Divorce Source Radio

Divorce is difficult on children at any age. The psychological effects of divorce on children are more extreme when they're forced to endure a long, drawn-out custody battle. These children suffer from a variety of psychological problems like denial, guilt, low self-esteem, physical problems, depression, anger, panic, destructive or even criminal behavior.

Dr. Larry Friedberg is our guest and discusses ways to help your children through your divorce. You will learn: How to tell your children about your divorce, How to help them with their shared living arrangements and Find ways to make this an easier transition for the entire family.

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Divorce is a complex and traumatic experience for most people. The so called "simple" divorce is all too rare.

Although most divorces don't end up in a trial, there are alternatives to an acrimonious and combative divorce.

On this program, we take a look at ways to get you through the divorce process with less stress and come out the other side with less animosity towards your ex.

Attorney, Henry Gornbein, discusses Alternate Dispute Resolution. Learn how Facilitative Mediation and Collaborative Law can be a viable option to a traditional divorce and help couples retain control over their lives.

If children are involved, keeping a harmonious relationship after divorce should be one of primary concerns and ADR offers a means of maintaining an amicable relationship with your ex as opposed to doing battle and growing further apart during a litigious traditional divorce.

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Dealing with child custody and visitation is one of the most difficult aspects of getting divorced. Divorce and child custody cases are often sensitive and emotional matters.

In this program, we'll discuss The different types of child custody, child support, and visitation. Attorney, Henry Gornbein, will explain how you can step back from your anger and do what's in the best interest of your children. Henry also emphasizes not wasting your your financial resources through unnecessary litigation.

Henry explains how to have a "game-plan" and provides a step-by-step guide to prepare you for your divorce and child custody case. This is a very important program for anyone divorcing with children. Visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com for more information.

Divorce is an emotional experience. Learn how to make the process easier by selecting the proper attorney. Henry Gornbein, an attorney and expert of over 40 years in family law, is interviewed and provides helpful information for those entering divorce. For more information, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com.

The second episode of Divorce Source Radio explores the emotional side of divorce.

Divorce is a stressful and unsettling situation. Over 50% of first marriages end in divorce, and the number increases to 67% for second marriages.

Renowned psychologist, Dr. Larry Friedberg, is interviewed and we learn: How Communication Breaks Down in Relationships, How to Work Through your Divorce with Less Stress, How to Protect Your Children from Personal Arguments With Your Spouse and we discuss Controlling Personalities.

For more information on Dr. Larry Friedberg, visit www.DrLarryFriedberg.com. For more programs and information on our show, visit www.DivorceSourceRadio.com or email us at [email protected]

Why is it so hard to end an affair?

Once a hurt spouse discovers their spouse is having an affair often and for good reason the hurt spouse demands that the affair be ended immediately. This is not an unreasonable expectation but it is one that may take some time. In this podcast we discuss some of the reasons why ending the affair may take some time and what the hurt partner can do in the meantime. The solution is not always to end the marriage or committed relationship.

David's Terminology and Definitions:

Hurt Partner – The partner in the relationship who has been "cheated" on

Participating Partner – The partner that having the affair

Affair Partner – The partner outside the relationship in the affair with the Participating Partner

For more on David Feder visit his website, Close Connections at: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

At Close Connections we are determined to guide you through to the other side of infidelity. We are committed to help you live an extraordinary life, whether it be together or apart. And while you're there, be sure to sign up for David's FREE Newsletter to receive helpful articles, resources, and more right to your email inbox. (We never share your address with anyone.)

In this week's podcast, Stacy talks with New York Divorce attorney Chaim Steinberger - a passionate believer in "divorce without destruction", as he shares his unique perspective on how women can find the right lawyer to represent them. Chaim went through his own rather nasty divorce and said to himself, "There's got to be a better way!"

Finding an attorney who truly cares about you, fully understands your story, and is driven to bring you justice is just some of the useful advice Chaim shares during the show. You'll also learn:

• Why a win/win,"Game Theory" approach to divorce is preferable to a zero sum game strategy [2:46]
• The four most important factors women should consider when choosing a divorce attorney [6:53]
• How there seems to be a disconnect between what women really want from a divorce attorney vs. what attorneys think they want [12:10]
• Why the best lawyers not only listen to their clients' divorce stories, but fully understand the subtext of their story. [17:40]
• Why the single greatest determinant of a case's outcome is whether or not the lawyer truly believes in their gut of the justice of the case. [24:55]
• Why good lawyers never lie, but great lawyers are masters of spin control who expertly weave together the facts to create a compelling case. [27:40]

Links to items mentioned in this podcast:

Article - "Divorce without Destruction"https://thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com/divorce-without-destruction/

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: [email protected]

Chaim Steinberger | W: www.thenewyorkdivorcelawyers.com P: (212) 964-6100 E: [email protected]

This week on Financially Ever After, Stacy is joined by "The Divorcierge," Karen Bigman. Karen's background includes both an M.B.A. and Divorce and Life Coach training, making her a powerful source of practical and tactical divorce advice.

In addition, Karen also brings personal pre- and post- divorce experience to her work. In this conversation, she shares lessons learned in working with the wrong financial advisor, and how women facing divorce can find the right financial advisor for them.

Some of the highlights Karen offers include:

• The clues that her financial advisor didn't understand her lifestyle and her plans for her financial future, and wasn't really hearing her. [7:20]
• How a lack of transparency around fees, taxes and portfolio makeup affected her income expectations. [10:55]
• The importance of asking the right questions when interviewing a financial advisor (see link below for a list of questions provided by Francis Financial) [17:05]
• Why choosing your advisor based solely on a friend's recommendation can be a bad idea.. [27:40]
• The surprisingly emotional process of moving to a new advisor, and how rewarding it was in the end. [30:08]

For more information on Karen, and additional resources from this show:

Karen Bigman | W: thedivorcierge.com P: (646) 612-7800 E: [email protected]

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: [email protected]

Links to items mentioned in this podcast:

• Questions to ask a financial advisor: https://francisfinancial.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/11/Questions-to-Ask-a-Potential-Advisor.pdf

As a Master Money Coach for professional women, Carrie is living her passion to empower women with the skills and knowledge to save and build wealth. As she so brilliantly states it, "With wealth, women gain an equal vote in the world, build security and control and have choices about how they want to live."

Listen in as Carrie shares some incredible insights regarding the deep and complex relationship between emotions and money behaviors, and learn:

• How Carrie's work as a money coach differs from that of a financial adviser: Dealing with the money emotions that drive money behaviors [4:50]
• Why so many professional women are earning real money but are not acquiring real wealth (hint: It's not their fault!), and how so many layers of societal "stuff" get between women and money. [9:00]
• How being "selfish" with money is an act of self-care. [14:30]
• Why taking the time to fill out a happiness chart is the first, and possibly the most important step on the road to financial empowerment, and how comparison destroys joy [18:19]
• And more!

Links to items mentioned in this podcast:

Receive your free money profile here: http://www.behavioralcents.com/my-money-behaviors/

Download your free happiness chart here: http://info.behavioralcents.com/happiness-chart

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: (212) 374-9008 E: [email protected]

Carrie Rattle | W: http://www.behavioralcents.com P: (914) 923-6081 E: [email protected]

This week, Stacy is joined by Barbara Huson, a leading authority on the connection between women, wealth, and power. Along with being an experienced financial coach and speaker, Barbara has published 6 books, applying the wisdom she gained in her journey through 2 divorces, to empower millions of women. Her ultimate goal is to help individuals live up to their financial and personal potential, in spite of the challenging experience of divorce, and she offers personal stories and tips to help and inspire others to succeed.

In this episode, you will learn about:

• What inspired Barbara to help women get savvy about money (3:08)
• How to key into the spiritual side of money (6:01)
• The three levels of financial development to create wealth (12:25)
• The relationship between money, gender, self-worth, and social change (13:19)
• Myths about money and how to create a new mindset (17:29)
• How to identify and change your ideas of gender roles around money (20:20)
• Getting in touch with your emotions (22:14)
• Support groups and how to create new habits when you are going through divorce (23:58)
• Stepping out of your comfort zone (28:12)
• Resources for financial support (29:46)

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

Barbara Huson | W: www.barbara-huson.com P: (360) 385-0600 E: [email protected]

Visit her website to gain immediate access to her FREE e-book, So You've Made Good Money…Now What?