Colossians 1. The church is often criticized for its lack of love shown toward each other. Being born again through faith, you are born into a new family whether you choose to acknowledge them or not. As family, we have a responsibility toward each other. A church membership is a covenant commitment to this certain group. What is biblical love? A commitment to someone else. Love is not about feelings or your needs being met. You can love someone mean and hateful. We make a commitment to accumulate material things and love the world instead of God. Jesus said, if you love your earthly family more than Me, you are not worthy of Me. The five love languages are based on affection rather than biblical love. You can love when there is no affection. Love is thankfulness, obedience, dependability, service, and sacrifice. God loved us first. He gave His son to die for us.