Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor

In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, divorce mediation. In part one of this five-part special series, Inside Divorce Mediation, Attorney Victor explores the psychology of settlement. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses the battle between emotion and logic and why people resist settlement. Additionally, he provides tips for breaking through resistance and explains how attorneys can help clients prepare for mediation. Attorney Victor provides a real-life example from inside the mediation room. 

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody and divorce matters; specifically, the mediation mistakes you don’t know you are making. He explains the process of divorce and custody mediation.  Additionally, Attorney Victor provides insight into the subtle missteps that can derail your mediation session. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses 7 mistakes that are most common when preparing for and attending a divorce and or child custody mediation session. Additionally, he provides tips to help you avoid making those mistakes. This discussion focuses on the importance of preparing for a divorce or child custody mediation session.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
 The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses divorce matters; specifically, the importance of divorce mediation and how to prepare emotionally and strategically for divorce mediation. He explains why preparation for mediation matters. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides insight into the specific considerations for knowing priorities, gathering information, thinking in terms of solutions, and planning for the practical logistics regarding divorce mediation. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses five aspects of emotional preparation for divorce mediation. Additionally, he talks about the intersection of strategy and emotion. This discussion includes tips for making divorce mediation successful. 

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, what really matters to judges in custody cases. He explains the concept of best interests of the child.  Additionally, Attorney Victor provides insight into the specific considerations for judges regarding the best interests of the child standard. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses five aspects judges pay close attention to when making custody decisions. Additionally, he talks about common misconceptions parents make in custody cases. This discussion includes tips for parents when preparing for custody decisions. 

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.

The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, the common mistakes parents make in custody cases. He explains how to avoid making these common mistakes.  Additionally, Attorney Victor provides strategies to stay child focused. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses how to focus on the best interests of your child and be prepared for their custody mediation session. Additionally, he talks about how parents should cooperate with each other. This discussion includes specific mistakes seen by family court judges and mediators on a regular basis.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
 The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, directed to family law attorneys and their clients. He explains the importance of recommending clients patriciate in Family Court Services (FCS) preparation services. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides information about what can go wrong if clients skip FCS preparation.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses how FCS preparation benefits both the custody case and the child. Additionally, he provides tips to get ready for one's FCS custody mediation session. This discussion includes insights to help parents walk into their FCS session confident and provide important information to the court.  

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
 The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, the 5 biggest myths to child custody. He explains why these myths persist and why they are false. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides information about how to break through these myths and how the court decides child custody matters. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses how to focus on the best interest of your child and not allowing social media to control how you focus on your court matter. Additionally, he talks about how parents should create a parenting plan for their children. This discussion includes specific examples of how to bust the 5 biggest myths to child custody.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
 The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, what happens to the custody schedule when children go back to school. He explains why back to school is a common stress point. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides information about how to structure school year custody schedules. 

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses how to prepare your custody schedule regarding extra-curricular activities and homework. Additionally, he talks about how to improve co-parenting skills and communication between parents. This discussion includes using shared calendars and co-parenting apps. Attorney Victor talks about reducing stress for your child and yourself.

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, understanding parenting plan mediation what parent needs to know about. He explains what a parenting plan typically consists of. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides information about what makes parenting plan mediation so important.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he discusses how to prepare for mediation. Additionally, he talks about common sticking points parents might face when developing a parenting plan and how to resolve those during their parenting plan mediation session. Attorney Victor talks about his perspective as a child custody mediator. 

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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In this podcast episode, San Diego divorce and child custody attorney and mediator, Brian A. Victor discusses child custody matters; specifically, why mediation often leads to better outcomes in custody cases. He explains the mediation process and important reasons why mediation works. Additionally, Attorney Victor provides information about situations where mediation may not be the best choice, but it can still achieve a positive outcome.

Listen to Attorney Brian A. Victor as he delves into understanding mediation in a child custody context. Attorney Victor talks about his perspective as a child custody mediator. He further discusses focuses on the best interests of your child. 

Attorney Brian A. Victor has experience both in the field of psychology as well as in divorce and child custody in San Diego. He worked at Family Court Services in San Diego for more than 11 years where he created and recommended to family court judges parenting plans for parents unable to reach agreement on a child custody plan. Attorney Victor is also a licensed Marriage Family Therapist in California. He is an Adjunct Professor of Law at Purdue Global Law School.

Divorce and Child Custody Discussion with Attorney Brian A. Victor was named one of the Top 15 Child Custody Podcasts You Must Follow by Feedspot and one of the Top 100 Divorce Podcasts, one of the Top 40 Mediation Podcasts, and number 2 in a list of the Top 30 Child Custody Podcasts by Million Podcasts.

Remember to subscribe to Attorney Victor’s podcast on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Deezer, Podchaser and wherever you listen to your podcasts so as not to miss any important discussions regarding divorce and child custody.
The information provided in this podcast is to inform rather than to provide therapeutic or legal advice and nothing in this podcast creates an attorney-client relationship. 

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