Divorce Source Radio

Your relationship, what you do with it and how you look after it should never be taken lightly. This is especially true after discovering infidelity and when choosing the right therapist is critical. Finding a therapist who is knowledgeable about infidelity, who is a good fit for you and who believes in what you want to achieve through the therapeutic process is critical. David Feder says that " an important predictor of a positive outcome in therapy is the fit between the therapist and the client and to this end clients should interview a therapist before beginning therapy."

In this episode of BEYOND INFIDELITY David talks about:

• Why it is important to find the right therapist?
• Asking the therapist about their experience in treating infidelity?
• Asking whether the therapist has personal been impacted by an affair and how their experience may affect treatment?
• Whether it is OK to ask the therapist about the model they use to treat infidelity? and
• Asking the therapist about what they consider to be a good outcome of therapy?

For more information on David Feder, visit www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

Your spouse or partner had or is having an affair and your reaction is a cocktail of emotions that probably includes a combination of shock, rage, disbelief, anger, sadness and fear. However, you might also be blaming yourself. Logically, you know that you can't be responsible for a choice you did not make but emotionally you believe that somehow it was your fault. Instead of sending yourself good messages, your mantra is now, "I must not have been enough" and "if I would only have…". You become powerless and a victim. This podcast is about taking back your power. This podcast is about getting unstuck and not being a victim. This podcast is about taking back control of your life so you can heal and move on.

For more on David, visit www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

This week, Stacy is joined by matrimonial attorneys and Certified Divorce Financial Analysts, Lisa Zeiderman and Faith Miller. It was their own difficult divorces that their path to a career in matrimonial law was forged. They recognize that organization, responsiveness and knowledge of complex finances is necessary in order to best advocate for their clients. In this episode, Stacy, Lisa and Faith focus on the financial, real estate and emotional assistance a matrimonial attorney provides. You will gain insight on:

ü Postponing getting divorced until a maintenance alimony is not taxable to you (05:07)

ü Poor financial mistakes being made regardless of guidance (07:56)

ü Reassuring your child in a non-expensive way (11:40)

ü What not to put in your joint account (15:54)

ü The difference between passive appreciation and active appreciation (19:42)

ü How finances are different from your parents' generation (23:25)

ü Prenups and Postnups (42:05)

Lisa Zeiderman | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: [email protected]

Faith Miller | W: https://mzwnylaw.com/ P: 212-324-3707 E: [email protected]

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

Affair expert, David Feder interviews a "hurt" partner of an affair in this three part series. Affairs are never easy. In this episode we hear from on of Davids clients as she bravely discusses the details of her husband's affair.

For more on David visit: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

Affair expert, David Feder interviews a "hurt" partner of an affair in this three part series. Affairs are never easy. In this episode we hear from on of Davids clients as she bravely discusses the details of her husband's affair.

For more on David visit: www.MyLifeAfterAnAffair.com.

This week, Stacy is joined by Joy Loverde, a consultant on active aging and the elder-care industry. She's the author of, "Who Will Take Care of Me When I'm Old" and "The Complete Eldercare Planner." It's important to think about what you can be doing to age as active and happy as possible.

In this episode, Joy highlights how important it is to have an insurance policy that will allow you to remain independent. In order to support family, women are constantly putting their own financial well-being in jeopardy. What you may fail to realize is if you can't take care of yourself, you won't be able to take care of those dependent on you. You will gain insight on:

• What to put in a long-term plan (05:18)
• Medicare (05:55)
• Insurance policies for long-term care and what isn't covered in Medicare (12:20)
• Spousal discount on your long-term care (12:20)
• Community and Caring (16:55)

Joy Loverde | W: www.elderindustry.com E: [email protected]

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

This week Stacy is joined by successful business woman, Jenny Powers. Jenny married her childhood sweetheart and then found herself filing for divorce, mainly due to issues around money.

When Jenny's divorce attorney asked her basic questions related to her financial situation and she realized she couldn't answer them, she decided things needed to change. Jenny is someone who has learned from her mistakes and is now happily re-married and having smart money conversations with her husband.

In this episode, Stacy and Jenny will share helpful tips on how to have the money conversation with your partner. Jenny shares her insight on all of the below questions:

• Do you feel like your ex-husband had a handle on the household finances? (04:34)
• Do you feel that the lack of conversation about money led to your decision about the divorce? (06:29)
• How long did your divorce take? (08:46)
• How did you choose a lawyer? (11:12)
• How did you manage to support yourself afterwards? (12:36)
• What did you take away from your marriage regarding finances? (15:33)
• What is your strategy in your new marriage? (21:08)

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

Jenny Powers | W: http://www.running-with-heels.com/

Nationally recognized transitional life strategist, author, keynote, and reinvention expert, Randi Levin joins Stacy this week on Financially Ever After.

Randi's core belief is that women have the choice and the power to carve out and curate their own legacy based on embracing their ongoing evolution. This inspiring episode is for individuals who are going through a major life transition and are struggling with how to navigate it.

Stacy and Randi stress how "Now" is the time to start your new chapter with no regrets, especially if you find yourself sacrificing the things you enjoy for the sake of others. You will gain insight on:

• How you can stand up and take care of yourself first (10:05)
• How to own your past and not feel like it needs to be erased (13:14)
• How to move forward in your life with more courage and less fear (16:25)
• The blocks that hold you back when contemplating divorce (23:38)

We guarantee you will leave this podcast episode feeling fulfilled and empowered. Visit Randi's website for upcoming workshops and more information on tools to help you navigate difficult life transitions.

Randi Levin | W: www.randilevincoaching.com P: 201-803-1333 E: [email protected]

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

Nationally recognized transitional life strategist, author, keynote, and reinvention expert, Randi Levin joins Stacy this week on Financially Ever After.

Randi's core belief is that women have the choice and the power to carve out and curate their own legacy based on embracing their ongoing evolution. This inspiring episode is for individuals who are going through a major life transition and are struggling with how to navigate it.

Stacy and Randi stress how "Now" is the time to start your new chapter with no regrets, especially if you find yourself sacrificing the things you enjoy for the sake of others. You will gain insight on:

• How you can stand up and take care of yourself first (10:05)
• How to own your past and not feel like it needs to be erased (13:14)
• How to move forward in your life with more courage and less fear (16:25)
• The blocks that hold you back when contemplating divorce (23:38)

We guarantee you will leave this podcast episode feeling fulfilled and empowered. Visit Randi's website for upcoming workshops and more information on tools to help you navigate difficult life transitions.

Randi Levin | W: www.randilevincoaching.com P: 201-803-1333 E: [email protected]

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]

This week Stacy is joined by successful business woman, Lara Kisielewska. You will gain insight on a whole new, cheaper and quicker approach to divorce. Do It Yourself (DYI) is a technique that eliminates the need to hire outside professionals, making the process extremely cost-effective. Lara met her current husband on a volunteer trip and highly recommends volunteer based travel as one of the best things you can do when you find yourself in a rut. She claims, "you may not find a husband, but you're definitely going to break your patterns, get a new perspective and heal in some ways large and small."

In this episode, we will focus on:

ü When you should use a DIY approach (04:42)

ü Where to get a DIY guidebook (11:16)

ü Who is the DIY approach most suitable for? (12:45)

ü How does having children impact this decision? (18:34)

ü Tips and tricks when going through divorce (29:55)

Stacy Francis | W: www.francisfinancial.com P: 212-374-9008 E: [email protected]