Difficult-ish

this long overdue and much needed episode on the topic of colorism is finally here! first off, we talk about the roots of anti blackness and where colorism comes from during colonial times and why lighter skin is favored in so many different cultures. after, we talk about our own experiences with colorism, from male and female standpoints, and how it affected our self esteems. whether it be casually growing up with bleaching creams like fair and lovely or getting told that you shouldn't go out in the sun because you'll get dark, we're sure you can, unfortunately, relate to some part of the episode. we hope you like this one!

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mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/

mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

"well if your house is so toxic, why don't you move out?" well susan, we can't just simply do that. in this week's episode, we talk about how difficult it is to have mental peace or be productive in a toxic south asian household and some of the small practices we've implemented to improve our mental well being. whether it be going to a coffee shop to be productive and be away from home for a few hours or having a good friend group that you can vent to, we have it all. we hope it helps and u enjoy!

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

2nd guest of the year already?? we're on a roll all thanks to the wonderful radhia rahman (she/they), a queer bengali-american illustrator based out of nyc. after getting her bfa in illustration, they've gone on to build their own eco-friendly small business, patreon, and youtube, and worked alongside notable names like buzzfeed, skullcandy, and adult swim. with them being an avid listener of difficult-ish themself, we were all collectively thrilled to sit down and have a conversation on topics that we've been looking to have on the pod for awhile now.  

radhia's story is an incredibly relatable one, but still so undiscussed within the south asian community. taking a risk and attending art school to become an illustrator while questioning their placement in society's constructs, they've come to grow an incredible following on social media based around her artwork, love for colors and cats, and strong voice on topics like intersectionality, queerness in the south asian community, sustainability, and the journey one takes to find themself.

listen now or else

find radhia here:

instagram: https://www.instagram.com/knivesmeow/

patreon: https://www.patreon.com/radhiarahman

shop: https://www.radhiarahman.com/shop

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

social anxiety is common in south asian kids and children of immigrants, but obviously everyone. it stems from being discouraged from socializing when you're younger, only having a formal relationship with parents where it's seen as disrespectful to answer back casually, and so much more. so in this episode, we talk about our experience with social anxiety, how it might've heightened now that we're older and how the signs manifest, where it stems from, and our tips on overcoming this anxiety. hope u like this one!

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

hello hello coming to you live after our sold out nyc showcase!!! to celebrate a successful past weekend, we dedicated this episode to talk bout our love for reading, literary arts, and share our favorite novels/poetry books by south asian authors. mohuya is definitely the reader between the two of us, she has so much to share in this episode, and much more across all her platforms! 

we talk our families' relationship with reading and literature, how reading has helped us see difficult situations with a new perspective, and talk our fav collections, starting with south asian authors, but quickly expanding upon that to all poc authors, including:

'prayers of my youth' by f.s. yousaf, 'the kite runner' by khaled hosseini, 'joy luck club' by amy tan

and sooooo many more! listen now <3

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

we wanted to do a full fledge episode on some of the red flags we've encountered when it comes to dating south asians, and honestly, just people in general. the red flags range taking every simple disagreement with you and putting it into the girls group chat to fully dictating how you dress or act and being mamas boys. go get some popcorn and listen up because this ones gonna be a HARD RELATE. 

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

FIRST GUEST EPISODE OF 2023!! we are so excited for you all to hear our conversation with Nuhash Humayun (@nuhashh), an Oscar nominated Bangladeshi film director, most notable for his critically acclaimed short film ‘Moshari’. on top of the numerous awards and accolades he’s received, he’s recently brought on Jordan Peele and Riz Ahmed as executive producers for his film!!!! 

through our conversations with him, he talks about the journey to becoming a film director, the imposter syndrome that lies with it, the power and also horror of being the "first" to do something from your country, how he uses his identity as a superpower instead of a crutch, and so much more. this is such a genuine conversation that most importantly begins and ends with Mashnun and Nuhash normalizing clogged ear irrigations 

we loved recording this so we hope you enjoy! <3

nuhash's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nuhashh/?hl=en 

watch "Moshari" here: https://vimeo.com/759653578 

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our instagram: https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/ 

mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/ 

mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

happy new year!!!!!!! we're kicking off 2023 with a bang with a lil q+a. we discuss some personal questions about ourselves, but also red flags to look out for in relationships, how to be comfortable doing something new alone, our fav south asian books and media in general, how it was starting the podcast and how we did it, and so much more. enjoy!! :)

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

last ep of 2022!! in this one, we start of rating our 2022's from 1-10, talk bout our highlights like graduating, solo traveling, and finding inner peace, talk bout some goals we had that we just couldn't reach, and what we're most excited bout for the new year :) thank u to everyone tuning into the pod every week and showering us with so many words of affirmation, this one is especially for u <3 

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mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/

it is almost 2023 and we have gained a lot of wisdom and knowledge over the past year! in this episode, we are basically talking to our "12 months ago" selves and giving them our best advice. a lot of these things are related to being south asian children of immigrants so we hope it resonates with some you. enjoy our second to last episode of 2022! 

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our instagram: https://www.instagram.com/difficultish/

mohuya's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/labyrinthave/

mashnun's instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mashnunmunir/