Decoding Divorce

In today's episode, we discuss the four main Automatic Temporary Restraining Orders (ATROS) that immediately affect you once you file for divorce.

These are not the type of restraining orders regarding domestic violence, but rather the restrictions associated with traveling out of state with your children and the money and credit available to you after your filing for divorce.

While they are put into place to keep both parties secure during the divorce, it is vitally important for you to prepare for these restrictions before you file and have a thorough understanding of how they impact your children, your finances, and your next steps.

If you want to master the terms and conditions that apply to your life once a divorce is filed, join the waitlist for Decoding Divorce Academy where you will receive-

• Reliable legal education

• Step-by-step instructionals on how to get your divorce started and completed

• A helpful and encouraging community so you can create your tribe while going through the changes of your divorce

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In today's episode, we address an important, yet often unexpected outcome of divorce.

While you may expect the loss of money or having to share your kids, you need to be prepared for the major impact that divorce has on your and your family's social life.

Our divorce coach, Zeppy Attashian discusses why this phenomenon occurs, as well as action steps that you can take to surround yourself with an understanding, knowledgeable, and supportive tribe as you navigate your divorce.

No matter what stage you are at in your divorce, a divorce coach can be your greatest asset for combating the loneliness and building your support system the right way.

We're ready when you're ready.

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In today's episode, our team at Decoding Divorce sheds some light on one of the most important, and often misinterpreted laws that impacts your divorce case- the law that governs when your divorce can be finalized.

As with most areas of the law, it is not always straightforward. We aim to prepare you with the knowledge of the law and the factors that are considered when determining the time it may take to complete your divorce.

We discuss how to have realistic expectations in regards to time, how to avoid frustration with the length of your case, and actionable steps to begin living your life during the in-between.

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You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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In today's episode, we define the single biggest obstacle that you face in your divorce - your own thoughts, fears, and beliefs.

The real truth is, these beliefs and fears are not grounded in any truth.

Our divorce coach, Zeppy Attashian does a deep dive into the limiting belief system that has been holding you back from moving forward on to your new and happier life.

We explore how consulting with a divorce coach is essential for teaching you how to put an end to your perceived limitations and set yourself up for success.

A well-vetted divorce coach will help you work through these emotions and faulty beliefs before you even step foot in an attorney's office, helping you feel prepared and confident as you embrace all your new life has to offer.

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You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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In all areas of the divorce process, knowledge and preparation are key.

But what is the most crucially important way you can prepare before you go to court?

You need to know your judge.

Learning ahead of time about the primary judge assigned to your case allows you to approach your case with confidence. You can be aware of how to best frame your negotiations based on previous patterns.

Join us today as we outline strategies for getting to know your judge and determine how he or she will influence your divorce.

You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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During the holiday season, going through a divorce can feel especially trying.

If you're in the throes of the divorce process during this time, you may be processing heavy emotions, learning to share your kids, and even spending time alone for the first time.

In today's episode, we give you insight into an invaluable concept for taking back your happiness and designing a life you're excited about.

Gratitude.

While it may seem a little repetitive or insensitive, scientific research has concluded that establishing a gratitude practice can get you through the holidays with your sanity intact.

Join us today to learn how to establish a consistent and helpful gratitude practice through your divorce.

Need some guidance in this area?

A Divorce Coach can help you escape the negative thought loops that are holding you hostage this holiday season.

You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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Is filing for a Child Support Order the best decision for you and your children?

Child Support is not a simple or straightforward area of the law.

Often, there are unintended financial and emotional ramifications when the household turns from child-focused to money-focused.

In today's episode, we will

• Give insight into the child support laws

• Shine the light on a few myths

• Discuss the five main considerations that determine what you may receive or have to pay

Join us on the podcast today so that you can start to figure out whether or not filing for child support is worth it for you.

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What is the biggest mistake you can make when going through a divorce?

Throwing in the towel...

Some individuals decide that the effort, the confusion, the difficult conversations, the negotiations to litigation, the delays... it's all simply not worth it. They just want their divorce and they want out no matter the cost.

And I see it often, especially during the emotional holiday season. Some people are willing to forgo all future security, just to find temporary relief when the going gets tough.

However, individuals who stay focused, in spite of hardship, often go on to live financially and emotionally secure, fulfilling lives after their divorce.

They don't let fear or difficult conversations hold them back from the life they deserve. They get through their divorce with their sanity intact, grateful that they put in the work.

They have resilience. They stay the course, no matter the obstacles.

Join us today as we discuss how to build your own resilience to help you stay dedicated to the process, and make the best decisions for yourself in your divorce.

We also discuss how a Divorce Coach can be a trusted partner who helps arm you with the tools and direction you need to find your inner strength as you step into your new life.

You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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Can you still get divorced if you have been separated for some time, but have no knowledge of your spouse's whereabouts and no way to contact him or her?

Yes, you absolutely can.

I have often encountered individuals who are misguided into thinking that they are stuck in their marriage, although separated because they cannot locate their spouse. They are afraid to begin their new lives, paralyzed, remaining married to an illusion.

Listen in today as we discuss the ways you can get divorced, even if your spouse is MIA. It is not a step-by-step process, but you do have options.

We are going to cover:

• Possible avenues for getting divorced that you may not be aware of

• Walkthrough of the forms and what they mean

• Actions to take

• Documentation that you will need to provide

You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.decodingdivorce.com/2 The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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We often encounter (and sometimes intentionally avoid) difficult conversations in our daily lives. However, when it comes to divorce, there is no way around it. You must have these conversations in order to come through to the other side with an agreement and a life with which you are content.

Whether you're discussing finances, who gets what, or parenting, all of these logistical, often uncomfortable or potentially explosive conversations are necessary to help you move forward.

Join us today as we talk about Jody Moore's seven steps to reign in your emotions, feel prepared, and tackle challenging discussions successfully.

If you embrace these conversations, you will master a skill that will serve you in every aspect of your life.

Need one-on-one support in preparing to address these topics with your soon-to-be-ex? We also chat about how our Divorce Coaches can help you set goals, manage emotions, and help you feel prepared every step of the way.

You can sign up for the Pre-Divorce Action Guide at www.DecodingDivorce.com/2. The action guide details the 15 things you must consider and do before filing for your divorce.

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