Dementia Calling

We discuss the time period prior to our mother's dementia diagnosis. We chose denial even though the signs were all there. Hear about the “Polar Bear” Brigade and the “New Couch Incident.” Lori shares her recent visit to the Memory Care facility and her Cocktail Rating.  Donna will share a recent find she discovered

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Lori and Donna talk about the early signs of dementia they noticed with their mother. They concluded it was simply “old age” but could they have been denying what was really happening?  They discuss the major fall their mother had, her odd behavior at a Christmas dinner, and her sudden cancellation of travel plans. Lori gives her cocktail rating on a recent visit with her mom, then tells us about a "fidgeting" product she recommends for dementia patients.   

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We will finish up with our mother’s history, covering the mid 1970’s to 2010.  We answer the question: Did they live happily ever after?  Later, Lori will update us on how Mom faired through the holidays at the Memory Care facility.  Both Donna and Lori will talk about the Christmas present they got for her, and the very special gift Lori’s daughter Grace and her grandmother made for the whole family. Donna will tell us about a card game they play with mom.   

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This episode is a Doozie. Lori and I go back in time when our father chose to have an affair. Not only did this affect our lives, but sadly, our mother’s as well. Evidence of this showed up prominently in her dementia. This left her sad, angry, and insecure.  Later in the show, Lori will be updating us on Mom’s birthday celebration at the Memory Care facility.  Donna then shares a tip and product review of a digital clock that Lori said our mom, may or may not have used (but our father did). 

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We continue our search for clues to unravel our mom’s mind. In this episode we talk about her teen years, how she met our father, their marriage, and the early years of parenting two sets of twins. Did any of that affect her dementia?     

Some of the questions we will discuss are: Why was our mother attracted to our father? Did our Dad pressured Mom to quit college and marry him?  What did Mother’s quiet, upper-class family think of our loud, bad-boy (but lovable) Dad? Were they were truly happy in the first years?  How did having twins affect them? How did having two sets of twins affect them? What was our early family life like?     

Lori’s visit with Mom at the Memory Care facility this week and resulting Cocktail Rating

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For questions to ask the elderly: 

https://www.joincake.com/blog/questions-to-ask-old-people/

https://respectcaregivers.org/70-questions-to-ask-the-elderly/

https://www.aplaceformom.com/caregiver-resources/articles/engaging-questions

https://multiculturalcaregiving.net/conversation-starters-with-older-adults/

https://www.alzheimerslab.com/questions-to-ask-older-adults-about-life/

https://questionsabouteverything.com/questions-to-ask-old-people/

In this podcast we talk about the “Silent Generation”  The generation in which our parents grew up.  We believe we have to sort through the dynamics of our parent’s  generation to attempt to decipher our parents mind set in our attempt to understand the decisions they made in their lives.  We will also look at the family my mom grew up in to see if there are any clues to unraveling our mom’s mind and if they still effect her today.     

Some of the questions we will discuss are: What is the Silent Generation? What were the effects it had on our mother growing up?  Did the Depression and War have an effect on her relationship she had with her parents? Did being an only child have it’s effects too? Being raised by older parents?

Lori’s visit with mom this week” and her Cocktail rating

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Donna and Lori share feelings they had after  learning their mother was diagnosed with dementia. In this episode, get to know these twin sisters as they share family background and dynamics as well as brief history of their mother.   

Welcome to Dementia Calling a new podcast where two daughters talk about their journey with their mother’s dementia.

When Shari was diagnosed with dementia, her daughters, Lori and Donna found themselves in a new situation. No one is prepared for this to happen in their family, it just happens and the children have no choice but to navigate the outcome.

In early stages, one daughter and her family moved in with her (and father). The other daughter had to take over all financial dealings. Fortunately, they had the support of their brothers.

After a year, dementia advanced and Shari declined, so help was brought into the house. Only a few months after that, Shari declined to a state at which she needed an Assisted Living facility. Thankfully it was close to her house. Each step came with their own difficulties and education.

Lori and Donna want to share their journey with you and hope you will join them through this process. They also, would like to hear from others going through this. They hope this podcast serves as a  support group - learning from each other and providing suggestions, hints, and hacks of better dealing with dementia.

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