challenges
12:34 Harnessing Talents with Humility
20:52 Intentional Growth Through Mentorship
24:13 Internship Success Through Determination
27:01 Resilient Leadership Amid Resistance
32:17 "Embracing Spiritual and Personal Transformation"
37:26 Opportunities Grow with Leadership Visibility
46:47 "Secret to Success: Observe Others"
49:59 Focus on Progress, Not Problems
56:29 Estimating Challenges in Project Bidding
01:00:44 "Leadership Qualities Through Youth"

Unlock the secret sauce of true leadership with Episode 169 of the DYL Podcast: “Being Courageous as a Leader!” Join host Adam Gragg and his powerhouse guests, Kelsey Torkelson and legacy coach Sherman Orr, as they pull back the curtain on what it really takes to lead with courage, in business, at home, and everywhere in between.

Ready to kick fear to the curb? Discover why facing those internal dragons (think: fear of embarrassment, judgment, or failure) is the ultimate game-changer. Sherman gets real about his leap from priesthood to the world of coaching, while Adam shares his own brave moments, and blunders, that paved the way for authentic, gutsy leadership.

You’ll learn the three essential benefits of courageous leadership: say goodbye to anxiety, watch your relationships blossom, and crank up your confidence to new heights! Plus, get inspired with practical tips, daily habits, and stories that prove courage isn’t just for superheroes—it’s for everyone, including you.

Listen now and get ready to do the scary thing anyway. Your legacy, and your team, are waiting. Decide your legacy, starting today!

Shatterproof Yourself Course:
https://courses.decideyourlegacy.com/shatterproof-yourself

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

Unlock the hidden superpower every great leader needs, curiosity! In Episode 168 of the Decide Your Legacy Podcast, host Adam Gragg reveals how asking the right questions can instantly dissolve tension, spark meaningful connections, and propel your team toward real transformation.

Ever dreaded a tough conversation or felt anxious about feedback? Discover Adam’s game-changing strategy: swap confrontation for curiosity! Learn the art of open-ended, non-judgmental questions that inspire clarity and creativity, without being the “bad guy.” Whether you’re guiding a business or navigating holidays with relatives, Adam’s practical tips will help you lower anxiety, build trust, and bring out the best in others.

Ready to connect, create, and lead with heart? Hit play and get inspired to turn curious questions into courageous leadership. Your legacy starts with one question—will you ask it?

COURSES:
Shatterproof Yourself

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

CHAPTERS:
00:00 Title: "Impact of Great Leadership Questions"

05:08 "Transformative Power of Questions"

07:32 Nonjudgmental Inquiry for Clarity

11:57 Curious Leadership Through Questioning

14:12 Curious Conversations for Thanksgiving

16:54 Personal Growth and Life Assessment

23:13 Curiosity Reduces Anxiety, Deepens Connections

25:15 Action is Key to Transformation

Welcome to episode 167 of the Decide Your Legacy podcast, "All Leaders are Afraid, " In this powerful conversation, host Adam Gragg is joined by Tara Jost, owner at Higgins Group, and Kelsey Torkelson, brand relations director at Decide Your Legacy, to tackle a topic every leader faces but few openly discuss: fear. Adam opens up about his own insecurities and explains why vulnerability is not a sign of weakness, but a source of empowerment—especially for leaders.

Together, the trio explores how fear manifests in leadership, from avoiding tough conversations to the stress of making decisions that impact others' lives. You'll hear real stories about facing hard moments, why accountability matters at all levels, and how great leaders act despite their fears. Plus, they're sharing three practical tools you can use right away to identify, confront, and move through fear—whether you're leading a business, a family, or your own life.

If you've ever struggled with indecision, worried about letting others down, or wondered how to break through a paralyzing fear of failure, this episode is packed with candid insights and actionable advice to help you lead courageously.

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

COURSES:
Shatterproof Yourself 

CHAPTERS:
00:00 "Facing Fear Empowers Leadership"

03:13 Embracing Balance and Growth

07:42 Leaders' Universal Struggles and Fears

11:02 Solo Advocate for Accountability

13:10 Fear of Conversations and Isolation

19:17 Overpowering Fear as a Leader

20:44 Empowering Choices Over Negativity

25:31 "Effective Conversations Over Email Challenges"

28:20 Resistance to Change: Accountability Challenges

31:11 "Empowerment and Accountability Strategy"

34:25 Overcoming Fear with Accountability

37:24 Home Stress and Apology Modeling

41:05 "Conquer Fear with Commitment"

Tired of tiptoeing around drama at work, or at home? Unleash your authentic self and turn those “difficult” people into your greatest allies with Episode 166 of the DYL Podcast: “Be Yourself at Work.” Join legacy coach Adam Gragg and special guest Kelsey Torkelson as they crack the code on handling challenging relationships with empathy, humor, and wisdom.

Find out why being yourself is your ultimate superpower, learn three smart strategies to transform tense situations, and discover the surprising secret that will revolutionize your toughest conversations. Plus, get real-life stories, actionable tips, and just enough workplace mischief (fart machines and pool pranks included) to brighten your day.

Ready to lead with confidence, laugh more, and enjoy authentic connections at work and beyond? Hit play and decide your legacy today!

3 Foolproof Ways To Motivate Your Team: 3 Areas to Focus on as a Leader
https://decideyourlegacy.com/how-to-create-positive-productive-workplace/

7 Benefits of Being Courageous
https://decideyourlegacy.com/7-unexpected-benefits-to-facing-your-fears/

4 Ways You’re Demotivating Your Team: And What You Can Do About Each One
https://decideyourlegacy.com/5-things-that-make-work-suck/

10 Ways to Encourage People: How to Break The Invalidation Tendency
https://decideyourlegacy.com/one-big-relationship-mistake-most-people-make/

How to Make Good Decisions: 14 Tools for Making Tough Life Choices
https://decideyourlegacy.com/make-good-decisions-part-1/

00:00 "Handling Difficult People: Key Strategies"

05:51 Hope for Struggling Employees

07:08 "Value Beyond Money: Growth Mindset"

11:19 Channel Passion to Reduce Drama

15:45 Balancing Leadership and Personal Anxiety

17:16 "Illuminate Passions for Motivation"

20:33 "Overcoming Metric-Driven Hiring Mistakes"

24:37 Embracing Diverse Perspectives

27:42 Action Over Insight

COURSES:
Shatterproof Yourself