DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 35

GUEST HOSTS: Keish - @keisha_cc & Jaime - @JaimeLuz Divina (FBHandle)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Does love distract you from your goals?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Phlegmatic - Having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition.

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: "Patrick’s phlegmatic temperament means he doesn’t anger easily."

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Bennies – Mediterranean restaurant

54 E Palisade Ave

Englewood, NJ 07631

(201) 894-5700

IG Info: @englewoodbennies

Website: benniesofenglewood.com

BIO: Owner - Addy

Established in 1969, Bennies is a Mediterranean restaurant based in Englewood, New Jersey. From a small, peaceful village in the mountains of Lebanon to the pulsating New York City streets, Bennies Restaurant has created a haven of healthy, pure, genuine home cooking for all of those that have been fortunate enough to experience it.

As all of its loyal customers can attest, it is an addiction, but one that is truly beneficial to your health, a modern day fountain of youth. Bennies is not just food, it is an experience, and its history lies within the one family that holds it all together.

DISHES:

Chicken Shwarma Wrap – Tomatoes, Pickles, Onions, Garlic spread & Tahini Sauce

Ahi Tuna Wrap – Seared Ahi Tuna, Fresh Spinach, Avocado and Wasabi Mayonnaise

Hummus

Babagnoug – Smoked Eggplant dip

Tabouli – Parsley Salad with Tomato, Onion, Bulgur, Lemon and Olive Oil

Grilled Eggplant

Roasted Cauliflower

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Does love distracts you from your goals?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Phlegmatic - Having an unemotional and stolidly calm disposition.

SCRIPTURE:

Luke 9:62, TLB Anyone who lets himself be distracted from the work I plan for him is not fit for the kingdom of God.

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 34

GUEST HOSTS: Keish - @keisha_cc & Jaime - @JaimeLuz Divina (FBHandle)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Addiction

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Addiction (adjective) the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: He committed the theft to finance his drug addiction.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Foodies Diner

582 Huyler St.

South Hackensack, NJ 07606

(201) 440-1116

IG Info: @foodies_southhackensack

Website: https://foodiesnj.com

BIO:

Foodies owners, Teddy and Maria Sakellaris opened Foodies with the mindset that you can’t live a full life on an empty stomach. Their goal is to provide a comfortable and welcoming atmosphere to each guest, serve fresh and delicious food, and offer outstanding service to everyone who walks through the door. They have over a decade’s worth of experience in the restaurant industry, owning the Maple Valley Diner in Clifton, and previously the Hawthorne Diner.

They are opened every day from 7am-3pm for breakfast, brunch, and lunch and have a large menu that can accommodate even the pickiest of eaters. The menu can be found on www.foodiesnj.com and you can place an order for delivery through the website. Foodies is located on Huyler Street, adjacent to the South Hackensack post office and across from the Teterboro airport. Make your way over to Foodies for a a great meal any day of the week!

DISHES:

1. Pumpkin praline soufflé

2. Funfetti banana pudding

3. Fall Harvest apple and walnut salad

4. Belgian waffle with fresh fruit

5. Memphis Burger with fries

6. Foodies club wrap with onion rings.

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Addiction

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Addiction (adjective) the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.

STATS:

Among Americans aged 12 years and older, 31.9 million are current illegal drug users (used within the last 30 days).

- 11.7% of Americans 12 and over use illegal drugs.

- 53 million or 19.4% of people 12 and over have used illegal drugs or misused prescription drugs within the last year.

- If alcohol and tobacco are included, 165 million or 60.2% or of Americans aged 12 years or older currently abuse drugs (i.e., used within the last 30 days).

- 14.8million Americans 12 and over drink alcohol.

- 14.8 million or 10.6% of them have an alcohol use disorder.

31.9 million people use tobacco.

- 31.9 million use illegal drugs.

- 8.1 million of 25.4% of illegal drug users have a drug disorder.

- 2 million people or 24.7% of those with drug disorders have an opioid disorder; this includes prescription pain relievers or “pain killers” and heroin).

SCRIPTURE:

James 5:15-16

And the prayer offered in faith will make the sick person well; the Lord will raise them up. If they have sinned, they will be forgiven. Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 33

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Amber @bfitnfocused_amb - IG )

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Have you ever had a bad experience dating someone with kids?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Nothingburger - Something that is or turns out to be insignificant or lacking in subtsance

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: The meeting of world leaders turned out to be a big nothingburger

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Blue Moon Mexican Cafe

23 E Palisade Ave.

Englewood, NJ 07631

https://www.bluemoonmexicancafe.com/

@bluemoonmexcafe- IG )

BIO:

Owner: Howie

Life is a fiesta! This is the philosophy of the people who operate the extraordinarily popular Blue Moon Mexican Café. The folks at Blue Moon have been spreading that "fiesta feeling" and a lot of great Mexican food in Englewood and throughout North Jersey and beyond for more than 20 years.

The real secret to this restaurant's success is the food. The fajitas and guacamole are just great, but the most popular item on the menu might be the Fajita Moon, which is marinated grilled strips of steak with sautéed peppers and onions, sliced avocado, refried beans and Mexican rice all wrapped in a flour tortilla then smothered in melted cheese served with pico de gallo and jalapenos. The best value on the Blue Moon menu is the Nachos & Sangria, which includes enough homemade tortilla chips tossed with melted cheese, salsa, jalapenos, refried beans, guacamole and sour cream to allow you to enjoy the Blue Moon experience on a budget.

Blue Moon Mexican Café, established in 1987 is where Life is a Fiesta Every Day. Each location has its own unique ambiance offering authentic and eclectic Mexican cuisine sourced from top quality vendors and farmers using the freshest ingredients in the 90% scratch kitchen. Blue Moon is known for their special events, live music, daily specials and Each location offers Delivery & Pick Up, Children’s Menu, Private Rooms for Events and Celebrations and Off Premise Catering. For Menus to order online, Weekly Events and Live Entertainment updates visit bluemoonmexicancafe.com or download the bluemoonmexicancafe app at ITunes. Life is a fiesta every day…Eat it Up!

DISHES:

Guacamole and Chips

Steak Fajitas - skirt steak fajitas served with sautéed peppers and onions, sour cream, guacamole, Mexican rice, refried beans and flour tortillas.

Smokey the Bearrito - our famous giant burrito made with bbq chicken, refried beans, Mexican rice, and smoked gouda cheese, wrapped in a flour torilla

Brisket Tacos - ancho brisket, chopped radishes, cilantro and queso fresco served in white corn tortillas

Red Sangria and House Margarita - enjoy !!

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Have you ever had a bad experience dating someone with kids?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION Nothingburger - Something that is or turns out to be insignificant or lacking in subtsance.

STATS:

How much time do they have to spend on a relationship?

What’s the situation with the other parent?

What are their concerns when it comes to dating?

What type of boundaries will they put in place?

SCRIPTURE:

Proverbs 22:6

Train up a child in the way he should go,

Even when he is old he will not depart from it.

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 32

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Amber @bfitnfocused_amb - IG )

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: If you could call yourself 5 years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Wanton - a lewd or immoral person

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: He loved the way she could be wanton and sensual one minute, then bashful and demure the next.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Amber “Juice Girl” Dickson

@bfitnfocused_amb - IG )

BIO:

Owners: Lisa McFarland & Bobby Digi

Amber “Juice Girl” Dickson

DISHES: TBD

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: If you could call yourself 5 years ago and had 30 seconds, what would you say?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION Wanton - a lewd or immoral person

SCRIPTURE:

1 CORINTHIANS 13:11

When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man/woman, I put away childish things.

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 31

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Serena @serenaytg - IG )

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What are some deep meaningful conversations to have on a 1st date?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Erroneous - (adjective) containing error; mistaken; incorrect; wrong:

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

O’Henry’s Publick House

10 Minthorne St,

Staten Island, NY 10301

(718) 442-6200

https://ohenryspub.com/

IG: @ohenryspub

BIO:

Owners: Lisa McFarland & Bobby Digi

O’Henry’s Publick House Is a British Style Pub/Restaurant that brings the old-fashioned charm of classic British comfort foods paired with a premium selection of wines, spirits and seasonal craft beers along with traditional favorites. They opened in January of 2020, 6 weeks before the pandemic hit. They are located at 10 Minthorne St., Staten Island, NY 10301. It was a project that was in the works for several years. O'Henry's is the only British pub on Staten Island. They wanted to do something completely different. Bobby lived in England and Lisa’s grandmother was from England, so it made sense to choose this theme and incorporate what they know and pay tribute to their roots. They took their time to do it right. There bar has a story, if it could talk the stories it could tell. They have also teamed up with other restaurants and have donated a portion of their sales to the Tunnel to Towers Foundation for the 9/11 fund. At the holidays They collect toys for Toys for Tots. Giving back and helping others is extremely important. O'Henry's come from very humble beginnings and even though they have been struggling throughout this pandemic it is still very important to help others that may not have a support system or have fallen on tougher times.

DISHES: Fish and Chips, Wings with the different sauces on the side,

Portobello burger without the egg; and Lemon Cake.

O'Henry's Publik House is currently working on more vegetarian vegan options and expanding there menu. The portobello burger is made on the left side of the grill where they don't cook meat. If someone is Vegan O'Henry's tries to be accommodating by changing the bun or cooking on a separate part of the grill. The same with Celiac. The grill is free from any bread so that food is safe.

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: What are some deep meaningful conversations to have on a 1st date?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Erroneous - (adjective) containing error; mistaken; incorrect; wrong:

SOURCE:

5 things research says you should talk about

https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2013/08/first-date-conversation/

1) Talk Travel, Not Movies

In a study by Richard Wiseman, less than 9% of couples that talked movies wanted a second date vs 18% of couples that talked about travel.

2) It’s Not Just What You Talk About, It’s How You Talk

Add to what they say and bounce the ball back.

Avoid extremes in autonomy. Don’t dominate, but don’t be a non-contributor either.

3) Share Secrets

Emotional, personal information exchange during first date conversation promotes powerful feelings of connection.

4) Choose Controversial Over Dull Every Time

5) Looking To Get Lucky?

Dating site OkCupid found one question that was the single best predictor of whether men or women would have sex on the first date:

“Do you like the taste of beer?”

Among all our casual topics, whether someone likes the taste of beer is the single best predictor of if he or she has sex on the first date… No matter their gender or orientation, beer-lovers are 60% more likely to be okay with sleeping with someone they’ve just met. Sadly, this is the only question with a meaningful correlation for women.

SCRIPTURE:

Ephesians 4: 2

"Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love."

#Dating #NadivaShow #Interview #LiveShow #Motivational

DINING WITH NADIVA Ep. 30

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Serena @serenaytg - IG )

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Diva Encounters that lead into sowing seeds into Sisterhood?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Fervent - (adjective) having or displaying a passionate intensity.

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: If you have a fervent desire to become an actress, you'll stop at nothing to realize your dream.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Blended Ice Cream

291 Main St

Hackensack, NJ 07601

(201) 375-6999

https://www.blendidicecream.com/

IG: @blendidicecream

BIO:

Tamika - Owner

Out with the old, in with the new! That’s the concept behind Blendid Rolled Ice Cream. They want to add a modern-day twist on the traditional scooped ice cream. Blendid provides personalized, freshly-made rolled ice cream created right in front of your eyes. Not sure what you want? Don’t worry, try some of their amazing signature items. With their Ice Cream’s splendid taste and grandiose presentation, Blendid Rolled Ice Cream is here to stay and here to grow. As a brand new store in Hackensack, NJ, Blendid is dedicated to becoming a staple in the community and the go-to spot for families.

DISHES: Vegan Mint Condition; Strawberry Shortcake; Cinnamon Swirl

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Diva Encounters that lead into sowing seeds into Sisterhood?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Fervent - (adjective) having or displaying a passionate intensity.

SOURCE:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/shelleyzalis/2019/03/06/power-of-the-pack-women-who-support-women-are-more-successful/?sh=5acbaa811771

New research in the Harvard Business Review finds that while both men and women benefit from having a network of well-connected peers across different groups, women who also have an inner circle of close female contacts are more likely to land executive positions with greater authority and higher pay. The reason? Women trying to rise up into leadership face cultural and systemic hurdles that make it harder for them to advance, such as unconscious bias. The study suggests that a way to overcome some of these hurdles is to form close connections with other women, who can share experiences from women who have been there, done that—from how to ask for what you’re worth to bring your unique talents to leadership.

SCRIPTURE:

2 Corinthians 9:10

Now He who supplies seed to the sower and bread for food will supply and multiply your seed for sowing and increase the harvest of your righteousness;

#sisterhood #NadivaShow #Motivation #Interview

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 29

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Keisha)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Intentional Dating

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Lugubrious1. (adjective) mournful, dismal, or gloomy, especially in an affected, exaggerated, or unrelieved manner

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: This lugubrious work of art was set up in white marble after his death in St Paul's cathedral, where it may still be seen.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Cookies by Design

125 N Dean St, Englewood, NJ 07631

(201) 567-1206

Email: www.cookiesbydesign.com

BIO: Joe and Donna Cheringal (pronounced, Sure-ring-gull)

The company is Cookies by Design- the original cookie bouquet company. They offer fully customizable cookies and treats for delivery. There are over 60 locations in North America.

They service the Western areas of Manhattan, Staten Island, and Brooklyn, along with northern NJ and a portion of central NJ.

Cookies By Designs location has been a part of the Englewood neighborhood for almost 30 years.

Joe and Donna Cheringal (pronounced, Sure-ring-gull) are relatively new owners, who are coming up on 3 yrs in the business. Joe is the owner-operator. Joe has an extensive finance and sales background working in corporate America.

After many years in the office, he decided to step out of his comfort zone and take on the challenge of something hands-on that he can grow and mold with his own visions.

"We have a very dedicated staff who are very talented. We are beyond lucky to have them and they make every day a joy to come to work."

We hope you love our treats and give us a thumbs up!!

Thank you for the opportunity!!"

COOKIES: Cookie Assortment

Chocolate Cookie; Dolce Con Leche; Red Velvet; Oreo; Peanut Butter Oatmeal Raisin Double Chocolate; Billionaire (Oatmeal, walnuts and Black & White Chocolate chips)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Intentional Dating

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Lugubrious1. (adjective) mournful, dismal, or gloomy, especially in an affected, exaggerated, or unrelieved manner

STATS:

https://www.yahoo.com/now/intentional-dating-post-pandemic-relationship

In a non-scientific poll of some of our single friends, it seems that folks are more than ready to be more intentional about dating. Allie, 30, says, “I’ve been tired of the endless ‘swipe, go on one or two dates, repeat’ cycle that’s been happening for the past few years. I’m not necessarily more interested in being in a relationship than I was before, but I’m definitely more into the idea of being more intentional about how I date.” For her part, Elle, 37, who got out of a relationship just before the pandemic started, notes, “I’m actually super excited to hear about this trend. I only have so many surface-level ‘do you have any siblings’ drink dates left in me.” Hear, hear, sister.

SCRIPTURE:

Ecclesiastes 4:9-12

New International Version

9 Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: 10 If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.

#Nadiva #Show #NadivaShow #Dating #InternationaldDating

DINING WITH NADIVA - Ep. 28

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Keisha)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: How to quiet the "cries of Culture" to hear the "Whispers of the Holy

Spirit?"

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Extol1. 1. (adjective) to praise highly; laud; eulogize

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: During the church service, the minister went out of his way to extol the

contributions of the children’s youth choir.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Red, White and Pasta

21 E Palisade Ave,

Englewood, NJ 07631

(201) 731-3223

IG Info: @redwhiteandpasta

BIO: Kevin Graynor / Owner

Kevin, the owner of Red White and Pasta, is a family style restaurant in Englewood, NJ. Kevin has been

in the restaurant business for nearly 30 years and it was always a dream of his to open his own place, where people could feel comfortable and "at home" in a neighborhood restaurant. Kevin poured his life

savings into making this dream a reality 3 1/2 years ago. The first few years brought much success until that dreadful day of March 16, 2020, when his life and the lives of his employees changed forever. On

March 27, 2020, Kevin started to feel symptoms of COVID and by March 29 he was hospitalized for the next 3 months and graciously recovered.

During the early part of this pandemic, Kevin made the decision to keep all his employees as long as he could until money and/or funding ran out. The employees are the heart and soul of the restaurant. Most

of them have been with Kevin for 10+ years, during his other business ventures.

In August 2020, Sarah Wallace from Channel 4 News did a story on Kevin's restaurant Red, White &Pasta.

On November 17, 2020, Kevin started to feel sick again and a few days later was back in the hospital with COVID for the SECOND time. On December 20, 2020, Kevin returned to work with full antibodies. "I

feel that my restaurant, the employees, and my family, (Kevin has a wife and two children), deserve a second chance to come back to the glory days. We are an affordable family-style Italian restaurant that

is vital to not only the community but also my employees, who have been very loyal to me.

DISHES:

Tri Colore Pear and Apple Salad+

Arugula, sliced apple and pear, cranberry walnut, crumbled blue cheese, honey balsamic vinaigrette.

Spaghetti and Grandma's Meatballs

+Traditional Sunday gravy.

Scallop Prado

Pan-seared, over homemade Fettucine in a garlic sauce with scallions

Filet of Sole Francese - Over homemade fettucine

Jumbo Stuffed Shrimp w/ Crabmeat

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: How to quiet the "cries of Culture" to hear the "Whispers of the Holy

Spirit?"

SCRIPTURE:

John 16:13 ESV

When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all the truth, for he will not speak on his

authority, but whatever he hears he will speak, and he will declare to you the things that are to come.

#Nadiva #Show #Dining #CriesCulture

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 27

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Keisha)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Can married Christians make love off of Christian Music?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Timorous1. Adjective - Suffering from fear; timid

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: She was very timorous about swimming until she mastered holding her breath.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Baumgart's Englewood

45 E. Palisade Ave,

Englewood, NJ 07631

(201) 569-6267

https://baumgartsenglewoodcafe.com/

IG: @baumgartsenglewood

Order: chownow.com, postmates.com, grubhub.com, seamless.com, ubereats.com

Email: [email protected]

IG: @divine_catering_queen_llc

BIO:

Opened in 1947. New Ownership in 1987

Manager: Alfred

Specialty: Asian & American Cuisine; Sushi; American Menu; Homemade Ice Cream

DISHES: Sushi: Tiger Roll - Tuna, yellowtail, salmon avocado, caviar crunch wrapped with white seaweed and topped

with salmon roe.

Sesame Chicken w/ white Rice

Strawberry and Espresso Milk Shake

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Can married Christians make love off of Christian Music?

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Timorous1. Adjective - Suffering from fear; timid

SCRIPTURE:

Song of Songs 7:4-8

Your neck is like a tower of ivory,your eyes like pools in Heshbon by the gate of Bath-rabbim.Your nose is like the tower of Lebanon looking toward Damascus. 5 Your head crowns you like Mount Carmel, the hair of your head like purple cloth—a king could be held captive in your tresses. 6 How beautiful you are and how pleasant, my love, with such delights! 7 Your stature is like a palm tree; your breasts are clusters of fruit. 8 I said, “I will climb the palm tree and take hold of its fruit.” May your breasts be like clusters of grapes, and the fragrance of your breath like apricots.

DINING WITH NADIVA

Ep. 26

GUEST HOSTS: Antonia (Antham Speaks & Keisha)

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Dating in the Faith - Dating "your" way vs. God's way

WORD OF THE DAY / DEFINITION: Quiddity1. The essence of something or someone; a distinctive feature

Pronunciation: /kwi·duh·tee/

History: From Latin quid ‘what’.

EXAMPLE SENTENCE: 1: He had to understand the Quiddity of each exercise before implementing them.

FEATURED RESTAURANT:

Divine Catering Queen

Owner/Founder: Sadora Joseph

(908) 543-4275

Email: [email protected]

IG: @divine_catering_queen_llc

BIO: Sadora Joseph/ Founder

Divine Catering Queen was founded by Sadora Joseph of Westfield NJ. Raised in the house by a single mother who had to put in those hours to take care of home. Sadora at the age of 10 had to get in that kitchen to cook for the family.

Her passion comes from being a mother, and now a wife, seeing the look on her family's faces and other people's faces when that fork enters their mouths. That just brings joy to her heart.. Sadora started her catering business because she wanted people to enjoy real food.. home cooked food, that makes them feel as if they were at Grandma's... Sadora hopes one day her food will enter the mouths of millions of people and they love the comfort and taste of the food.

DISHES: Loaded Potatoes

Chicken; Steak and Shrimp

DIVA’S TABLE TOPIC: Dating in the Faith - Dating "your" way vs. God's way

WORD OF THE DAY: Quiddity 1.

DEFINITION: Quiddity 1. The essence of something or someone; a distinctive feature

STATS:

www.boundless.org

Basically, we can make three general statements about modern dating vs. biblical dating in terms of their respective philosophies:

Modern dating seems to be about “finding” the right person for me biblical dating is more about “being” the right person to serve my future spouse’s needs and be a God-glorifying husband or wife.

(Reference:Michael Lawrence has written on this site, “Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend“);

In modern dating, intimacy precedes commitment. In biblical dating, commitment precedes intimacy.

The modern dating approach tells us that the way to figure out whether I want to marry someone is to act like we are married. If we like it, we make it official. If we don’t, then we go through something emotionally — and probably physically — like a divorce. In biblical dating, Scripture guides us as to how to find a mate and marry, and the Bible teaches, among other things, that we should act in such a way so as not to imply a marriage-level commitment until that commitment exists before the Lord.

SCRIPTURE:

Timothy 2:22

22 So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.