Divorce Talk With Nicola Beer

There are many reasons why marriages break down and it's rarely just one. Usually it's a culmination of events and behaviors, that stir up negative feelings. In my practice alcohol "issues" come up frequently. Occasionally it is when a spouse doesn't agree with their partners drinking for religious reasons, more often than not though it's about the amount someone drinks, how frequently they drink and their behavior whilst under the influence. So when does drinking become a problem in a marriage? Is it when the drinker recognizes they have a dependency? Is it when the non-drinker says they have a problem? Is it when the drinking is interfering with the relationship? We will discuss in this episode. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

I'm currently working with a couple in the U.S who are struggling to communicate and connect after their son was born. Like many couples they thought that when their baby was born they would be closer than ever. Instead 18 months later, they feel frustrated with one another and like they are drifting apart. Sadly this is a common occurrence, in fact the highest risk of divorce is when children are between 1-5 years old. I've outlined some of the most common problems and how to get through them united and stronger. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

Time can be a big source of conflict in relationships. When you get married “your time” also becomes “their time” and if you have children then you need to also schedule in “family time” and of course time for family chores and all the other errands you need to run. Many couples I speak to are feeling so busy and stressed by feeling pulled in multiple directions that the quality of the marriage is declining. Perhaps you can relate? Are you both so busy with work, the children and your own interests that you can go for days without having a real conversation? Do you now only discuss financials and children's activities? And what about your physical intimacy? Is bedtime now only for sleeping? Arguments over how time is spent, is fairly common in relationships in this episode I will share 5 good ways to ensure you and your marriage is protected. Looking for more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

Infidelity, Affair Recovery - How Long Does it Take to Recover from a Cheating Wife or Cheating Husband? In this episode I will go through the most common stages of affair recovery.

If you have had an affair but have regrets and hope to save your marriage, don't let another mistake-ridden day go by without reading some of these tips. Or, if you are the betrayed spouse and your cheating wife or husband unintentionally keeps on hurting you in their attempts to make you feel better, put this episode in their in their hands. Looking For more tips to improve your marriage? Get the FREE Report - 7 Secrets to Saving Your Marriage! And learn: • The 6 Essential Keys to Keeping a Marriage Happy • How to Increase Love, Happiness and Passion in your marriage in less than 2 weeks! • How to Motivate and Inspire Your Spouse To Change • How to Overcome Past Hurt, Resentment, so You can Rebuild Respect & Trust Get the 7 Secrets Now - http://savemymarriageprogram.com/7-secrets

After the honeymoon period in a relationship is over, and our partner raises complaints about us, or does things we don't agree with or is somehow absent, we often start to make or draw slightly negative conclusions about them or the relationship. Typically it starts off as a thought one day, but if their actions continue to match it, we can start to think that way about the relationship or them. Negative thinking doesn't only affect you, it can kill connection, communication and passion, if the thought patterns become habitual.

Jane Duncan Rogers wrote her memoir Gifted By Grief: A True Story of Cancer, Loss and Rebirth 3 years after her husband died and now is passionate about enabling the western world to become more comfortable with the thought of dying and loss.

She is committed to guiding people to the relief and peace of mind that comes from having faced up to the impact of loss in their lives, whether it be from death or from divorce.

With over 25 years of experience working in the personal growth, psychotherapeutic and coaching fields, Jane is really well-placed to deal with these sensitive subject.

Visit her website and download her free Before I Go Quiz http://giftedbygrief.com/

Brian Brunkow is a San Diego-based lawyer, sports parenting coach, and author of Zero Offseason – a guidebook on divorce & effective & “sane” sports parenting.

With a background in family law and coaching youth football, Brian’s focus is helping divorced parents collaborate on the “ABC’s of divorce & effective sports parenting.”

When time and money is used as a weapon in divorce, the “ABC’s” (Aligning Goals, Following the Best Interests Standard & Controlling Controllables) encourage parents to stay focused on helping kids develop life skills thru positive youth sports experiences

Brian may be reached at [email protected] for personal coaching on divorce & effective sports parenting.

Nicola Beer is an International Relationship & Divorce Coach, Best-selling Author that supports individuals to minimize the stress and pain of divorce.

For more free resources visit www.purepeacecoaching.com to get your copy of free e-books "Protect Children Through Divorce" and "10 Steps to Creating a New Life After Divorce"

From the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protect them children may feel confused, frustrated and scared. No parent going through or coming out of divorce needs the added stress, anxiety and worry of how their actions are negatively affecting their children.

I've worked with families where children have found out about affairs, been caught up in custody battles and where the parents amicably and peacefully explain that they just don't love each other anymore. In all cases many parents struggle when it comes to knowing what to say and how to explain it. Whilst what to say depends on the circumstances, their age, gender, maturity and culture; over the years I have found it beneficial to use the universal laws to help parents minimize the damage their children experience.

Wouldn't it mean the world to you to see the children in your life not only survive but thrive through any marriage problems, separation and divorce?

Of course it would.

This is possible through teaching them the universal laws.

So much has been written about the law of attraction and abundance; rightly so, they are powerful. Yet the other laws are equally beneficial, I cover the best 5 universal laws to use when helping children and their parents through separation and divorce:

#1 The Law of Growth

#2 The Law of Acceptance

#3 The Law of Polarity

#4 The Law of Oneness

#5 The Law of Relativity

I also list engaging exercises for each law you can do with children to demonstrate the law's power.

This is part two of two - from my heart to yours Nicola - www.purepeacecoaching.com

From the Amazon Best Seller - I read you my chapter which is designed to inspire parents help their children through separation. We all know that marriage breakdown, separation and divorce is stressful and painful time for all involved, especially children. Despite parents best efforts to protect them children may feel confused, frustrated and scared. No parent going through or coming out of divorce needs the added stress, anxiety and worry of how their actions are negatively affecting their children.

I've worked with families where children have found out about affairs, been caught up in custody battles and where the parents amicably and peacefully explain that they just don't love each other anymore. In all cases many parents struggle when it comes to knowing what to say and how to explain it. Whilst what to say depends on the circumstances, their age, gender, maturity and culture; over the years I have found it beneficial to use the universal laws to help parents minimize the damage their children experience.

Wouldn't it mean the world to you to see the children in your life not only survive but thrive through any marriage problems, separation and divorce?

Of course it would.

This is possible through teaching them the universal laws.

So much has been written about the law of attraction and abundance; rightly so, they are powerful. Yet the other laws are equally beneficial, I cover the best 5 universal laws to use when helping children and their parents through separation and divorce:

#1 The Law of Growth

#2 The Law of Acceptance

#3 The Law of Polarity

#4 The Law of Oneness

#5 The Law of Relativity

I also list engaging exercises for each law you can do with children to demonstrate the law's power.

This is part one of two - from my heart to yours Nicola - www.purepeacecoaching.com