Ever feel like you're pouring from an empty cup? Well, same here, sis! In this episode, we're getting real about setting boundaries and reclaiming our energy. I dive into the rollercoaster of being the "older sister" at 29 when my 40 something year old half-sister should be stepping up. She was recently diagnosed with cancer yet, she keeps drinking, and doesn’t seem to care about her health—or about being the big sister I need. Plus, let’s talk about that dad drama where favoritism rears its ugly head until you finally say, “enough is enough!” Join me as I unpack the chaos, confront the guilt, and remind you (and me) that sometimes, doing your best means stepping back. You did your best, bitch—and that's enough.

Welcome back to another episode of DeFine Feminine! 

It's a new year so we're moving into a new age, new environments, perspectives, and a new found confidence. The chosen ones are going to feel this episode more than the regular degulars and that's okay, you can just take notes until you're ready to SHOW UP. Self love shouldn't be supressed to make others comfortable, and it's time to truly learn how to embrace the person you truly are without guilt or limitation. Let them look, let them talk, let them think whatever. Freedom is when you don't have to retract any aspect of self, and you deserve that shit. 

Thank you for listening to this episode, i hope this isn't the last and I look forward to sharing more rawthentic ways to define womenhood, in our next girl talk. 

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In today's episode of DeFine Feminine, I spoke with my special guest Saskia and we discussed our belief systems around death, modern relationships with our elders, partnership, and the life of being writers. In life, we are challenged by many things that we may never see coming, and death is one of them. Although we all know that it's apart of the circle of life, as humans we are attached to the spirit of those that we love because they're rare so it's okay to feel that way but it's also important to know our purpose. If you haven't already, study your life path to discover the deeper meaning for your presence here on earth. By doing this, it will give you a different perspective on what you you're sent here to do so that you're living out your purpose each day even if it's in tiny increments. 

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If it's one thing about me, I love a good holiday that makes you experimental because HALLOWEEN is finally here! Fear's and Phobias, is a quick series that I'll be hosting a few women that I've met recently on the Geneva App. If you haven't downloaded it as yet, you must. As many of us face different fears throughout our life, how often do we get asked what they actually are? Does it help? Maybe a little, but it's fun to unpack conversations that makes you a little squirmy. Sit back, relax and enjoy this episode featuring my special guest Daviuska, a graphic designer based in the east coast. Her amazing burst of energy was needed because this was recorded at 8am pre coffee me. Stay tuned for more of my beautiful guest as we uncover our fears and phobias.